Oh my gosh.... I wish I had the will to write out this whole (other) escapade...
I had a guy that was becoming a woman had a crush on me and had not taken her hormones and was on a tip of fury.. His family was an actual legacy black magic family... oh man. If a 9 year old tried to beat you up, your main concern would be that you didn't hurt them, but after a while, you might want to drop the hammer... that whole thing went on for several years, and there was actual black magic involved... nothing too heavy, but it was a hassle, to say the least. Often magicy people are paranoid against other people's magic, and create problems through their countering potential, but imaginary adversaries.