Why do gay guys usually have a circle of female friends?

Yes, but people are generalizing on this thread. Many have female friends only but there is another large percentage of gays that only have gay male friends and don’t like women

I’m gay and prefer straight male friends

I had a few gay male friends and still keep in touch with one of them - he's a really nice guy. We did fun things like meet up once a week to go to dinner or brunch. A lot of them liked to hang out in the historical district where I lived where there was a lot of interesting cultural activity. We had a lot in common in those areas. Most of the time, I was the only female attending dinners and events that were gay male centric.

The gay friends I had were not activist types - in fact, we never talked about our significant others intimate relations. I don't even do that with my straight girlfriends. The media is largely responsible for portraying that people always talk about sex with one another - media attempting to culturally, socially engineer.

I also have a lesbian acquaintance and she's married to a woman. She's a scientist and she talks more about that and her children than she does about LGBT topics.

I noticed the few gay friends I have are oddly quiet in all of this recent culture shift. I sense even they are sick of the LGBT being pushed down everyone's throat. There are even gays who are speaking out against the push of making perversions mainstream and cringe at how their lifestyle is being weaponized against traditional values.

Also, the gay guys I knew had some things to say about one another in the LGBT community and the different nuances, cultures within their community. Most of them thought there was something wrong with transgender, that there are only 2 genders. Also, it was explained to me that transgender is different than drag - that drag was more about performance and being on stage. I also heard gay males stating they didn't like hanging out with lesbians because there was too much drama - often in the form of physical violence.

Anyway, long story short, my gay friends function in society much like everyone else, they kept their intimate details private, they weren't trying to recruit anyone or force their lifestyle onto anyone and they didn't act like some sort of 'gay persona stereotype'.

The 'gay best friend stereotype'


Here is a drag queen speaking out against introducing children to drag and even he states it's perverted to do so:

When I lived in Amsterdam my best friend and employer was straight. I like straight men ‘cause they are real men with generally with relaxed attitude and no drama

Women are too much drama the same as gay men

They enjoy the evil joy of gossip

There are many gay men that despise effeminate gay men

We don’t always have that… what ends up happening these days is there are a lot of females in 30s-40s that are single and will always be so they kind of become our adopted ladies to take care of because no man is right now… the stereotype from the 90s of the gay best friend really isn’t realistic or right , especially today … I’m def a gay guy that just prefers men all the way around. Even some of the more effeminate gay guys are just easier to be around than a lot of the drama many females bring around

^this

Witches have animal familiars, gays have women familiars. Gays are super good at breaking up hetero couples and disrupting healthy lives. Misery loves company so women and gays are like peas in a pod.

Gay men are only friends with attractive women

You dont see them hanging out with fat middle-aged women

They get along becos young attractive women & gays are both after Alpha males

Attractive woman are Alpha male magnets

Like in the play-- Suddenly last Summer by Tennessee Williams
Where the Gay guy uses Elizabeth Taylor to attract young men for him to seduce

I also think that its mainly sexually abused women who have gay male friends
As gays have also been sexually abused--there's an understanding

I have a "girl" as a friend and definitely don't want to fuck her. She's 70 and fat, but she likes to help people and has money.

You can be just friends with a girl if she's sufficiently undesirable physically.

That may be true. My GF glazes over when I talk about SpaceX SuperHeavy and maximum dynamic pressure.

It's no secret that many girls want it up the ass. It seems to tickle something inside and they get off on it, usually after having normal vaginal sex. They also won't get pregnant from ass sex unless they get drippings down and forward.

I don't think most gays will prong them either way, but I'm not a girl and don't know. Of course, some gays will fuck anything.

I have many male gay friends. They are fun and happy.

Coaching the females.

Wow! Never heard that last hypothesis before and it makes sense!
Also, I have found myself pissed off lately at the gay men who feel they have to brag about sleeping with straight men. It's IS almost like they are telling.toi straight up that they're going to try to steal YOUR man.
The problem with that is, well fuck you Sally or anyone who is actively trying to steal my man.
Either he wants you too, in which case he can have him as I will no longer want him for myself anyway, or, I'ma have to kick your fucking ass.

Because gay guys want nothing from them

Did you ever figure out how many your wife had?

Oh?! Das fagg haggs!!

This is interesting. As a straight man, all the things you do with your gay friends are beyond boring! Eating in restaurants, watching "shows", history and "culture" are all disgustingly horrible things to endure. The only reason to go through such things is for the intimate touch of a hot girl. I'd much rather analyze stresses on vehicle parts than endure "culture" or "art".

not a lie

it's been over 40 years

Yep, power again...

They have an instant common interest...DICK!

This.

They are femmes and prefer femme stuff like chick flicks. Girls night out.

Dudes talk about cars hunting and sports. Gay dudes like make up and decorations and shopping.

When all else would fail, how many SIMPS would pretend to be gay, to get close to a hot girl? To have her change clothes in front of him while he films her with this phone?

"Oh don't mind me, I'm just texting this guy I'm seeing. I just can't believe how GAY I am! By the way, you should try on different bras and panties, too."

Would you put it past a SIMP? The hotter the girl is, the more you should question his true intentions. It should be a dead giveaway if he looks at her like a fat kid drooling at a bag of Halloween candy, when her attention is elsewhere.

I've used this to my advantage. I don't pretend to be gay at all, and act completely straight because I am. But I do play up my second life as a real and true artist - Photography, video, music, modeling (the women).

Women love being the center of attention, and both artists and gays do 1 thing that most striaght men do not. Artists and Gays both make women the center of thier attention. It's all about ego.

You can double the intensity of this by asking them to play different roles. Different clothes, make up styles, scenes and situations, locations, lights and settings. You make them feel like models, and they suddenly are dripping wet with desire.

Lol, I love that stuff. One of the guys has a Master of Architecture degree (from an art school) and I found his knowledge on the subject fascinating. I loved listening to him and the way he made me think of history, culture and it's reflection on architecture. He wrote a book, has been published in magazines and organizes historical tours.

All of them?

Probably. Either they exaggerate it with friends, or reduce it when at church.

My cousin's wife was a f-g hag. and it produced problems in their mail offspring. Big Oof.