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I'm 45 and fortunately have only a few white strands.

My hair is very dark brown, and I hope to be able to get away with letting it go naturally.

I haven't dyed or highlighted my hair since high school, and I definitely don't want to start.

We'll see. hf
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I color my hair because the color of gray I have is ugly. If it came in a nice silver or white I would keep it. I actually asked to have my hair dyed all grey as to look like I’m 53 but that’s too damaging to do to my hair so let’s not say that people that dye their hair ate liars. That’s a bit of a stretch wouldn’t you say?
 Quoting: Ohio chic


I don't color mine because it is naturally dark and grows too fast. It is too expensive to have it done by a professional. I don't care that much about my looks.

I wish I had a picture from someone I met on my last job. We were the same age. No one would believe it. She colored her hair and kept herself up. She always looked nice. She looked 15 or 20 years younger than myself. She was also more sucessful than myself.

I don't care what OP says. Looks matter. If you feel prettier or younger by coloring your hair. Color it. It gives you more confidence, makes you a happier person.

Yes, looks do matter.
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Don’t forget bald assholes.

They always bitch about other people’s hair.
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I'm 45 and fortunately have only a few white strands.

My hair is very dark brown, and I hope to be able to get away with letting it go naturally.

I haven't dyed or highlighted my hair since high school, and I definitely don't want to start.

We'll see. hf
 Quoting: SugarSand


My brown did not make a pretty gray.

I really hate to see anyone under 30 or 35 color their hair. (Well, I can understand the blond thing.) They are caught in that cycle for the rest of their lives. Growing it out is a pain. At that age, because it is natural, it is beautiful. I was lucky. Mine was brown with natural reddish highlights in the sun but there is that "dirty dishwater blond" that does need some help. Mine was hard to keep color in it as I got older. It was hard to match the natural color.

But hey, do what you want, whatever makes you feel good about yourself.
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Whenever my man says anything about my hair I say, "Shutup baldie!" chuckle
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It has never bothered me but I've had two thick streaks of grey from my temples since I was about twelve. Lots of men find it attractive. When all of the grey hair craze started, women would ask who dyed my hair.

I've tried dying my hair a couple times and end up upset each time. I would say probably 5 times in not quite forty years.

I have very young skin, but people are stupid so when they see the grey they add ten to fifteen years to your age. I was surprised when I first learned this, but it didn't matter to me. It reflected more upon the person who asked if I was that age than my own age.

I've also never worn much makeup. Husband is retired military now but when we went to balls I would use a little rouge and mascara, but nothing more. I can't stand the feel of those chemicals on my skin, and they usually cause skin issues to boot.

In general, all the things people do to change themselves from natural poison them. Even the soaps most use are poison. I started making soap a couple years ago to get away from that as well.

Yes, people who dye their hair and use makeup are lying to themselves and others. But it's a global norm and standard. You're not going to make any friends pointing this out, but you'll know what to expect of those who do these things. Maybe if I found another woman who didn't do these things I could have a true friend instead of the superficial "friend" most are.
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I mean, there are many studies that support that “attractive” people do gain favor, preference, power, have more friends, more money, and the trust of others in almost all aspects of life more so than unattractive people. Being or seeking to be more attractive provides a benefit overall because it grants the person so many advantages in life. I feel like if someone makes efforts to change physically to gain the things listed above, they’re just doing what any creature would naturally want to do. It wouldn’t be a natural disposition or a strategically sound idea to want to look less attractive than you could be by “laying it all out there”-camouflage is much more beneficial for a person’s well-being. It is not a natural to want to have more enemies, be more powerless, be more perceived as old or unhealthy, to be less-trusted, to not want special advantages in life. So I guess I’m saying I don’t blame them or hold it against anyone who fights against age related hair changes. They’re just swimming in the same bowl as the rest of us, hoping for an easier ride. Fish swim in schools for a reason, man. Beauty and truth are sisters. Each sing a different harmonic part to the same song. A healthy society strives for beauty.
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Correct. People respond to the positive or negative feedback from others, and it is normal and natural to want to be a pleasing sight to others and get that positive feedback. And it probably is also part of our survival instinct.
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You read that right..... It happens to us all.

Your hair as you age will begin to change.

It isn't just age that factors in though. It's also nutrient intake and health.

Regardless, nutrient intake can't prevent hair color change *as you age; typically from dark color to grey or white.

It is predominately age related. It happens to all humans.

It's funny when people attempt to stay the natural ravages of time that indicate age.

Just dye it and lie about what is happening to you........

It's a vanity thing.

Those who attempt to hide their age show they are willing to lie, not only to themselves, but, also to others.

They seek to hide their true self instead of embrace the change they are going through. They attempt to remain relevant by portraying themselves as still in the class of a juvenile individual.

Natural age related hair change is for the purpose of establishing someone's age and or life experience and expectancy.

You can have your hair turn white overnight by an extremely stressful occurrence.... Your bodies reaction that signifies a biological change to your experiences.

A stress related response.

People who artificially change their hair color are vain.

They put a front on for vain reasons. They wish to maintain any allure they might have had that age tends to negate.

The seek to remain valid for a variety of reasons by their deception. They don't like who they are. They seek to be someone else as viewed in the eyes of others.

They seek validation elsewhere and from others, instead if within.

If this were not so.........they would accept the change rather than attempt to sway it.
 Quoting: Osmium76


Not really.

I think we all know the 50 year old without any grey/silver is dying their hair.

I don't care. Their choice. Some shades of silver are absolutely beautiful, some shades of grey are not. Whatever .....

I worry more about the screeching, tantrum throwing crayola heads.
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I mean, there are many studies that support that “attractive” people do gain favor, preference, power, have more friends, more money, and the trust of others in almost all aspects of life more so than unattractive people. Being or seeking to be more attractive provides a benefit overall because it grants the person so many advantages in life. I feel like if someone makes efforts to change physically to gain the things listed above, they’re just doing what any creature would naturally want to do. It wouldn’t be a natural disposition or a strategically sound idea to want to look less attractive than you could be by “laying it all out there”-camouflage is much more beneficial for a person’s well-being. It is not a natural to want to have more enemies, be more powerless, be more perceived as old or unhealthy, to be less-trusted, to not want special advantages in life. So I guess I’m saying I don’t blame them or hold it against anyone who fights against age related hair changes. They’re just swimming in the same bowl as the rest of us, hoping for an easier ride. Fish swim in schools for a reason, man. Beauty and truth are sisters. Each sing a different harmonic part to the same song. A healthy society strives for beauty.
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Agreed.

Even animals try to flaunt appearance for social hierarchy.

Just stop judging people. If you think hair dye and make up is a feint, fine, don't associate with that person. I'm sure there are others who would think you a slob.
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I am vain. But my hair is mostly white except for the back which is mostly auburn. I dye it because it looks like I am bald if I don't.

Next week I'm going natural platinum and dying the back.

We all do what makes us feel good.
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I color my hair because the color of gray I have is ugly. If it came in a nice silver or white I would keep it. I actually asked to have my hair dyed all grey as to look like I’m 53 but that’s too damaging to do to my hair so let’s not say that people that dye their hair ate liars. That’s a bit of a stretch wouldn’t you say?
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No, I would say that you proved my point. You have low self value.

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Take care with such personal attacks. Getting close to the line on that one.
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I don’t agree. Some people alter their appearance to the extreme which I find kind of sad, but others just don’t like grey hair and would prefer to keep their hair colored. Who cares really? Does it make someone happy and to feel good- that’s great then. I don’t really find hair color such a drastic thing and certainly don’t agree with all the ideas you suggest hair coloring means. Make yourself happy and express yourself how you like- live a little, be happy, stay positive out there.
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I an a natural ginger who still has her hair color from my youth. Currently, 68+.

I have never used anything but shampoo and conditioner on my hair and only comb it, never brush.

When I was 15 and 17 I sold my hair to the person who trimmed and cut my hair all my life. They made wigs out of it. It had to be trimmed and thinned every month until it was past my butt, then it was cut.

He told me to only use baby shampoo on it while it was growing out to be used for the wigs.

AND< to "N E V E R" use a hair dryer on it! Never! OR a brush.

I have followed his advice my whole adult life. It is currently below my shoulder blades. And, still close to my teenage hair color.

For a 15, then 17 year old $150 per grow out was well worth the time and effort. And, they paid for all the trims monthly!
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I think those dyes are incredibly unhealthy. I'm okay with my hair color, and all I did when I was young was lighten it in the summer with a few drops of peroxide in a bottle of water.

My hair is pretty much dirty blonde with streaks of gray and red, natural, guess I'm lucky, but no matter what it looked like I would not use those toxic dyes, think they lead to strokes.

And I know a couple hair dressers who did some fabulous dye work who dropped of strokes. One pulled through and is back dying hair, the other didn't survive.
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When the roots grow out the dye job looks bad when you have grey hair.
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I color my hair because the color of gray I have is ugly. If it came in a nice silver or white I would keep it. I actually asked to have my hair dyed all grey as to look like I’m 53 but that’s too damaging to do to my hair so let’s not say that people that dye their hair ate liars. That’s a bit of a stretch wouldn’t you say?
 Quoting: Ohio chic


No, I would say that you proved my point. You have low self value.

1dunno1
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How old are you op?
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If someone did not care about their appearance, they would wear clothes with holes in them, never take showers, never wear deodorant of any kind…basically walk around like a smelly old bum.

That might not bother you personally to be a smelly old bum, but it might bother someone else.

There is healthy balance between looking groomed and looking like an artificially painted clown.

As Lady Jayne said, it’s someone’s choice.

Just don’t go overboard either way.
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If it gets too much while I'll start with coffee rinses first and see if that helps. Maybe that will look like highlights lol.
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Im 64 and never have had a grey hair.

In my 30s I was told I had crazy high levels of copper in my blood. Found out later that low levels correlate with grey hair.

Seemed to be the case for me anyway
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If someone did not care about their appearance, they would wear clothes with holes in them, never take showers, never wear deodorant of any kind…basically walk around like a smelly old bum.

That might not bother you personally to be a smelly old bum, but it might bother someone else.

There is healthy balance between looking groomed and looking like an artificially painted clown.

As Lady Jayne said, it’s someone’s choice.

Just don’t go overboard either way.
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You read that right..... It happens to us all.

Your hair as you age will begin to change.

It isn't just age that factors in though. It's also nutrient intake and health.

Regardless, nutrient intake can't prevent hair color change *as you age; typically from dark color to grey or white.

It is predominately age related. It happens to all humans.

It's funny when people attempt to stay the natural ravages of time that indicate age.

Just dye it and lie about what is happening to you........

It's a vanity thing.

Those who attempt to hide their age show they are willing to lie, not only to themselves, but, also to others.

They seek to hide their true self instead of embrace the change they are going through. They attempt to remain relevant by portraying themselves as still in the class of a juvenile individual.

Natural age related hair change is for the purpose of establishing someone's age and or life experience and expectancy.

You can have your hair turn white overnight by an extremely stressful occurrence.... Your bodies reaction that signifies a biological change to your experiences.

A stress related response.

People who artificially change their hair color are vain.

They put a front on for vain reasons. They wish to maintain any allure they might have had that age tends to negate.

The seek to remain valid for a variety of reasons by their deception. They don't like who they are. They seek to be someone else as viewed in the eyes of others.

They seek validation elsewhere and from others, instead if within.

If this were not so.........they would accept the change rather than attempt to sway it.
 Quoting: Osmium76


Like vaccines, not one size fits all, and neither does your analogy.

I began getting grey hairs at 19 it was genetic, I was almost entirely grey by 35 and I was too young in my mind and visage to have white hair, my kid called me grandma as did other kids the one time I let it go.

I will wait another decade until I stop dying it, my face is still relatively young and my body, my sixties are fir grey hair...
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If someone did not care about their appearance, they would wear clothes with holes in them, never take showers, never wear deodorant of any kind…basically walk around like a smelly old bum.

That might not bother you personally to be a smelly old bum, but it might bother someone else.

There is healthy balance between looking groomed and looking like an artificially painted clown.

As Lady Jayne said, it’s someone’s choice.

Just don’t go overboard either way.
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That was weird.
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Mine went from a beautiful brown to artiben.












artiben on a puts ass
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Be like a woman and over-treat it so it becomes dry and brittle.
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my brown hair and eyelashes are turning blond from the sun. great problem to have !
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My hair is turning grey - It looks awesome! I have long dark brown hair - and I have dark skin. The gray is a beautiful off white - and coming in in streaks. I've always wondered what I'd look like with white hair - and it strangly makes me look younger. I don't know if it matters - but the texture is thick and curly. Shine really matters - so keeping hair shiny helps it look better. I dislike dyed hair on women - I think it looks obvious - plus upkeep must be a nightmare. I spend zero dollars - cuz my husband trims it. We started doing our own hair during ConVid - and have kept up the habit. His hair is pure white - and he too is dark skinned (Italian) / I am mostly Azorian and a little Aboriginal and Ukrainian)). He was/is prematurely grey - it looks beautiful on him also. We both have think curly hair - and our daughter even more so. Sorry 2 blather on w/wall o' text (lol), she got the Aboriginal dna - and has an afro now (not sure if she will be prematurely grey like her dad) - she is almost 27 - and darker skinned than either of us (I think it would look beautiful on her also). There is an Instagram group of grey haired ladies - go check it out if thinking about dying your hair.

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You read that right..... It happens to us all.

Your hair as you age will begin to change.

It isn't just age that factors in though. It's also nutrient intake and health.

Regardless, nutrient intake can't prevent hair color change *as you age; typically from dark color to grey or white.

It is predominately age related. It happens to all humans.

It's funny when people attempt to stay the natural ravages of time that indicate age.

Just dye it and lie about what is happening to you........

It's a vanity thing.

Those who attempt to hide their age show they are willing to lie, not only to themselves, but, also to others.

They seek to hide their true self instead of embrace the change they are going through. They attempt to remain relevant by portraying themselves as still in the class of a juvenile individual.

Natural age related hair change is for the purpose of establishing someone's age and or life experience and expectancy.

You can have your hair turn white overnight by an extremely stressful occurrence.... Your bodies reaction that signifies a biological change to your experiences.

A stress related response.

People who artificially change their hair color are vain.

They put a front on for vain reasons. They wish to maintain any allure they might have had that age tends to negate.

The seek to remain valid for a variety of reasons by their deception. They don't like who they are. They seek to be someone else as viewed in the eyes of others.

They seek validation elsewhere and from others, instead if within.

If this were not so.........they would accept the change rather than attempt to sway it.
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Reversed his hair back from gray naturally.


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I color my hair because the color of gray I have is ugly. If it came in a nice silver or white I would keep it. I actually asked to have my hair dyed all grey as to look like I’m 53 but that’s too damaging to do to my hair so let’s not say that people that dye their hair ate liars. That’s a bit of a stretch wouldn’t you say?
 Quoting: Ohio chic


No, I would say that you proved my point. You have low self value.

1dunno1
 Quoting: Osmium76


Well, I dye mine because “I want to”, and I don’t give a flying fuck what you or anyone else thinks. I’ll also tell anyone my age if they ask, because, again, I couldn’t care less what they think.

Oh, and just an FYI - there is a LOT of age discrimination in our society, so I don’t blame people for wanting to look younger if they can. There is less and less of “respect” for age.
I don’t suffer fools or shills lightly...

Don’t gaslight me, bro.
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My hair is turning grey - It looks awesome! I tg's vrkery long - and I have dark skin. The gray is a beautiful off white - and coming in in streaks. I've always wondered what I'd look like with white hair - and it strangly makes me look younger.
 Quoting: ruser


I only have anecdotal evidence from observing the ladies I know but it seems like along with our hair color changing, our skin color changes, too.

It seems like the gray complements our aging skin, whereas a dark dye washes out aging skin that's lost its pink undertones.

My own mother was a freckled redhead who has been highlighting her hair for so long she is now a blonde. Her hair is long and thick and the color is awesome .. she gets low lights and highlights ... she really does have the best hair I've ever seen on a woman her age ...

but she spends a FORTUNE on her hair and is in the salon twice for hours a month @ age 67. And then she credits BONE BROTH, which may have a lot to do with the growth and thickness but her color is all down to years of obfuscation due to lowlights and highlights.

She still works full time, and her accountant said it seems like she is only working to keep up with the salon visits, lol.

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It shows more vanity to think you know it all and can tell others what to do or think.
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I'm 57 this week and havent coloured my hair for 4 years now

Was hoping for a full head of sparkly grey.....nope , brown hair with the white streak at the front !!!

Always had that white streak , my Mum says when my hair first came through it was there

People ask me who does my hair.....

The white hair is slightly coarser than the rest of it but I just use a nice conditioner and dry it with the hairdryer on cool - am a trained hairdresser too so kind of know the tricks of the trade

I love my natural look , I wear a natural make up but only when I go out so I feel 'different' and I enjoy taking the time to get ready

Age doesnt worry me , you can look good at any age - just need to enjoy simple things and smile a lot
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