Gabby. and the Hole in the Sidewalk. | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80073096 United States 10/02/2021 10:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
canyouhearmenow?
(OP) User ID: 77097336 United States 10/02/2021 10:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was Gabby for about a year, all it took was one punch and I was out of there with a newborn. We had been together for 10 years, no incidents. I almost turned to a Dianetics outpost at Madison Square Garden, but moved 2000 miles instead. Quoting: pool What gave you the strength to do so, and where was your destination, if you don't mind me asking? "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80073096 United States 10/02/2021 10:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What gave you the strength to do so, and where was your destination, if you don't mind me asking? Quoting: canyouhearmenow? I walked away from physical/emotional abuse in my family home, so it was a previously learned lesson to walk away. I moved to where I was hired...needed a job to support my child alone. So, that's experience, financial need, organizational skills, old friends, the need to redefine "safe environment". |
canyouhearmenow?
(OP) User ID: 77097336 United States 10/02/2021 11:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What gave you the strength to do so, and where was your destination, if you don't mind me asking? Quoting: canyouhearmenow? I walked away from physical/emotional abuse in my family home, so it was a previously learned lesson to walk away. I moved to where I was hired...needed a job to support my child alone. So, that's experience, financial need, organizational skills, old friends, the need to redefine "safe environment". It seems you had some fight in you to do all of that....and with a newborn baby. That's profoundly powerful -------> "redefining safe environment". "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
SonOfBaconator
User ID: 33470945 United States 10/02/2021 11:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was Gabby. After participating in a CIA pen pal program at a young age, multiple school oriented programs of dubious nature presented themselves or became court ordered. I was given psychotropic drugs and allowed to be taken out of state with complete strangers at a vulnerable time but made it home ok. Life took a lot of strange turns but I never ended up a psyop thankfully. Just put your toes on the top. -HB |
canyouhearmenow?
(OP) User ID: 77097336 United States 10/02/2021 11:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was Gabby. After participating in a CIA pen pal program at a young age, multiple school oriented programs of dubious nature presented themselves or became court ordered. I was given psychotropic drugs and allowed to be taken out of state with complete strangers at a vulnerable time but made it home ok. Life took a lot of strange turns but I never ended up a psyop thankfully. Quoting: SonOfBaconator What saved you? "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
Pilgrim001
User ID: 78018011 United States 10/02/2021 12:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just trying to understand. Are abusers usually Alpha type guys, or do mild mannered betas do it also? What about abused women? Do you stand in front of the tv on Super bowl sunday and want to talk about your relationship? Do you nag? Is there any known way for a woman to avoid this? Even for the 1st date? I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
canyouhearmenow?
(OP) User ID: 77097336 United States 10/02/2021 12:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm just trying to understand. Are abusers usually Alpha type guys, or do mild mannered betas do it also? Quoting: Pilgrim001 What about abused women? Do you stand in front of the tv on Super bowl sunday and want to talk about your relationship? Do you nag? Is there any known way for a woman to avoid this? Even for the 1st date? The abuse i'm referring to has nothing to do with the one being abused. It's a predilection, if you will, or a trait already present, most likely in a history of violence or tendencies before the abused one ever meets the abuser. The abuser is most likely narcissistic to one degree or another. Regarding the 1st date, the abuser is usually quite charming and flattering, etc. Last Edited by ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces on 10/02/2021 12:26 PM "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
NotStarvingActress
User ID: 80798691 United States 10/02/2021 12:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What type of woman/man ends up with an alcoholic partner? Usually one who came from a family where a "heavy drinker's" outrageous actions was ignored or consistently excused. Children learn not to RUN at the 1st signs a potential partner has a serious drinking problem. Example, In a high school all girls cooking class a classmate complained that her boyfriend had hit her after an argument. Another classmate confessed that her father frequently beat up her mother but only when he was drunk and had a hard day at work. Not one of us said that having "a hard day at work" was NO excuse for beating a partner. Not one of us told the girl to DUMP her boyfriend ASAP as his physical abuse would only get worse. He obviously thought that it was OK to hit a woman. |
ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces
(OP) User ID: 71453338 United States 10/25/2022 10:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I am learning to love the sound of my feet walking away from things not meant for me." -Author Unknown "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces
(OP) User ID: 71453338 United States 10/25/2022 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm so sorry Gabby. Last Edited by ShiningLightIntoDarkPlaces on 10/25/2022 11:15 PM "Common sense and a sense of humor are the same thing, moving at different speeds. A sense of humor is just common sense, dancing." -Clive James Miss Trump yet? LET IT RAIN. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77378236 United States 07/28/2023 02:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was Gabby. After participating in a CIA pen pal program at a young age, multiple school oriented programs of dubious nature presented themselves or became court ordered. I was given psychotropic drugs and allowed to be taken out of state with complete strangers at a vulnerable time but made it home ok. Life took a lot of strange turns but I never ended up a psyop thankfully. Quoting: SonOfBaconator i'm thankful you didn't too. |
Bob from Chimdale
User ID: 84467153 United States 07/28/2023 02:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |