OP

Your thread is timely as I am struggling with this act of both forgiving and forgetting.

I understand it is what God expects of us but some situations it seems so hard.

I did something to improve my family’s situation but it caused a problem. it was an innocent mistake, and the problem easily solved, but I was accused of being deceitful, destructive and acting out of hate. By way of background this tend to be the baseline reaction of most things I do even though time and time again I have proven the things I have done were the right approach and beneficial.

Back to the current situation the rhetoric over the next several days got even nastier and I was accused of even more crazy stuff and the next thing I know I am unable to access certain things. my partner said it was an innocent mistake but given everything that had been said to me, I felt strongly that was untrue. My partner involved their family, swore innocence and was believed. It all felt very manipulative and the incidence I described above was used as see you also made a mistake and it was innocent. I never shared the earlier situation with the family so it just feels even more that my partner behind the scenes was manipulating things.


I want to forgive and forget and I know I am also meant to ask for forgiveness. It is so hard when it all feels so manipulative