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HarMegiddo
User ID: 81958001 01/28/2022 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sit down with pen and paper & brainstorm ways to communicate. Pen pal, learn morse code/ham radio, dating websites, local community clubs & events. PeakProsperity.com is doing an annual virtual conference in the morning, I'm hosting that for example. Interests? What'd you like younger that you still like? Crafting? Jewelry? Painting? Language? Calligraphy? Creative writing? I'm sure there's a way to create a platform to screen people to meet also. Try a 30-day concerted effort plan. Think strategic, plan, implement using discipline, create your own report card. HarMegiddo |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80105356 United States 01/28/2022 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Anyone here that would ridicule you for this post is far beyond lonely, and probably mentally ill. Much love my Friend, you're not alone and you're NEVER alone here. Love the gorgeous Arctic Fox you chose btw, what a beautiful animal. I'm tempted to post pics of my beautiful fur family, lol. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 81951982 United States 01/28/2022 10:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm very lonely. And I know that by posting this here I'm going to get ridiculed. I quit facebook. I don't have other social media. I don't have any friends because I can't open up to people. I used to have friends. Then I got divorced and the "couple" friends went away, so did the church friends because good Christian women don't get divorced. Then I dated someone and married him and it wasn't good for me. I got hurt very much. Ever since that hurt, I have been unable to seek out friendships of any kind. I work 40-50 hours a week, isolated in a home health job with one patient who doesn't speak and has the mental capabilities of an 8 month old. When I get home from work, I care for my ailing mother. I attend church once a week but don't really know anyone there. I don't think like other people and that makes it even harder to connect. Quoting: Sonflower17 I feel pretty invisible. Don't be too harsh to those of you who like to make fun of people who post anything like this. You are not alone. I know we need touch and laughter. I am trying to watch comedies. I am sorry you have burden and a job you don't enjoy. I do not think true humans would make fun of you. What can you bring to bring joy to your life? Something has to change. |
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Music muse
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Happy in Nature
User ID: 81071993 Nicaragua 01/28/2022 10:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sending you love, You definitely need some human interaction with the heavy load on your shoulders. I can appreciate how difficult it is. I live alone in a small rural community, 45 minutes from my friends. In my old life, I was a Queen Bee of the town and now I go days without speaking to another human or weeks without speaking in English other than to my animals. As much as I love my friends, my life is so different now that it is hard to connect. Then there is the red pill blue pill issue. It is hard for me to connect with the hysterical populations around the world. Since you are on GLP, I assume that is an issue for you, too. I believe that you are going to have a forever friend soon You acknowledged that you are lonely and want friendship. The Universe will deliver. Big hugs. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80327477 United States 01/28/2022 10:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here to help: 1. Take a personality test. Being more self aware can help understand your why you have the feelings you do. 2. Considering talking to a doctor or psychiatrist about counseling or therapy. Someone like yourself, who helps others, needs this. Every caregiver needs a caregiver. There's also plenty of helpful medications if you're comfortable with that. 3. I just said a prayer for you. Ask God to help you, ask Him to help you in whatever way is needed. Only He knows everything you need. With GLP love |
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DangerClose
User ID: 72409425 United States 01/28/2022 10:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't typically sympathize with those who are lonely. I often envy them cause all I want is to be left the fuck alone! Some wires got crossed somewhere cause my siblings are social attention whore butterflies and dive into a deep depression whenever someone isn't around to listen to their pointless blabbering and bitching. Or maybe I'm just a cynical asshole. My posts that can be misconstrued as "extreme" and/or "radical" are satirical. #NoHymenNoDiamond #PoppedCherryDontMarry |
Sonflower17
(OP) User ID: 42420903 United States 01/28/2022 10:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I’m sorry your lonely. I understand. Have you thought about getting a pet? Quoting: Music muse I love my pets . I have two outdoor kitty cats. I can't have any indoor pets at this time because I live in a rental house. I like pets, but I need conversation and engagement. I enjoy discussing things with more depth than just the weather and what's for dinner. Though I don't mind those talks too. I crave intellectual conversation. I love to read and I love to talk about what I've been reading. Sonflower17 |
Southern Soldier
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Anubis
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Sonflower17
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Sonflower17
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Cornfox
User ID: 71741131 United States 01/28/2022 10:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't let the demons keep you company... See someone in need, lend a hand. 9 times out of 10 it makes no difference. But sometimes it helps to make a friend. Be forgiving people being dicks and you won't lose friends. Eventually they will come around if you don't reciprocate scorn for scorn. 1 good friend in a neighbor is worth all the friends on facebook. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 40398149 United States 01/28/2022 10:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe you need some kind of change. I’ve been rereading a book this week called Nutrition and Your Mind. The anecdotes make me think of what you’re saying, ie, that you’ve withdrawn into your own world. Maybe you need more nutrition. You could look into doing some testing; it’s called hair tissue mineral analysis. I’ve withdrawn from life, too, though today I did randomly talk to someone in public for like 15 minutes which is super rare for me. I read taking baths can help with loneliness. I bought a sauna blanket for Christmas. You could try that a few days a week; it might help you feel better. I’ve never married but all my relationships with friends and family have hurt me, too. There’s always something to disagree about and today everyone is so selfish. Unfortunately, you might need to put yourself first. Do some good things for you, increase your energy, and when you meet others again, you’ll be ready to rumble. [link to www.goodreads.com (secure)] |
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Just Passing Through.....
*MOLON LABE* User ID: 80366167 United States 01/28/2022 10:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm very lonely. And I know that by posting this here I'm going to get ridiculed. I quit facebook. I don't have other social media. I don't have any friends because I can't open up to people. I used to have friends. Then I got divorced and the "couple" friends went away, so did the church friends because good Christian women don't get divorced. Then I dated someone and married him and it wasn't good for me. I got hurt very much. Ever since that hurt, I have been unable to seek out friendships of any kind. I work 40-50 hours a week, isolated in a home health job with one patient who doesn't speak and has the mental capabilities of an 8 month old. When I get home from work, I care for my ailing mother. I attend church once a week but don't really know anyone there. I don't think like other people and that makes it even harder to connect. Quoting: Sonflower17 I feel pretty invisible. Don't be too harsh to those of you who like to make fun of people who post anything like this. We're here for you. You ever want to talk about something just PM me. I've been there. I had friends but no one to talk about the things we talk about on here. It sucked. Thank God I found my wife and she is just as awake as I am and just as weird. I felt like I had a foot each in two different realities. This is a time in history where we all need to reach out to each other and unite and have compassion. I'm sorry you've been hurt. Nothing makes me madder thsn seeing a spouse be cruel to their partner and theyre partner is a good person. Don't be a stranger. Last Edited by Just Passing Through..... on 01/28/2022 10:34 PM "She isn't real.....I can't make her real" "Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder" "The World is a business Mr Beale..." "You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......" ENFJ |
Sonflower17
(OP) User ID: 42420903 United States 01/28/2022 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sending you love, You definitely need some human interaction with the heavy load on your shoulders. Quoting: Happy in Nature I can appreciate how difficult it is. I live alone in a small rural community, 45 minutes from my friends. In my old life, I was a Queen Bee of the town and now I go days without speaking to another human or weeks without speaking in English other than to my animals. As much as I love my friends, my life is so different now that it is hard to connect. Then there is the red pill blue pill issue. It is hard for me to connect with the hysterical populations around the world. Since you are on GLP, I assume that is an issue for you, too. I believe that you are going to have a forever friend soon You acknowledged that you are lonely and want friendship. The Universe will deliver. Big hugs. Yes, the red pill/blue pill is a huge issue. I can be superficial enough with people who aren't red pilled, but it's definitely harder to connect on an intellectual level with people who aren't awake. (And I don't mean "woke") Sonflower17 |
rainstormy
I watch the weather. User ID: 78163295 United States 01/28/2022 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm very lonely. And I know that by posting this here I'm going to get ridiculed. I quit facebook. I don't have other social media. I don't have any friends because I can't open up to people. I used to have friends. Then I got divorced and the "couple" friends went away, so did the church friends because good Christian women don't get divorced. Then I dated someone and married him and it wasn't good for me. I got hurt very much. Ever since that hurt, I have been unable to seek out friendships of any kind. I work 40-50 hours a week, isolated in a home health job with one patient who doesn't speak and has the mental capabilities of an 8 month old. When I get home from work, I care for my ailing mother. I attend church once a week but don't really know anyone there. I don't think like other people and that makes it even harder to connect. Quoting: Sonflower17 I feel pretty invisible. Don't be too harsh to those of you who like to make fun of people who post anything like this. It isn't easy to meet new friends as we age. I'd suggest joining some group exercise classes at a local gym. Not only will you be doing something positive for your mind and body, you will find it's a good place to meet new people as well. It will also give you an activity to look forward to. Just my two cents.Best of luck to you. rainstormy |
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Just Passing Through.....
*MOLON LABE* User ID: 80366167 United States 01/28/2022 10:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sending you love, You definitely need some human interaction with the heavy load on your shoulders. Quoting: Happy in Nature I can appreciate how difficult it is. I live alone in a small rural community, 45 minutes from my friends. In my old life, I was a Queen Bee of the town and now I go days without speaking to another human or weeks without speaking in English other than to my animals. As much as I love my friends, my life is so different now that it is hard to connect. Then there is the red pill blue pill issue. It is hard for me to connect with the hysterical populations around the world. Since you are on GLP, I assume that is an issue for you, too. I believe that you are going to have a forever friend soon You acknowledged that you are lonely and want friendship. The Universe will deliver. Big hugs. Threads like these always attract the best on here. What a great post. You're a good person. Alot of us have a common thread on here and thats that we do not accept the programming. All of you on here make my day better because I know no matter how nutty of a post I make aboht whatever, there is someone on here that will at least entertain my words if not add to them. GLP is a 2nd home for me and a bit of therapy. "She isn't real.....I can't make her real" "Somewhere between the sacred silence and sleep...Disorder, Disorder, Disorder" "The World is a business Mr Beale..." "You depend on our protection yet you feed us lies from the tablecloth......" ENFJ |
Levski
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