Serious Question, need some advice

People would rather let the innocent continue to suffer from their lies and wrong doings rather than confess and take the blame for what they did and falsely accused others.
Very rarely does anyone have an act of conscience and confess what they have done in order to restore and save their innocent victims and families lives that they have destroyed with malicious slander, false accusations, thefts, fraud, abuse, deception and more.

Stay away from V. I. D … it’s a nightmare. You have a seriously I’ll M.O.D convinced that the earths crust was flipped like a blanket.

Pray these turds don’t find there way out side here. Please dear lord

OP: Read and enjoy.

Your are the captain of your ship and the master of your mind.

Perhaps, if you were to ask yourself "does this (insert thought/issue or thing) contain love?

If there is no love, regret can follow.

As another poster mentioned: are those thoughts even yours? Are they learned/programmed responses from outside of yourself?

I often am reminded of things of my past, when I recognize them trying to take hold, I remind myself to, "let it go", as in, I no longer have the desire to feed/hold on to those thoughts/memories in my mind.

Try to live in the now, focus on your breathing, focus on the beauty around you, I'm not talking about that hot chick at the Walmart, I'm talking about the magnificence that is in every little thing.

You are about to eat a meal, please consider all the many hands, seen and unseen that made that meal possible. Perhaps you are about to eat a piece of carrot, who planted it, was it planted in good soil, did it have an easy life(no bugs came to eat it, no cow pooped on it) Did it get enough sunshine/wind/rain etc? Who harvested it, who made the machine that harvested it? Who made the truck that took that carrot to market? ....

Who would have thought so many people had a hand in your being able to have that carrot.

Every day find some things to be great-full for, they don't have to be big things, it could be that you got to watch a leaf fall.

You're supposed to use these feelings as an impetus for change.

I've been wronged like that but the last thing I expect is restitution from someone who could do that to me in the first place.

And if you're not god you really don't have a place to judge and punish others. Just give it up to god, to restore karmic balance to the situation.

I bought and read this book that helped me called "forgiving what you can't forget".

It is a NYT bestseller.

BS, you are so full of it. If you were innocently sitting out a life term in prison due to false testimony you would want the liar and guilty party to confess and restitution.

How about all the people that cheated in the election fraud, should they confess? Do the right thing out of act of conscience?
Or someone lies falsely accusing you of something that separated you from your children? At what point in your life would your children no longer matter enough to you, to not want them to know the truth with a full confession by the guilty party?

How many of you religious fanatics, liars, slanderers and hypocrites think you can just say a prayer using Jesus name and god forgives me, I do not have to reveal the truth or confess to anyone else or set things right to end the suffering and fix the wrongs I have done, no one has to know, I do not have to pay the penalty and face the shame for my crimes, Jesus did that for me.
I keep hearing the excuses, no one is pure, no one is just, we are all sinners, equally guilty and filthy in gods eyes. I keep seeing the wicked hiding behind false doctrines to cover your filth, slander, deceptions and lies leading to murder, pain suffering and death of the innocent.

To say "a full public confession is not important" means the truth no longer matters and is not important.
Without truth and justice, the wicked, the worst crooks and best liars rule the world and control, rob, abuse and use the honest people like salves, fodder for the taking.

Unless you are Nancy Pelosi, I think you are redeemable. In AA they say, just do the next right thing. No matter how small. I have no idea what you have done, but I wish you peace and love.

I know the deep dark sins of some of the hypocrites posting on this forum, spamming doctrines and cults, total fakes, liars and thieves, wolves in sheep cloth claiming to be so holy, getting praises and mass fallowing from the easily deceived.

I know the deep dark sins of some of the hypocrites posting on this forum, spamming doctrines and cults, total fakes, liars and thieves, wolves in sheep cloth claiming to be so holy, getting praises and mass fallowing from the easily deceived.

Not only do they practice iniquity without repentance, they support and encourage one another to do so. I will lie and fight to cover your ass and you lie and attack others to cover mine. I will share my illgotten gains with and you share yours with me when we take all they just worked so hard for over there.. Call ourselves hunter or biden time.

People say they want truth and justice but no one wants to tell the truth, confess and stop the lies to cover the past lies.

Truth beings with all of us, if you are hiding lies, living a lies, you are the problem.

People say they want truth and justice but no one wants to tell the truth, confess and stop the lies to cover the past lies.

Truth beings with all of us, if you are hiding lies, living a lies, you are the problem.

Thomas Edison would say that you didn't fail, you just found another way not to live life...

Do my part and save the world.

OP,

When I read your post I thought to myself that you are more fortunate than most to have made those mistakes and have those regrets.

Think of all the experience and lessons learned that you will remember and carry with you forever. Compare that to someone who never made a mistake or has a regret. What did they learn from this life...nothing. I would say they have a wasted life.

I recognize it is not a lot of fun to make mistakes and have regrets but I think they are invaluable going forward with your life.

Wear your mistake/regret badge with honor. You earned it by learning it. Congrats.

Tomorrow is always fresh with no mistakes in it.

Every morning is a new chance to do something different and create a better tomorrow. Give your heart to Jesus, he loves you just as you are and will help you find a better path.

And that includes not being mean to yourself.
There is nothing to be done about the past. It cannot be changed. Letting those mistakes also ruin your future? Why would you do that?

If possible make amends to those you hurt. At the very least apologize, even if they won't accept the apology. Then move on. Make better choices from here on out. If you feel regret that is just you being reminded to make a better choice from now on. . That is all you can do. But once you make better choices, and finding joy in your pursuits, you will see that all of the bad choices were just to get to you learn and become a better version of yourself. Learn the lesson life is teaching you.

You can't change crazy fucking people.

That is the first thing to realize. So many people blame themselves because of things that happened in their lives....but the bottom line is a lot of time it is because the other people you were dealing with were the fucked up ones.

So...if you walked away from a load of bullshit, and you didn't have some intent to harm someone else, and you were only actually protecting yourself from the hellish bullshit they were emanating...then you should turn those regrets into acceptance that they were lessons learned.

And be better because of them.

Now...if you were a fucking dick...then it's on you. So that is the first question I would need to know.

For the illiterate ignorant arrogant and overly and unreasonably proud admitting error is sometimes little different than admitting defeat .

It's even possible to destroy their free spirit by forcing it upon them if those traits are to deeply embedded and other methods of behavioral change must be utilized to achieve success .

It can become very complex and fragile .

What is VID??

We all make fuck ups, OP.

Learn, strengthen and grow.

Good Luck

All of your lies, everyone one of you, the lies have a domino effect on all life around us. People will judge another by the lies you have told, make decisions based on lies they believe.

We are living in a world of one lie on top of another, against another, one lie to cover another, trashing all hope for truth and justice.

Your lies are destroying all of us, the planet and all hope for human restoration.

No one wants to confess and make restitution. You only want to call out other's lies, to slander and falsely accuses others in an attempt to make yourself look better, hide your own corruption with a sense justified piety, of superiority and power.

Do not dare demand truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth, so help you g-d. Not from any dammed one of you, all too proud to step up and confess to set an innocent suffering free with the truth in any attempt to correct the damage you and others have done with your malicious lies, slanders, frauds, thefts and murders.

Stop saying you want truth and justice when you yourself are hiding lies and covering for others lies, you refuse to confess, it is just another one of your lies.

There is no redemption for mankind, you have proven that within your own thoughts and actions. Stop blaming others for the downfall, when you are just like them and refuse to make the needed steps to help clean the conscience of mankind with truth and justice.

This is what our alien telepathic visitors see in us. NO HOPE

How many of you have a truly have a clean conscience?

Not by making excuses or hiding behind some religious doctrine to cleanse you and heal this planet from your lies and deceptions.
But truly have cleansed yourself of your lies and eased the burden and cloud of corruption it has put on others and life around us?

But righteously, honestly, repentantly came completely clean of all your hidden lies, deceptions, thefts and wicked acts, through your confessions and restitutions in good conscience, because it is the right thing to do for the future and hope of all mankind?

None of you will, you are too arrogant and proud to face your public shame, too greedy to pay back what owe.
It is ok to slander another's reputation with your lies, but not ok to damage your own reputation by admitting what you did to cause another harm in order to repair that damage.

All hypocrites. Pot calling the kettle black, one liar calling another the liar, passing your blame for the destruction of mankind one everyone else.

Acceptance and forgiveness. You have to accept your mistakes, and then forgive yourself. But more importantly ask God for forgiveness. You're not alone, there's someone who has always been watching and pulling for you. You're still here, and you have a purpose and you can speak to him in very simple ways. Ask for guidance, to be guided where you were made and meant to be. Often we find ourselves off the path, if we call out and seek God with a full and sincere heart, ask for forgiveness and direction, you'll find he's always there for you. There are other things that happen but I think they are better kept as a surprise.

God bless