Dude catches wife with another man...

don't care what this sounds like to anyone, but the truth regardless of the negative actions of the woman is this...

Unconditional love is the truest highest form of love and also the hardest for humans to lock into. it is the form of love that does not engage in 'attachment' which is why as humans we struggle so much with it. we get attached in all kinds of ways. financial, longevity, the list is endless... and yet, it is THAT kind of love that is promoted and engaged with the most here on this realm. I get it. it's tough. probably one of the hardest to understand lessons in this life. Truly difficult to master due to the society we have structured around us which basically promotes this form of love over everything else. the love of unconditional basis can often be tapped into, but not very often is it locked into in a person which is why it's so difficult to stay in that heart space continuously here. THIS is the kind of love Jesus was trying to teach about but obviously was difficult to convey and get his disciples to fully understand either.

Ultimately, it's the buddhist idea of "attachments" that is humanities downfall in nearly every incidence. Take time, we INVEST our time and attach to our partners and thus do so with CONDITIONS of course. which when you get down to it, is not the highest form of love. it's tainted with those artificial and external attachments that often are only considered subconsciously if at all.

obviously it's also the ego based form of love which is why it so often fails. especially in this kind of a survival based pyramid scheme kind of system that parasites each other starting at the top levels. people within this kind of system are going to develop attachments even if they don't want to or are consciously trying to avoid them. and love with attachments like this can work okay for awhile, but the minute there is a problem, the attachment aspect takes over and all kinds of conditional responses result from it.

it's the greatest form of personal responsibility when someone has a truly unconditional love and can thus let go with ease if the situation demands it. and as you can see, it can mean the difference between life and death these kinds of tentacled forms of thinking.

Love without condition is meaningless. If you think Jesus Christ loves without condition, you haven't read the Gospel. Repenting is a condition. There are commandments. They must be followed.

Dude should have done a 360 and walked away

I'd give him probation. Can't say I blame him.

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The last part when he says he threw his life away, that hit.

It's easy to say but just try to walk away...

He should have celebraed instead.