can i ask for advice from the team? hopefully someone has a better idea than i do.

the pandemic has gone on for 3 yrs. during that time, the GF and i have not been to visit family. i was with my step-dad and my mom when i was dealing with vehicle problems. we have not been to visit the GF's mother. both mothers are vaxed. none are trying to avoid the virus at all. they travel, shop, and are around lots of ppl each week.

i don't think we can avoid a meeting forever. if something were to happen bad to the GF or family, i think it would b better to have a meeting before that. but i see no safe way with no risk.

best i come up with is a meeting in a parking lot. the GF's mother lives 3 hours away. we can set a meet bout half way between us. will try to schedule mid-week so the grand kids are in school to minimize the risk. it's still a few hours back after being hugged on. and what if her mom tries to pull the GF's mask down to see here face. etc?

mayb, i'm being over careful. knowing the GF's med history, she would probably not survive covid. hell the cold we had was a struggle enuf. and no i don't trust anyone who is being carefree and thinks life is normal and covid is just a flu.

afterwards, we'd come home and take bleach baths and take a cpl doses of horse paste over a few days. anyone see a better way?