I can't believe there are people who still think this was fake; or people who think because someone was laughing they were not in grief.

I've had more then my share of loss.

Grief is not always observable.

Also when a traumatic event happens, it is very common for a person to go into shock. Part of them recognizes the event has happened and it can take time for that to propagate through that persons entire being.

It is NOT uncommon for a person in severe grief to be unable to cry at a significant loss; in fact part of grief is even the inability to cry or form tears. People may have one extreme or the other sometimes oscilating between them.

The time between death and burial is a special time when a person must still perform tasks and duties to deal with obligations and while under extreme pressure they must still function.

If you evidence that Sandy Hook was fake is because you think you saw these parents laugh before going on camera to talk about the loss of their children, you are really confused and don't understand death or grieving at all.

Sometimes for serious losses a person may not even process until days, weeks or sometimes months later before they are ready to feel emotions. Other times it will hit a person immediately; it just depends on the persons own inner constitution and how they process their feelings. People who do not mourn properly early on are usually haunted by feelings of grief sometimes for years as they never allowed themselves or were able to allow themselves to properly mourn.

In this case, that is even an aside because there is *nothing* unusual in this video. I mean if anyone has ever been to a funeral you will know that mourners will osculate between grief, crying, emptiness, laughter, flatness, any and all of the above.

The unknowing look upon and think that person is not feeling what they should; but the person who has greived knows exactly what that person is really feeling.