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Anonymous Coward User ID: 83875193 United Kingdom 08/11/2022 01:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 83875193 Personally I feel it all starts at home. The foundation of a persons moral fiber starts at home. If your parents do a great job and you still turn out horrible, they did their job… The rest is up to you. Everyone knows right from wrong. Even people who think they don’t know right from wrong absolutely knows right from wrong. A lot of people get stuck in a vicious cycle and then they start feeling sorry for themselves, then they play the victim card, then they can’t work up the motivation to pull themselves out of the hole that they created for themselves because they have a bad attitude. This particular kid probably had horrible parents. This type of expectation was set up early on. If she was raised by her parents, then her expectations were set at home. Perhaps she was spoiled? Perhaps she threw fits and was never corrected. Whatever the case, her parents did a shitty job in raising her the proper way. She didn’t just leave the nest and become this way. She actively made a decision to sue her parents for something completely outrageous. For the courts to actually honor something like this, it’s an embarrassment. But let’s face it, a lot of kids are getting away with crap nowadays that we would’ve never thought could happen. Outside of her home, another branch of her character will be developed through school systems. This is an absolute nightmare nowadays because a lot of kids are being indoctrinated to believe these type of actions, like suing your parents for not getting your consent for being born, are being taught to kids through the school systems. And the school systems are protected. And parents aren’t able to even correct their children physically nowadays. In my day when I acted out, I got my ass busted and let me tell you something… I corrected my behavior. Nowadays, if a parent even as much as slaps their child, they can be arrested. This leads children to understand the principles of leverage at a very early age. And these type of things are taught to kids nowadays in schools. The schools I have way too much control and power and influence on children, and parents are losing their grip. So let’s get back to this girl, yes a big portion of blame is for shitty parents, but yes the school systems are to blame as well. There is a huge war between parents and teachers nowadays, and the teachers are given a lot of levity to get away with the type of shit that we see in them get away with today. Does this mean society is to blame? Who the hell knows… Everything is so convoluted nowadays. Everybody’s in the dark. Nobody knows what they can and can’t do. Everybody is in fear. It seems to me this is exactly what they want us to face in today’s day and age. Take our government for instance. Look at the magnitude of corruption that we’re dealing with today. But is it the government’s fault for how this girl turned out? Still… It’s a hard question to answer. But we see all these travesties happening right in front of our faces and we have little recourse and all the indoctrinated kids out there feel like this is the way it’s supposed to be. These are the type of things they can get away with. It’s a hard thing to reverse if you think about it. But still who do we blame? Maybe the better question is who can we blame? Everything is so screwed up right now, and I hate to see what’s happening to our country. But be prepared to see more kids like this getting away with these type of actions. Be prepared, if you are a parent, to fight for your life to save your children. But in order to get a Headstart in this war… You better be on your game at home and make sure your kids get the proper foundation. Without giving them the proper foundation, the proper love, the proper honesty, and the proper parenting that’s needed for survival, the sad truth is: you’ve already lost. the parents prolly did play a role --but im askn didnt they see this coming??? if they gave the kid everything they had to've known this bitch was a mooching loser. they shouldve cut her off n made her get a job when they 1st seen this in her. or kick her out. something.....set her ass straight Every parent believes their child is a special little snowflake. The active enabling is a dangerous weapon. Sometimes it’s used without knowing it’s repercussions, because most parents don’t want to believe this special little snowflake is at fault. How many times have you heard of a child doing something wrong and the parent refuses to correct them properly. More often than not I bet. Bad parents enable their children to get away with shit that they shouldn’t get away with. They knew this little bitch was a mooching loser, you’re right they should’ve kicked her out, they should’ve cut her off, they should’ve made her get a job when they saw this type of character building. But if the parent didn’t give her a proper foundation and teach her right from wrong at an early age, then why the hell would any of this matter to them? Maybe this is why the school system gets away with so much. I had a small stent in the school system when I was younger, let me tell you something a lot of parents use the school system for daycare. This type of parents don’t give a shit what their kids learn how their kids are being developed and they certainly don’t take part in helping develop their children outside of their home. In this case, it’s easy to see that their home developments wasn’t a high priority. So it’s easy to say but the parents should’ve been on top of things, but in this case let’s face it they weren’t. i wish we had the parents take on this case. id be very interested in hearing their side Agreed. If I were her parents, I’d be actively taking on interview after interview to get my concerns out there and to help other parents who may be facing the same thing but don’t have the courage to step forward. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80874196 United States 08/11/2022 01:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'll put this here. 2 decades ago, i got my first "possession" charge of marijuana. After trying to fight it , i ended up serving 6 months in county jail, and then some more, because noone tells you that for the state to get federal highway funds at the time, they had to suspend your drivers license. The son of the current 'president' is on film, with sexual relations with what appears to be a minor, smoking crack, meth, and snortin to his delight while waving a firearm, when he his a firearms restricted person. And nothing happens? fuck you. give me a break, this country is fucking broken. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Failure to Launch: How Adult Children Work the “Parent System” If you, like many parents, have an adult child living at home with you, you’re not alone. There’s an epidemic of young adults in our society who are struggling to get off the ground. In many families, this works out fine—the adult child is responsible and contributes to the household while they set themselves up to live independently. But if your adult child has moved home—or never left—and expects you to take care of their needs, you’ve probably started to feel resentful and frustrated. “An adult child can actually make a career out of earning income from his parents by working the emotional system.” theres 2 parts to this [link to www.empoweringparents.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Half of parents still financially support their adult children, study shows [link to www.cnbc.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Parents supporting adult children: The good and bad [link to blog.massmutual.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81874770 Singapore 08/11/2022 01:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What would the End Times be without Roman Tax collectors going door to door? How can we have a revival of The Roman Empire without debtor's prison? Doesn't every red blooded American fantasize about being a gladiator slave? Fighting in a arena, to the death, for entertainment? |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Supporting Adult Kids May Cost Parents $227K in Retirement [link to www.nerdwallet.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The Spoiled Adult Children Epidemic: Has it Affected You? [link to thecollegeinvestor.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78901474 Malaysia 08/11/2022 01:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Mandatory 2 years at 18, first year boot camp with a small wage and they get taught Civics and budgeting. Quoting: PINKORCHID88- CRUNCH TIME Second year pay rise and they spend half that in voluntary services , like coast guard or National guard . All get trained in gun safely second year, job placement at the end. Sounds like freedom. (Nah, it doesn't.) Right of passage to become a useful member of society. You're a GD communist. GTFOH. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Entitled Young Adult Children | What Parents Need To Watch Out For [link to youtu.be (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to www.washingtonpost.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | signs You’re Raising An Entitled Child And Why That’s A Problem [link to madamenoire.com (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The collapse of parenting: Why it’s time for parents to grow up If anyone can be called the boss in modern, anti-hierarchical parenthood, it’s the children [link to www.macleans.ca (secure)] political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78901474 Malaysia 08/11/2022 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | parents have an obligation to help their childten transition to adulthood and being able to take care of themselves and be financially independent. DO NOT HAVE CHIKDREN IF YOU CANNOT DO THIS OR CANNOT AFFORD THEM OR CANNOT TEACH THEM HOW TO SURVIVE WELL BEING POOR (GROWN OWN FOOD, SKILLED LABOUR, BUILD YOUR OWN HOME, ETC.) it's pretty shitty to expect 18/21/23/25 year olds to be adults, when 18 year olds are still maturing and definitely ate not adults, no matter how well you have taught them or how well educated they are. they aren't adults yet even if they are 100% self-sufficient as they are not fully matured until much much later. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | parents have an obligation to help their childten transition to adulthood and being able to take care of themselves and be financially independent. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78901474 DO NOT HAVE CHIKDREN IF YOU CANNOT DO THIS OR CANNOT AFFORD THEM OR CANNOT TEACH THEM HOW TO SURVIVE WELL BEING POOR (GROWN OWN FOOD, SKILLED LABOUR, BUILD YOUR OWN HOME, ETC.) it's pretty shitty to expect 18/21/23/25 year olds to be adults, when 18 year olds are still maturing and definitely ate not adults, no matter how well you have taught them or how well educated they are. they aren't adults yet even if they are 100% self-sufficient as they are not fully matured until much much later. the system is broken. a deliberate breakdown in society, values and moral compass political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | People will do what they can get away with. Be it kids, citizens, etc. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72770408 There’s a reason there’s virtually no crime in Saudi Arabia. do tell political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78901474 Malaysia 08/11/2022 01:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | parents have an obligation to help their childten transition to adulthood and being able to take care of themselves and be financially independent. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78901474 DO NOT HAVE CHIKDREN IF YOU CANNOT DO THIS OR CANNOT AFFORD THEM OR CANNOT TEACH THEM HOW TO SURVIVE WELL BEING POOR (GROWN OWN FOOD, SKILLED LABOUR, BUILD YOUR OWN HOME, ETC.) it's pretty shitty to expect 18/21/23/25 year olds to be adults, when 18 year olds are still maturing and definitely ate not adults, no matter how well you have taught them or how well educated they are. they aren't adults yet even if they are 100% self-sufficient as they are not fully matured until much much later. the system is broken. a deliberate breakdown in society, values and moral compass They have destroyed the family in this country and it started well before my or my parents lifetime....they had families and brothers fighting against one another in the civil war....By DESIGN. Fuck this zoooooo0g BS in the usa. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | parents have an obligation to help their childten transition to adulthood and being able to take care of themselves and be financially independent. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78901474 DO NOT HAVE CHIKDREN IF YOU CANNOT DO THIS OR CANNOT AFFORD THEM OR CANNOT TEACH THEM HOW TO SURVIVE WELL BEING POOR (GROWN OWN FOOD, SKILLED LABOUR, BUILD YOUR OWN HOME, ETC.) it's pretty shitty to expect 18/21/23/25 year olds to be adults, when 18 year olds are still maturing and definitely ate not adults, no matter how well you have taught them or how well educated they are. they aren't adults yet even if they are 100% self-sufficient as they are not fully matured until much much later. the system is broken. a deliberate breakdown in society, values and moral compass They have destroyed the family in this country and it started well before my or my parents lifetime....they had families and brothers fighting against one another in the civil war....By DESIGN. Fuck this zoooooo0g BS in the usa. i was raised by old school italians. my dad was tony fkn soprano old school. i raised my kids in the same --only diff is i didnt put my hands on them. my dad used a belt on me. i hit these kids where it hurt - MONEY. and it worked. alotta kids it dont but with mine it did. and i didnt hafta punish them too often. my kids were good kids. they only got punished when they were dicks. thing is my dicks bigger political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78901474 Malaysia 08/11/2022 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | parents have an obligation to help their childten transition to adulthood and being able to take care of themselves and be financially independent. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78901474 DO NOT HAVE CHIKDREN IF YOU CANNOT DO THIS OR CANNOT AFFORD THEM OR CANNOT TEACH THEM HOW TO SURVIVE WELL BEING POOR (GROWN OWN FOOD, SKILLED LABOUR, BUILD YOUR OWN HOME, ETC.) it's pretty shitty to expect 18/21/23/25 year olds to be adults, when 18 year olds are still maturing and definitely ate not adults, no matter how well you have taught them or how well educated they are. they aren't adults yet even if they are 100% self-sufficient as they are not fully matured until much much later. the system is broken. a deliberate breakdown in society, values and moral compass They have destroyed the family in this country and it started well before my or my parents lifetime....they had families and brothers fighting against one another in the civil war....By DESIGN. Fuck this zoooooo0g BS in the usa. i was raised by old school italians. my dad was tony fkn soprano old school. i raised my kids in the same --only diff is i didnt put my hands on them. my dad used a belt on me. i hit these kids where it hurt - MONEY. and it worked. alotta kids it dont but with mine it did. and i didnt hafta punish them too often. my kids were good kids. they only got punished when they were dicks. thing is my dicks bigger sounds like while they had more independence earlier you kept them close so you remained involved and were there for support. there are always exceptions in terms of maturity, but emotional and mental maturity can come after children/young adults are fiscally/financially/responsible/work mature. environment is a factor, too....as some environments have more predators than others. i never felt i made enough money to have children and when there was more money there was no appropriate partner to father them...i think patenthood is a serious undertaking, which requires (best case scenatio anyway) proper lanning...and should not be entered into casually/nonchalantly .... and should ideally only happen within a good marriage of one normal woman and one normal man. homeschool is best or good normal private school. onr parent should not work. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Phennommennonn the system is broken. a deliberate breakdown in society, values and moral compass They have destroyed the family in this country and it started well before my or my parents lifetime....they had families and brothers fighting against one another in the civil war....By DESIGN. Fuck this zoooooo0g BS in the usa. i was raised by old school italians. my dad was tony fkn soprano old school. i raised my kids in the same --only diff is i didnt put my hands on them. my dad used a belt on me. i hit these kids where it hurt - MONEY. and it worked. alotta kids it dont but with mine it did. and i didnt hafta punish them too often. my kids were good kids. they only got punished when they were dicks. thing is my dicks bigger sounds like while they had more independence earlier you kept them close so you remained involved and were there for support. there are always exceptions in terms of maturity, but emotional and mental maturity can come after children/young adults are fiscally/financially/responsible/work mature. environment is a factor, too....as some environments have more predators than others. i never felt i made enough money to have children and when there was more money there was no appropriate partner to father them...i think patenthood is a serious undertaking, which requires (best case scenatio anyway) proper lanning...and should not be entered into casually/nonchalantly .... and should ideally only happen within a good marriage of one normal woman and one normal man. homeschool is best or good normal private school. onr parent should not work. even with my foster kids i prepared them for adulthood. and i did home school all the kids but 1. my daughter grad from brick n mortar. all the other kids we home schooled bc i couldnt stand the B&M politics political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
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(OP) Forum Administrator 08/11/2022 01:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | some are saying soon.... hope so, could use extra money (always, but moreso now). if theyre gonna pull the plug they should just get it over with political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78901474 Malaysia 08/11/2022 01:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Parents who went to court to evict their unemployed 30-year-old son did the right thing. Quoting: Phennommennonn [link to www.washingtonpost.com (secure)] males don't fully mature until 40 apparently. women at 35-40. brain is supposed to be done developing @ 25 or so. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78901474 Malaysia 08/11/2022 01:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | some are saying soon.... hope so, could use extra money (always, but moreso now). if theyre gonna pull the plug they should just get it over with there's so much jorruption on wall street and at the SEC. revolving door like darpa, doj, etc. fubar. |
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