What happens when you leave your soulmate?

What happens?

You wonder around like two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year.

Like it or not, get use to it!

I know the feeling.

They drive you crazy but life without them is so empty.

Soulmates are not always there to make us happy.

But they ARE there to make us GROW UP.

when i lost her...it was both a relief and a heartbreak.

But by fuck....no other woman could have forced me into maturity quite like her.

That was 20 years ago now.

Been single ever since.

No one compares to her.

No other woman IS her.

Is this from your experience?

Obviously that wasn’t your soulmate. You fought and you didn’t like sex with him. You set the bar low. Opposite attract, they attract misery. Life is random if you’re lucky and we’re in the right place at the right time you could meet 10 “soulmates “. This just means you meet someone who has similar interests as you and hopefully they complement your attributes as well like empathy and compassion and kindness. This fantasy land idea that there’s one soulmate in the whole world for someone it’s just that. I’m assuming you’re female if you want to meet someone you will just keep your mind open.

20 years… that is so sad… I don’t want to be like a man and give it another 20 years :(

You say she made you grow up. I assume you treated her immaturely? My ex sure did and was one of the reasons I left.

That was not your soul mate, if you fought constantly and the sex was not good.

You just convinced yourself he was.

Keep looking. And get off the idea of a soul mate. There are likely several true loves in a lifetime, and the person you pick and who picks you, they become the best person for you to journey this life with.

The past is gone.
It can’t be reclaimed.
You can remember it in your heart,
But only you remain.

The ocean is vast.
Your mind is wide.
Your heart runs deep

Keep looking and you’ll find what you seek.

(And deserve)

But that’s just Pish, as a fish, making a wish.

I don't know why don't you ask God.... Oh wait never mind

I can tell you this I just threw the Bible at my phone and now it's bent but to answer your question I have no idea I don't have a soulmate I am complete

"soulmate" is a made up word designed to sell hollywood movies to gullible women .
reap the reward .

Back then I was a young stupid idiot.

If I knew then what I know now things would have been very different.

Hindsight sux.

But it never lies.

She had her own issues as well.

But im not going to rag on her issues.

Ive learnt to take responsability for mine.

You were not with your soulmate if you constantly fight and aren't sexually compatible. Obviously.

You're too young to stop wanting one.

Sometimes fate keeps you apart, at least you had some time in this life together.

MOVE ON.

sigh. dont use a word invented to justify poor decisions we can get away with not scrutinizing due to the brains innate function to feel good or "normal" regardless of how screwed up your environment is in a way that traps you. the real use of the word frees you.

you made a random decision that over time created a mindset of your own design. nothing more. nothing less. now go and prosper. or shoot,dont. hang out in the dumps all day and let me. i need a break

Please stop with this soulmate shit.

Your soulmate claims you all dependent on how thick your dic, or wallet is.

This soulmate shit is so 1970ish..

You gave too early you are supposed to have kids with the person that makes you nations then it gets better. Right honey!? Ow!

She runs off and finally becomes a fuck goddess

It is from Pink Floyd

Last Edited by NotPeople on 08/16/2022 03:34 AM

First, there's no such thing as a "soulmate". Second, if there was, this person would not be yours. Look at your above statement, that's not someone you're even compatible with, much less a "soulmate".

Don't worry

This world is temporary

God is eternal

You can find multiple people a year with the same level of connection as them. Finding special people isn't that hard if you actually go out into the world. Maybe join some clubs and do stuff with like minded people

I always use see you later alligator with my passed away and lost cats l.

I do not know. I didn't leave her.

It was hard to explain but will try again.

So here was I, having dreams of my dream woman
not for certain who she was or why she was there
then the epiphany of who she was to me in my life, happened after her passing.

So after realizing the person was the girl/woman of my literal dreams and remembering slowly again why I tried to move on and get with God first before going back to her, like I had wanted when initially met and had the greatesst night of my life.

It was so disheartening and felt like a cosmic trick was pulled on me. Well I realized a lot of things after, it stirred me up inside again and I came somewhat out of hermit-ship and am slowly trying to mingle with people living life, but also in the world. I hadn't done much in almost twenty years and missed my soulmate or what I thought was the one...in my life. Yet I didn't really even know her well. One day, I'm sure it will be explained. I still miss her and literally did miss her after telling all that. I still don't know what to do regarding. I tried helping her orphan sons or son at the time and I tried to do stuff I never would been comfortable doing before like mingling with family and trying to help them out as well. It was a really mil fam and I missed out on a great thing or what I thought would have been great. I don't know if I' will be sent another, but wham, it really hurt. Perhaps I deserved that cosmic joke. Idk.

We are all one in the god head, we will return some day, the individual experiment is hit and miss.

"There is no ONE. This is the soulmate myth. There are some good Ones and some bad Ones, but there is no ONE. Anyone telling you anything else is selling you something. There are LOTS of ‘special someones’ out there for you, just ask the divorced/widowed person who’s remarried after their “soulmate” has died or moved on.

This is what trips people up about the soul-mate myth, it is this fantasy that we all at least in some way share an idealization of – that there is ONE perfect mate for each of us, and as soon as the planets align and fate takes it’s course we’ll know that we’re ‘intended’ for each other. And while this may make for a gratifying romantic comedy plot, it’s hardly a realistic way to plan your life. In fact it’s usually paralyzing."

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If he were truly your soulmate you would have been perfectly

suited for each other and neither one of you would have never

departed.

He was not your "Soulmate".

Sorry.

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