My GF of 15 years lied to me about her age. Advice?

It's good you rekindled your relationship with your mom. I suppose that will help when your GF dumps you...and she will if you bring this up to her. You are so immature, you shouldn't be a father anyway.

After 15 years, you haven't married her or saw her driver's license or any of her personal papers? 14 years is a big age difference. I think you're just stupid.

How old is she ?

If she lied about her age , she violated your trust. Forgive her and move on OP. She has deceived you for years. What else do you think she's lying about?

Her Mum is 90 plus and you didn't work the Math out, did she say she was adopted? If you want kids leave and go and have them, although you are no spring chicken, she sounds too good for you.

So, OP, how old were you and how old was she when you first met 15 years ago?

How old is she ?

If she lied about her age , she violated your trust. Forgive her and move on OP. She has deceived you for years. What else do you think she's lying about?

That's pretty big lie. It's really wrong to lie to a man about your ability to have children.Very selfish. Who knows what else she is hiding. I hope she is really a natural born female. It happens.

14 years is huge you grew up different generations and have no clue about each other I would know go above double digits that not love that screwing lol

As I said, quite an elaborate story that makes sense. If its true, which kept me from searching. Immature? Sure, maybe.

All women are liars. Some more pathological than others. Deal with it or move along, not hard.

All women are liars. Some more pathological than others. Deal with it or move along, not hard.

I've never discussed this with anyone so this is me searching for advice and guidance.

So, my girlfriend of 15 years has lied to me about her age, and its starting to sink in now. I started becoming suspicious a few years back, and now I'm 95% sure. She is 14 years older than me and now that we have been trying to have children without success for over a year and a half I'm becoming more depressed. Not even considering her lying to me about her age, but that now that she is quite a bit older than me she is getting into the very late timeframe to be able to become pregnant.

She has been a good person to me throughout our relationship however. She is super resourceful, loves old architecture and is very good with our house projects. Some of her downsides are that she is a bit of a hoarder, and LOVES animals (11 cats, 4 dogs, peacocks, and ducks) which have taken up a big part of her day. She and I are also caring for her 90+ year old invalid mother, of which she is basically paralyzed, ie. us lifting her on and off the bedside commode, feeding and giving fluids to. At the surface overall we get along great! However she does not like or want her family around me, I'm guessing because she doesn't want to worry about family talking about her age in front of me or she really just doesn't like them. which is how I mostly see it. Anytime an age thing comes up from me or someone she confidently lies and I retract my questions.

She is a good white liar, but is there more to it. Literally 14 years of her life doesnt exist to me, and I think my parents caught whiff of her stories which she stuck to and caused a riff between my Mom and step-Dad. I was lusting after her and believing her very convincing stories, likely lies. I stopped talking with my Mom and Step-Dad for almost a decade until a few years back where my step dad was on deaths door and I came out to spend time with him before he passed. This is saddening to me, that if my parents were right, and she was wrong that I stopped talking to them because of her lies.

I've since rekindled my relationship with my Mom, so we are okay there. She comes to visit us at the end of the month and my GF wants to make sure everything is tidy and clean before she arrives. I've said nothing to my GF about this as I really dont know how it will go, will she flip and become crazy aggressive denial or a more mellow response?

Ultimately I do love this woman alot, however I really dont know how deep the lies go and if they were told to not keep me from ending a relationship with her. However none of her lies have caused harm to me as far as I know.

There is much more to the story and I'm trying to give a condensed version. Apologies for the writing as I'm sitting here with a big headache. Thanks

When your GF is not in the room, ask her mum how old she was when she had her. Find out what State she was born in, and order another Birth Certificate for her.

You must remember, if you want kids, many women have already been sterilised due to the poison j*bs.

At this point, with all your history, your love for her, and owning of properties together etc. - probably best you stay the course. Main thing is resolving your feelings in having been lied to. I would bring it up eventually to resolve, as keeping it all to yourself is eating away at you.

BTW, ADOPT.
If the queers can do it, you and your
girlfriend sure can.
(she IS a biological female, yes?)

Im guessing 22-23 ish. And she would have been 37?

Did you write this LARP from a windowless building in Virginia, or Miami, Florida?? Travel agency??? Ha-Ha.

she must have been pretty good looking for you to fall for her at that age,

and not realize it,

adopt a child,

end of story,

if she won't do it...

then that means her pets mean more to her than you do

you must be an utter retard then.

womens fertility falls off a cliff after 30.

yours is pushing 60 and you're only now cluing in ?