My GF of 15 years lied to me about her age. Advice?

Yep apoligize. Been scatterbrained all day. She said she was 3 years older.

No kids because we convinced ourselves that we couldnt provide for them financially as best as we wanted.

Yes that part puzzles me. She wants them and has always talked about how many.

If you never figured it out in all these years you're not very observant, but if you love her know this: women have babies in their 40s, 50s and 60s these days and some even did before the advent of fertility drugs and in vitro fertilization. If her eggs are rotten use donor eggs- if she still has a uterus she can most likely carry a baby.

unjabbed. yes. I'm gonna wait til after my mom arrives that way things are smooth while she is here.

why on Earth do you want to reproduce?

do you hate everyone and want to put another retard on the planet for us to deal with?

because there is no way your kids would be normal

resist your biological urge, it won’t turn out well

help your gf with the animals, make them your family

Her story weither true, partially true, or outright a lie has kept me convinced and at bay. And that those results coming up from searching around were no true. I dont really want to go much further into that.

Same thing happened to me she said she was 18 but was really 13.

Always have wanted kids. And I will try my best to have 1 and raise it far better than I was. I'll name it after you.

A 15 year relationship that works is pure gold in this world - any age differences aside. Do you know how hard it is to find a woman that will love you, be faithful, and have creative/work skills?

It is likely she lied about her age and she is afraid of losing you if you find out.

I would guess she is 13 years older rather than 3.

In which case, it's probably too late for her to have a child. Conception decreases rapidly after 40 years of age.

However, there is adoption.

If you want a child so much you are willing to lose her to get one... I'd tell her you'll stay with her, if she is okay with you making a baby with someone else (a surrogate).

I'd also tell her, much like you told us, that you realize she has lied about her age to protect her relationship with you, and that having the lie between you is more of a strain on your relationship with her than the extra 12-15 years of age would be.

She has to have some kind of documentation: birth certificate - anything - to prove her age.

exactly how I feel. She is a good person, aside from her white lies. I'm dissappointed as I would have wanted children MUCH sooner if she was truthful. She has been there for me always, and when I had brain cancer, she never left me side. Thanks

35 and up almost all eggs are gone and is a high risk pregnancy. That’s why the wall is 35. Besides, children take a lot of energy and time. That’s why young people should have children. Any woman over 35 wanting children is delusional.

Obviously, she has pets as proxies for children as most women now do.

As for lying, all women are liars. It’s part of their survival strategy, like manipulation. Don’t believe me? Industry says otherwise: make up companies, plastic surgery, etc. It’s all deception.

Either continue being a gump and suck it up, or make a clean break.

"Girlfriend of 15 years" that's the problem! she's only your girlfriend , Not your wife. If you wanted full disclosure you should have married her 13 years ago.

How have you never seen her papers like license, birth certificate, auto insurance ....they all have your birthdate and it's hard to fake ....unless she got fake docs. That a psycho move if she did.

I SAID NO!!!! THAT FUCKING GROSS HUGE YOU BOTH HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON AND LIVE DIFFERENT WORK FRIENDS PHASES ETC

NOT MUCH AS PEACHES PEDOPHILE

more like. zero docs. and that all fits in nicely with her story, which may have truths and half truths, which i intend to find out, just have been dredding bringing up the discussion as I'm pretty stress free.

she still has her time of the month. and she is pretty imo.

Last Edited by Cebeij on 09/11/2022 06:57 PM

That's a one way ticket to autism. And not the Elon Musk type.

That must really stink.

1) 15 years and you couldn't see her I.D.? Who's the now??

2) 15 years and you couldn't MARRY HER?!?! You have no claim on her, or her age, you

3) Don't you have eyes?? Blind as a


PS:

YOU"RE ALL POSTING IN A TROLL THREAD!!!

If she's 50 or older? You seriously don't want to play dna roulette with a child. The likelihood of serious genetic defects goes way up. Given that there's the question of will she live long enough to see the kid to maturity.

Trust me when I tell you she's telling you she's trying fertility drugs, she's flushing them or taking sugar pills.

If it were me I'd flash forward another ten years for both of you. She's no in her 60's while you're in your late 40's. The differences in age will only magnify, not diminish.

And if she lied about her age and you've gone along without voicing your suspicion for this long? She'll play you like a violin to get you to stay.

She never wanted to marry so you'd not see her DOB on the marriage license, etc.

not sure about far she’ll go with lies

has she told you about me yet?

it wasnt serious just a fling so dont get mad

Your... mom??

How old are YOU, OP???
^This

maybe maybe. Regarding the fertility, she was taking them. She had a VERY rough time with the last set, hot sweats all night, AC down to 65 at night, she couldnt sleep for 3 months almost. And had no period for 2 months after going off. So... She is actively trying.

Last Edited by Cebeij on 09/11/2022 07:15 PM

stick it in her ass..

then throw her ass out.

you need to get a younger woman...someone you can plow her fertile land.

Count the rings.

Somehow she jumped a timeline and somehow you missed it but you ended up together nonetheless, it could be a tarp so don’t be a moran , if she has reptilian eyes do this

A + B must equal C, I guess.

Yep could be! Good point

Last Edited by Cebeij on 09/11/2022 07:22 PM

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