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Sol-tari
 User ID: 76016774  Australia09/12/2022 07:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84181373 Shit got real in here Man is a monster All of us Christ is coming back to save us I promise  Would also like to add some of us need closure Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84181373 I love you really means something Some can just walk away and say fuck it Who cares….  Sometimes you've got to give yourself that closure *Glitches May Occur. Consume(D) At Own Risk |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 84181373 United States09/12/2022 07:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 84181373 United States09/12/2022 07:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84181373 Shit got real in here Man is a monster All of us Christ is coming back to save us I promise :escalated: Would also like to add some of us need closure Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84181373 I love you really means something Some can just walk away and say fuck it Who cares…. Sometimes you've got to give yourself that closure I’ve been love sick before Mom died at the same time Heart closed and will never open again Ain’t no sick like love sick |
Phennommennonn
(OP)Forum Administrator 09/12/2022 07:38 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He wasn't fully identified by his fucking picture? Quoting: ^TrInItY^ lol We can use first names? lol Gary was it? Yeah, totally not identified. Again, what was the point in identifying the man publicly? You can play lawyer all you want Phen.... Doesn't excuse what you did or make it right, legally or morally. Say some psycho recognizes the guy from his pic and takes what you said about him as a reason to assault him as he's walking down the street? Then what Phen? Not your fault? Who cares? Got what he deserves? SMH You pretty much doxed the guy Phen. Totally not necessary to tell your story. i removed the links/pics from the op n replies. to reiterate there was no il-intent, just a human interest story, which was well received in 8pgs of replies. i posted within legal guidelines on NB & removed the links to be in compliance here. my apologies for any offense. political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
| Mother Maggie
User ID: 39906255 United States09/12/2022 07:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Phenn in answer to your question... you grow the fuck up and move on. and you sort and learn... this is not your answer Phenn, To rag here.. Last Edited by Mother Maggie on 09/12/2022 07:39 AM Yea though I walk thru the valley of gross inability to recognize the absurd ..lies...propaganda and dark shits... I will fear it all NOT.. for THOU ART WITH ME. AND JESUS SAID ON THE CROSS.. FORGIVE THEM FATHER.. THEY KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 84178950 09/12/2022 07:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Phennommennonn the pics belong to me, and with them posted on SM by him n his sister, theyre not private if theyve been posted by them. the law is clear, u cant post pix of others w/o permission, but if theyve posted them u dont need permission. by them posting them gives consent. even if they posted them w/o ur permission. he wasnt fully identified. *we can use first names in our articles. we have legal guidelines to post. and things have been posted on their SM re me that are my life. some of which i wish werent. i dont break the law. He wasn't fully identified by his fucking picture? lol We can use first names? lol Gary was it? Yeah, totally not identified. Again, what was the point in identifying the man publicly? You can play lawyer all you want Phen.... Doesn't excuse what you did or make it right, legally or morally. Say some psycho recognizes the guy from his pic and takes what you said about him as a reason to assault him as he's walking down the street? Then what Phen? Not your fault? Who cares? Got what he deserves? SMH You pretty much doxed the guy Phen. Totally not necessary to tell your story. i removed the link/pics from the OP n ill clean up the replies. i auth'd the use pic as an image of what i felt appeared as an IN LOVE couple. i didnt have to but i did. when ppl post pix its given the mental image to the articles. reporters are permitted to use pix thatre in a public setting. no permission needed. this was taken at the beach. i posses a legal press pass anyway bc i do news stories for the senator. as i said, i dont break the law. you're not a fucking reporter you're a bitter ex lol he's a private citizen not a public figure you used his picture to shame him don't care what legal excuse you try to wrap it around a jury would see right through it I don't even know the guy, but I'm not gonna let you use GLP to do that shit to him because you're butt hurt over a break up. What you did was tell YOUR version of the story. I bet his is a little different. There are two sides to every story and two people can live together yet still see things completely differently when it comes to recalling what went on in that relationship. How is it cool that you identify the guy publicly then go on to talk about very personal things in his life that he revealed to you in confidence? You're not generalizing a concept here, you're talking about ONE MAN that YOU HAVE IDENTIFIED. How'd you like it if he wrote his version of why you are so fucked up, posted a nice pic of you with it, and then used his influence on the internet to make sure thousands of people saw it? Somehow you think that's cool? lol WTF Phen... Yea she banned me and I did nothing fucking wrong. |
| Mother Maggie
User ID: 39906255 United States09/12/2022 07:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He wasn't fully identified by his fucking picture? Quoting: ^TrInItY^ lol We can use first names? lol Gary was it? Yeah, totally not identified. Again, what was the point in identifying the man publicly? You can play lawyer all you want Phen.... Doesn't excuse what you did or make it right, legally or morally. Say some psycho recognizes the guy from his pic and takes what you said about him as a reason to assault him as he's walking down the street? Then what Phen? Not your fault? Who cares? Got what he deserves? SMH You pretty much doxed the guy Phen. Totally not necessary to tell your story. i removed the links/pics from the op n replies. to reiterate there was no il-intent, just a human interest story, which was well received in 8pgs of replies. i posted within legal guidelines on NB & removed the links to be in compliance here. my apologies for any offense. beyond human Interest Phenn... you are still lost in it and its time to let it go. You own emotions are NOT resolved... Last Edited by Mother Maggie on 09/12/2022 07:44 AM Yea though I walk thru the valley of gross inability to recognize the absurd ..lies...propaganda and dark shits... I will fear it all NOT.. for THOU ART WITH ME. AND JESUS SAID ON THE CROSS.. FORGIVE THEM FATHER.. THEY KNOW NOT WHAT THEY DO |
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| Sol-tari
User ID: 76016774 Australia09/12/2022 07:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84181373 Shit got real in here Man is a monster All of us Christ is coming back to save us I promise Would also like to add some of us need closure Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84181373 I love you really means something Some can just walk away and say fuck it Who cares…. Sometimes you've got to give yourself that closure I’ve been love sick before Mom died at the same time Heart closed and will never open again Ain’t no sick like love sick  I get where you're coming from, Heck, I'll recommend the only soppy bloody love movie I've ever liked thru the years of forced viewings of the things. Ps, I love you. Got to grieve and let go You may never get the answers, never got closure Sometimes...people "die". Literally and figuratively How you choose to continue after that... *Glitches May Occur. Consume(D) At Own Risk |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74722283 United States09/12/2022 07:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | society gives us the luxury to toss pearls before swine and not be horribly killed. easily impressed. improper upbringings lead to improper comfort zones and "that feeling of home" in a dumpster, thats how the mind works. it adapts and makes do with whats available. this is how we survive. people can fall in love with a photograph/some old fat dude who knows how to type English properly. perhaps even an AI. people love themselves. they search for themselves in others, with little discernment due to false ease by cheap thrills. we see what we want in people. and blind ourselves to inconvenient truths and realities, writing them off as mere circumstance or otherwise "not a big deal" cause "i feel good". this is the blessing/curse of a developed society. try fighting off lions, tigers and junk while carrying a bucket of water over your shoulders 13 miles and praying it doesnt have cholera. you'll soon see whats real and what isnt. |
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| Garman906
User ID: 81136183 United States09/12/2022 08:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you ever figure it out, let us know. I have no idea how love works. Last Edited by Garman906 on 09/12/2022 08:01 AM |
| Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 09/12/2022 08:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i removed the links/pics from the op n replies. Quoting: Phennommennonn to reiterate there was no il-intent, just a human interest story, which was well received in 8pgs of replies. i posted within legal guidelines on NB & removed the links to be in compliance here. my apologies for any offense. You just didn't need to identify the guy Phen... That was going too far and you damn well know it. As to your original post, you can't make somebody love you. The same thing happened to you the second time you entered into a relationship with that guy as the first time? Big shock. lol Is that his fault or yours? He is who he is, you are who you are, you're clearly not compatible. You're still in love with the guy. He's not in love with you. It sucks when we don't get our love returned. It hurts. Plus as you get old you realize you're running out of chances to get it right. Such is life. I don't know how to heal from that type of shit... I wish I could take a pill and erase all the traumatic relationship memories from my mind. They damage me. But I can't. I have to wake up everyday, swallow real hard, and carry the fuck on. So do you. Such is life. You don't have that much time left Phen... I wouldn't waste another second hurting over the past. I realize you want to 'understand it'. But here's the thing sweetheart, and I really do love you... It's not that you don't understand it, you do, you just don't want to accept it. Reality hits you hard bro'. it isnt a case i dont want to. i cant. i have a belief u only get one gr8 love in ur life. thats me. thats how i was raised. its a part of me. something i cant change bc its there. its not something therapy can undo. its like, im the mate for life type if that makes sense. tryn to chg that be chgn me. i live with it, and i accept that. is that the notion of my tolerance a chimeric dream? i guess im questioning if thats been fictionized. yanno i grew up with fairy tales as a kid. was my way of thinkn fantasyized? i believe in good - and i see so much bad. relationships that have gone bad. real bad. some violence. but they claim to love. some have the longevity but theres no love. they stay bc theyre to old to start over. ik one couple that stay married but theyre open marriage. why? to expensive to divorce. wow. i could never do that. illusion? bc friends of mine been married 30+ yrs & their longevity is real. then i know ppl who jump from one to another w/o a tear. somethings amiss. **LU2 boss  Last Edited by Phennommennonn on 09/12/2022 08:22 AM political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
| The_Gardener
User ID: 82417739 United States09/12/2022 08:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where does the love go when a relationship is over? Wrong question. The right question is where does love go to find a relationship that will never be over. And I have an answer: the library. No, not a club; the literal library. Specifically the 5th floor where all the history and theology books are. I've been in a relationship with the library for 25 years and she's never once let me down. Who is a liar more than one who denies that Jesus is the Messiah? One who denies the Father and the Son is antichrist. Whosoever denies the Son does not have not the Father, either. - 1 John 2:22-23 Daily Prayer & Scripture Reading [link to www.parishprayer.org (secure)] |
| Phennommennonn
(OP) Forum Administrator 09/12/2022 08:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where does the love go when a relationship is over? Quoting: The_Gardener Wrong question. The right question is where does love go to find a relationship that will never be over. And I have an answer: the library. No, not a club; the literal library. Specifically the 5th floor where all the history and theology books are. I've been in a relationship with the library for 25 years and she's never once let me down. seriously dude political correctness is a doctrine.... fostered by a delusional, illogical minority...... and rabidly promoted by an unscrupulous mainstream media; which holds forth the proposition that it is entirely possible to pick up a turd by the clean end. |
| The_Gardener
User ID: 82417739 United States09/12/2022 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where does the love go when a relationship is over? Quoting: The_Gardener Wrong question. The right question is where does love go to find a relationship that will never be over. And I have an answer: the library. No, not a club; the literal library. Specifically the 5th floor where all the history and theology books are. I've been in a relationship with the library for 25 years and she's never once let me down. seriously dude Yes. Seriously. I'm still in a relationship with the library. And it's never failed me. It's the deepest and most enduring relationship I've ever had. Who is a liar more than one who denies that Jesus is the Messiah? One who denies the Father and the Son is antichrist. Whosoever denies the Son does not have not the Father, either. - 1 John 2:22-23 Daily Prayer & Scripture Reading [link to www.parishprayer.org (secure)] |
| T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935  Netherlands09/12/2022 08:24 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where does the love go when a relationship is over? Quoting: The_Gardener Wrong question. The right question is where does love go to find a relationship that will never be over. And I have an answer: the library. No, not a club; the literal library. Specifically the 5th floor where all the history and theology books are. I've been in a relationship with the library for 25 years and she's never once let me down. seriously dude Yes. Seriously. I'm still in a relationship with the library. And it's never failed me. It's the deepest and most enduring relationship I've ever had. that post literally made me jealous of books... and to be fair. i remember way back in the day going to the library and loving it there.. |
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| The_Gardener
User ID: 82417739 United States09/12/2022 08:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where does the love go when a relationship is over? Quoting: The_Gardener Wrong question. The right question is where does love go to find a relationship that will never be over. And I have an answer: the library. No, not a club; the literal library. Specifically the 5th floor where all the history and theology books are. I've been in a relationship with the library for 25 years and she's never once let me down. seriously dude Yes. Seriously. I'm still in a relationship with the library. And it's never failed me. It's the deepest and most enduring relationship I've ever had. that post literally made me jealous of books... and to be fair. i remember way back in the day going to the library and loving it there.. The library wasn't a fair weather friend. The library was there during the hard times. The library stayed when others left. The library cared. The library didn't judge by surface appearances, but truly understood. The library didn't cheat on me. The library never abandoned me. Who is a liar more than one who denies that Jesus is the Messiah? One who denies the Father and the Son is antichrist. Whosoever denies the Son does not have not the Father, either. - 1 John 2:22-23 Daily Prayer & Scripture Reading [link to www.parishprayer.org (secure)] |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 84163216 United States09/12/2022 08:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes. Seriously. I'm still in a relationship with the library. And it's never failed me. It's the deepest and most enduring relationship I've ever had. that post literally made me jealous of books... and to be fair. i remember way back in the day going to the library and loving it there.. The library wasn't a fair weather friend. The library was there during the hard times. The library stayed when others left. The library cared. The library didn't judge by surface appearances, but truly understood. The library didn't cheat on me. The library never abandoned me. Watched a news report once about this dude who was in love with and had sex with his car. Crazy world. |
| ElleMira
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| T-Man
Entitled title User ID: 76630935 Netherlands09/12/2022 08:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: The_Gardener Yes. Seriously. I'm still in a relationship with the library. And it's never failed me. It's the deepest and most enduring relationship I've ever had. that post literally made me jealous of books... and to be fair. i remember way back in the day going to the library and loving it there.. The library wasn't a fair weather friend. The library was there during the hard times. The library stayed when others left. The library cared. The library didn't judge by surface appearances, but truly understood. The library didn't cheat on me. The library never abandoned me. Watched a news report once about this dude who was in love with and had sex with his car. Crazy world. yea i saw that guy too. some cars are pretty sexy tho more attractive than that bridge that one woman married  lol. imo what he said about the library was really sweet and probably says a lot about past disappointments they got their library the same way some of us got internet, beer or weed |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 84163216 United States09/12/2022 08:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: T-Man that post literally made me jealous of books... and to be fair. i remember way back in the day going to the library and loving it there.. The library wasn't a fair weather friend. The library was there during the hard times. The library stayed when others left. The library cared. The library didn't judge by surface appearances, but truly understood. The library didn't cheat on me. The library never abandoned me. Watched a news report once about this dude who was in love with and had sex with his car. Crazy world. yea i saw that guy too. some cars are pretty sexy tho more attractive than that bridge that one woman married lol. imo what he said about the library was really sweet and probably says a lot about past disappointments they got their library the same way some of us got internet, beer or weed Right you are. |
| The_Gardener
User ID: 82417739 United States09/12/2022 08:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: The_Gardener Yes. Seriously. I'm still in a relationship with the library. And it's never failed me. It's the deepest and most enduring relationship I've ever had. that post literally made me jealous of books... and to be fair. i remember way back in the day going to the library and loving it there.. The library wasn't a fair weather friend. The library was there during the hard times. The library stayed when others left. The library cared. The library didn't judge by surface appearances, but truly understood. The library didn't cheat on me. The library never abandoned me. Watched a news report once about this dude who was in love with and had sex with his car. Crazy world. Cars and women come and go. But, the library, the library is a perpetual mistress. The library never nags you. The library never spends all your cash. The library never whines. The library never insults you. The library never takes you for granted. Who is a liar more than one who denies that Jesus is the Messiah? One who denies the Father and the Son is antichrist. Whosoever denies the Son does not have not the Father, either. - 1 John 2:22-23 Daily Prayer & Scripture Reading [link to www.parishprayer.org (secure)] |
| T-Man
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