Why is it so difficult to be yourself in public?

You should probably see a psychologist

Lol thanks for the tip

Nah a brief review of sociological theories will explain this. We are conditioned from birth to find our identity in other people's opinions of us.

We literally formulate our own self image from other people's opinions of us. It's completely whacked. It's also how we are manipulated and controlled by the elite.

You should probably not try to boss people around with your female intuition.

It is impossible for you to make me feel anything. Do not overrate yourself.

Co-dependency, OP, you’re probably suffering from that. People pleaser at the expense of your own nonexistent or minimal boundaries.

I get it. I understand there are who clean up at this. I'm short, bald. Not sure what point they are trying to make they haven't already, you know. This is my life and my livelihood ATM. Peace.

Yeah I'm also going through a lil rough patch right now that has impacted my confidence a little so I feel I'm purposely keeping a low profile to avoid attention.

But you're 100% right, people pleaser for sure even though I know how much people love my personality when I'm just being myself.

So no one in your life has ever had an impact on you, either emotionally, physically, or psychologically?

I highly doubt that

100%

I suffer from it myself so I can relate, my friend. It’s such a hard thing to overcome.

I’m sorry you’re going through a rough patch rn.

Question: How would you act around other people if you could just be 100% yourself?

Controller
Manipulator
Uber alles
Go fuck yourself

I find it quite easy to ignore the riff-raff.
I find it effortless to be myself.

Narcissistic tendencies.

I can relate. Would they like the real fucked up me.. that is what i know my brothers from the corps are really my buddies because i can be and say the fucked up shit in my head. the public cant even handle my shit. i was a dept surpervisor and got wrote up all the time. also was the most awarded employee for customer service. polite with a dirty ass mouth.

Why do I feel like the co ordinator always. people look for me to do it. i try to sit back and nothing gets done or people do not get together.

Mild autism, or low confidence levels. Lift weights and sprints as fast as you can. And stop eating problematic foods like processed sugars, dairy, and lastly gluten.

You might have a fapping problem too, if you’re always falled then you will have low confidence levels

I just learned about it being ok to have boundaries. Between serving God, and the USMC and a mother that loves me but is very hard to have as a mother. I never learned them well.

Life is going better with them. I worry less. I have learned to take care of me.

Sorry to jump in here.

You’re a leader. That’s why.

That’s great! You’re way ahead of myself at that age. Life is a journey.

It's sort of a difficult question to answer bc it's been a few years since I've truly been myself, and that change sort of coincides with the beginning of the pandemic and being locked down for close to a year working from home.

But I'm usually just goofy and very personable. I'll literally try to start up a conversation with any random person

I think the definition of happiness is living life how you envisioned it, and not in the shadow of another person's life or how they believe life should be lived.

When I'm in that zone, life is complete bliss.

But I'm rarely in that zone, and I'm usually either extremely depressed or extremely happy. I haven't been able to find that middle ground, and that's affected a lot of relationships in my life.

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Your statement failed, so now you try to expand the issue to obscure your arrogance. People like YOU are effete, and in error to think you actually influence anyone. They just walk away and forget your busy little words.

I watch porn maybe twice a week, but it's been about 4 months since I've had sex, so I'm sure that's contributing to the lack of confidence.

Regarding falling, per urban dictionary

"The state of mind and feelings you get when you begin to feel love for a person you are sexually attracted to. It puts you into a helpless state where you want the high and can get into trouble chasing it because you become blind to everthing else - hence the term Falling."

Not sure if this is what you meant, but I used to be like that, had my heart broken a few times. Now I'm single and just learning how to find happiness in other things, like music which right now is the only thing really getting me excited in life.

Well Ellen Degeneres once said

"we spend most of our time thinking about what other people are thinking of us when all they're really thinking about is what we're thinking about them"

I guess it works both ways, but you're right, I'm sure I have little to no influence on most of the people in my life, as I'm sure is the case with you too

It's not, you just need to be prepared for the sudden attacks.

Pot calling the kettle black, a vaccine shill saying that FFS.

Digestive health is your second brain.

I lifted weights today and got a crazy good workout in. Definitely feeling those endorphins firing.

https://imgur.com/a/JMt0Z6Y

Based on your replies, I would find you rather tedious and pointless.