5' 10", 40lbs overweight, not rich, dress from the thrift store...

I get hit on all the time. I really don't get it. Like Russel Crowe in State of Play, but, lol, not Russel Crowe.

The only thing I can figure is that since I actually like people, men and women, this is attractive?

IDK

I'm not really beefcake parade material. The thread peaks my curiosity though.