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How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?

 
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
There is no answer to the question.

It's hard.
I'm tired of waiting, somebody push the damn button already!

Keep your 72 virgins, give me one old biker chick.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


Tell me what you find out. I lost my wife of 47 years a month ago. It's been hard and very difficult some days. Everyone tells me it will get easier, I think they are full of shit.
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In the same boat, never gets easier.

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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
I just lost my mom.

I have spells of crying but I am coping better than I thought I would.

But I am having a lot of pain in my body right now.

I think I am holding it in sadly enough.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77610953


Can I ask, is it the pain of her death, or how she died that's causing it?

Judging from your comment it doesn't sound like the actual death that you're internalizing.

Just an outside observation, apologies if I've overstepped.
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Find a psychomanteum contact them
I say burn all of your bridges while you still have control of the flame.
We are like flies crawling across the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel: We cannot see what angels and gods lie underneath the threshold of our perceptions. We do not live in reality; we live in our paradigms, our habituated perceptions, our illusions; the illusions we share through culture we call reality, but the true historical reality of our condition is invisible to us.”
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You keep moving forward, there is no choice.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


I find that killing someone I hate can ease the pain of losing someone I love.
It's sorta karmic.

hf
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That's really disturbing. Is your name "jeffery Dahmer" by any chance?
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depends how much you loved that one
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
There is no answer to the question.

It's hard.
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Laughing my ass off at the second part of your signature, I can relate, but she has to be a bit younger than old. More like middle-aged.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
I lost my dad going on two years this February. It's tough because I'm reminded about it every day. Me and my brother took over the corporation. I won't lie it was hard as hell. But every day I'm reminded that my pops would want us guys to move forward and not dwell in the past and that's what we have done. Every morning I pass by the cemetery with the monument with our family name and I'm proud of what my dad tought us. Be strong even when times are hard and always be humble when time are good. You never get over "it" but you move forward and build success on top of what was there.
The world just might end with me
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Find a psychomanteum contact them
 Quoting: The Analog Guy


Dude???

Any responsible paranormal junkie, let alone connoisseur, will tell you that's very bad advice for the unknowledgeable that do not know how to close a connection.

WTF?

:kiddingme22:
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You don’t cope…you accept that is life. I’ve lost friends, cousins, uncles, grandparents, pets, you name it. But I’ll tell you what…nothing, absolutely nothing compares to losing your mother…
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


I find that killing someone I hate can ease the pain of losing someone I love.
It's sorta karmic.

hf
 Quoting: MAGA Republican BrainGuy


That's really disturbing. Is your name "jeffery Dahmer" by any chance?
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The flower after was even more disturbing than the comment. Get the sense that the AC wasn't actually just being a sadistic prick.
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09/26/2022 10:48 PM
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
Those that have a heart don't and those that don't have a heart do.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
Just ask your angels for help moving on. Whenever you think about how much you miss them just ask them for help letting go of the pain so you can move on. I went through this and negative thoughts were bringing me down.

I kept asking for help and after a few hours, I could feel a weight lifting off my body. My prayers were answered and I was able to let go of the anger and negativity and it has never returned.
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It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


You PERSEVERE and take on greater responsibility.


At least, that's how it used to be in the family system.


Which is damn near destroyed now.


Nowadays I suppose what people do is drown themselves in soy latte's with extra cream and rainbow fucking sprinkles while stroking their blue-haired wig and leather kit.

Or so I assume

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It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


You PERSEVERE and take on greater responsibility.


At least, that's how it used to be in the family system.


Which is damn near destroyed now.


Nowadays I suppose what people do is drown themselves in soy latte's with extra cream and rainbow fucking sprinkles while stroking their blue-haired wig and leather kit.

Or so I assume

unicorn-1fingrDC-word2freakshow
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P.S.S. After the initial shock!!!!!
Live because you can!!! Give them that<3
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
Parents, children, extended family, friends, and anyone we consider blood.... how do you cope with losing them? I was never taught and feel my maturity level to deal with loss is not where it should be.

It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


Pinned!
I’ve lost my Mother, Father and Brother. I also lost 4 other Family Members to the C19 / EUA Drug / REMDESVIR poison that they used to Murder all 4 of them. Yet I live by prayer, our treasures are stored in Heaven not here on Earth. Try to live the best life you can by being good to others. Try to remember Windows,Widowers, Children. By being of Service To Others, instead of wallowing in our sorrow, by helping others, you will find true happiness. Even if those you put before yourself are other members of your family.
Pray every day and ask God for strength. It only takes 1-2min a day. You don’t have to be a Bible Thumper. Just ask God to guide you through your day when everything feels too overwhelming.
God Bless You!
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It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


You PERSEVERE and take on greater responsibility.


At least, that's how it used to be in the family system.


Which is damn near destroyed now.


Nowadays I suppose what people do is drown themselves in soy latte's with extra cream and rainbow fucking sprinkles while stroking their blue-haired wig and leather kit.

Or so I assume

unicorn-1fingrDC-word2freakshow
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You're VERY angry... blink

bash

hugs

That was some tough love, lol.

From,
:G-n-S:
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I’ll tell you what…nothing, absolutely nothing compares to losing your mother…
 Quoting: RestoreTheAnger



Absolutely true.

Toughest thing I have ever faced in this life.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
I didn't cope. I lost my mom 6 years ago and think about her almost everyday. She really suffered in the end so I'm grateful she doesn't have to live and suffer.
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I’ll tell you what…nothing, absolutely nothing compares to losing your mother…
 Quoting: RestoreTheAnger



Absolutely true.

Toughest thing I have ever faced in this life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22255432


That is absolutely not the case for many a soul on this plane ride. Your pain is absolute, of that I have no doubt, but to say that is the ROL for everyone is complete ignorance to what others experience.

To many losing your mother is the natural way of things, losing a child the opposite and most grievous. To many others every child tortured and murdered is so beyond that kind of pain that any other loss pales in comparison. I could go on, but I think you get my point.

My Mother is dying as we speak, a slow and agonizing death that she's very aware of. Do I grieve for her, do I feel terrible pain, absolutely, but I've felt far worse and so have millions of others who've come before me and will after.

I'm sorry for your pain, but the absolute does not fit.
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It's never easy... damn right sucks. I still think about them, and it's hard to let go even after decades it's hard but we have no choice but to accept that people die and there is no replacing them.

It's why loving those around you matters because you never know when they won't be there to love anymore. Make those moments count.
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hf
You are the creator of your own master plan... Make it a good one.

Wake the fuk up and be ready... This is absolutely no time to be stupid!

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I’ll tell you what…nothing, absolutely nothing compares to losing your mother…
 Quoting: RestoreTheAnger



Absolutely true.

Toughest thing I have ever faced in this life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22255432


That is absolutely not the case for many a soul on this plane ride. Your pain is absolute, of that I have no doubt, but to say that is the ROL for everyone is complete ignorance to what others experience.

To many losing your mother is the natural way of things, losing a child the opposite and most grievous. To many others every child tortured and murdered is so beyond that kind of pain that any other loss pales in comparison. I could go on, but I think you get my point.

My Mother is dying as we speak, a slow and agonizing death that she's very aware of. Do I grieve for her, do I feel terrible pain, absolutely, but I've felt far worse and so have millions of others who've come before me and will after.

I'm sorry for your pain, but the absolute does not fit.
 Quoting: Anima Pervestigatio


Yep , I have lost my mother and a young son .
You cannot begin to compare the two losses.
Losing a child is an unspeakable sorrow .
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
There is no coping because you will always miss them. At first you miss them daily. Then as time goes on the pain of missing them is less and less, yet it never completely goes away. They live on through your heart and memories. As an honor to a dearly missed love one we named our child’s middle name after them. So the legacy is there, a memorial so to speak.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
I’ll tell you what…nothing, absolutely nothing compares to losing your mother…
 Quoting: RestoreTheAnger



Absolutely true.

Toughest thing I have ever faced in this life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22255432


That is absolutely not the case for many a soul on this plane ride. Your pain is absolute, of that I have no doubt, but to say that is the ROL for everyone is complete ignorance to what others experience.

To many losing your mother is the natural way of things, losing a child the opposite and most grievous. To many others every child tortured and murdered is so beyond that kind of pain that any other loss pales in comparison. I could go on, but I think you get my point.

My Mother is dying as we speak, a slow and agonizing death that she's very aware of. Do I grieve for her, do I feel terrible pain, absolutely, but I've felt far worse and so have millions of others who've come before me and will after.

I'm sorry for your pain, but the absolute does not fit.
 Quoting: Anima Pervestigatio


Yep , I have lost my mother and a young son .
You cannot begin to compare the two losses.
Losing a child is an unspeakable sorrow .
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79640471


hugs

No smiles in that hug though, only understanding.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
I include them in my prayers every morning, God bless Mom, Dad, ...(other people).

When a lesson they taught me comes in handy or i am reminded of a gift they gave me, i thank them, aloud.

“Thanks Dad, for xyz.” “Thanks Mom, for abc.” “Love you, miss you.”

In this way, they stay near to my heart. Sounds corny, but it feels true.
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It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


You PERSEVERE and take on greater responsibility.


At least, that's how it used to be in the family system.


Which is damn near destroyed now.


Nowadays I suppose what people do is drown themselves in soy latte's with extra cream and rainbow fucking sprinkles while stroking their blue-haired wig and leather kit.

Or so I assume

unicorn-1fingrDC-word2freakshow
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84168688


You're VERY angry... blink

bash

hugs

That was some tough love, lol.

From,
:G-n-S:
 Quoting: Anima Pervestigatio


Actually, it's a mix of sarcasm and contempt for TPTB,
with a healthy dose of over-the-top rhetoric.

peace
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It might not get easier, but how do you cope?
 Quoting: uhhuh


You PERSEVERE and take on greater responsibility.


At least, that's how it used to be in the family system.


Which is damn near destroyed now.


Nowadays I suppose what people do is drown themselves in soy latte's with extra cream and rainbow fucking sprinkles while stroking their blue-haired wig and leather kit.

Or so I assume

unicorn-1fingrDC-word2freakshow
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84168688


You're VERY angry... blink

bash

hugs

That was some tough love, lol.

From,
:G-n-S:
 Quoting: Anima Pervestigatio


Actually, it's a mix of sarcasm and contempt for TPTB,
with a healthy dose of over-the-top rhetoric.

peace
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84168688


I know, apparently you missed my sarcasm, lol.
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
I know its the ending of life and it will happen to everyone and everything

And i dont believe some 2000 year old fairy tale that attempts to make me feel better about it

It sucks but its inevitable
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Re: How do you COPE with the death of a LOVED one?
You don't. You just move on with the people that need you. Someone somewhere needs you.





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