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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 80100930 Singapore 09/29/2022 03:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't have a mirror, in fact I rarely look in the mirror at myself. If I was a narcissist I'd have a blue member account and post my photo and whore for green karma like all those losers I never evaluate people 'cause I don't care about controlling them |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 82358839 09/29/2022 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | damn I want to make a narcissist party. the dancefloor, no the whole club's walls would be mirrors only. btw there was a club like that back in the late eighties with the best chicago house dj ever. people have screamed because of his sets and the joy and ecstasy it provided... good times |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 82358839 09/29/2022 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They're all controlling. The only way to get out of a relationship with a narcissist is to get them to dump you. that kind of thinking can also be assigned to a narcissist. yes I know it takes one to know one. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79999648 Singapore 09/29/2022 05:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After we split up he threw a party. He told people at the party that I didn't always look like that. He pulled out photos of me when I was skinny with him. I didn't reflect well on him 'cause I'd gained weight and he didn't want people to think I'd always been that fat. If you get sick it becomes about them. If you get a promotion it becomes about them. If you ever split up with a narcissist they'll bad-mouth you to your family and friends. If you split up they'll take everything you bought together. They'll even take your stuff You know when my ex split up with me. Right after I got laid off at Christmas. That's narcissism. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79999648 Singapore 09/29/2022 05:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When we split up I told him he was a narcissist and that he could only have a relationship with dogs. I told him to get 2 dogs He ended up getting 2 dogs and he went to a psychiatrist and was diagnosed Narcissistic Personality Disorder. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 82641823 09/29/2022 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After we split up he threw a party. He told people at the party that I didn't always look like that. He pulled out photos of me when I was skinny with him. I didn't reflect well on him 'cause I'd gained weight and he didn't want people to think I'd always been that fat. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79999648 If you get sick it becomes about them. If you get a promotion it becomes about them. If you ever split up with a narcissist they'll bad-mouth you to your family and friends. If you split up they'll take everything you bought together. They'll even take your stuff You know when my ex split up with me. Right after I got laid off at Christmas. That's narcissism. I honestly think that's not narcissism. It's something else. I'm sorry to inform you that your ex is definitely not a narcissist... but just an outright asshole. well, the label 'narcissist' had been mostly defined by self-hating assholes with names such as freud and jung, just to name the two mostly cited exponents of the worldwide assholes-club. I'm sure you get my point. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79999648 Singapore 09/29/2022 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They're all controlling. The only way to get out of a relationship with a narcissist is to get them to dump you. that kind of thinking can also be assigned to a narcissist. yes I know it takes one to know one. Triggered^^^ Fact remains 2 Narcissists can't be in a relationship. They wouldn't last 2 seconds in the same room, let alone 5 years. Nice try~ |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79999648 Singapore 09/29/2022 05:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After we split up he threw a party. He told people at the party that I didn't always look like that. He pulled out photos of me when I was skinny with him. I didn't reflect well on him 'cause I'd gained weight and he didn't want people to think I'd always been that fat. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79999648 If you get sick it becomes about them. If you get a promotion it becomes about them. If you ever split up with a narcissist they'll bad-mouth you to your family and friends. If you split up they'll take everything you bought together. They'll even take your stuff You know when my ex split up with me. Right after I got laid off at Christmas. That's narcissism. I honestly think that's not narcissism. It's something else. I'm sorry to inform you that your ex is definitely not a narcissist... but just an outright asshole. well, the label 'narcissist' had been mostly defined by self-hating assholes with names such as freud and jung, just to name the two mostly cited exponents of the worldwide assholes-club. I'm sure you get my point. Yes, he was diagnosed NPD by a psychiatrist after we split up. I KNOW he was a narcissist because they are abusive that way. They are assholes but even worse. At this point I feel sorry for him but I have no longer contact with him |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 81166024 Germany 09/29/2022 05:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After we split up he threw a party. He told people at the party that I didn't always look like that. He pulled out photos of me when I was skinny with him. I didn't reflect well on him 'cause I'd gained weight and he didn't want people to think I'd always been that fat. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79999648 If you get sick it becomes about them. If you get a promotion it becomes about them. If you ever split up with a narcissist they'll bad-mouth you to your family and friends. If you split up they'll take everything you bought together. They'll even take your stuff You know when my ex split up with me. Right after I got laid off at Christmas. That's narcissism. I honestly think that's not narcissism. It's something else. I'm sorry to inform you that your ex is definitely not a narcissist... but just an outright asshole. well, the label 'narcissist' had been mostly defined by self-hating assholes with names such as freud and jung, just to name the two mostly cited exponents of the worldwide assholes-club. I'm sure you get my point. Yes, he was diagnosed NPD by a psychiatrist after we split up. I KNOW he was a narcissist because they are abusive that way. They are assholes but even worse. At this point I feel sorry for him but I have no longer contact with him well with which 'scientific' material are psychiatrists/psychologists teached ? ... by the way it's still disputed by many that psychology is a 'science', well, in my opinion IT IS. Thing is that people who have shaped the 'science' of psychology were stuck with their 'findings', those 'findings' which became a dogma. This cannot be any other way, cause dogma is in their blood. This realization alone should have made any real scientist suspicious, but going there would have made tabula-rasa with their Weltenbild. well, at least you don't have contact any longer. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84257333 Netherlands 09/30/2022 05:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | After we split up he threw a party. He told people at the party that I didn't always look like that. He pulled out photos of me when I was skinny with him. I didn't reflect well on him 'cause I'd gained weight and he didn't want people to think I'd always been that fat. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79999648 If you get sick it becomes about them. If you get a promotion it becomes about them. If you ever split up with a narcissist they'll bad-mouth you to your family and friends. If you split up they'll take everything you bought together. They'll even take your stuff You know when my ex split up with me. Right after I got laid off at Christmas. That's narcissism. I honestly think that's not narcissism. It's something else. I'm sorry to inform you that your ex is definitely not a narcissist... but just an outright asshole. well, the label 'narcissist' had been mostly defined by self-hating assholes with names such as freud and jung, just to name the two mostly cited exponents of the worldwide assholes-club. I'm sure you get my point. Yes, he was diagnosed NPD by a psychiatrist after we split up. I KNOW he was a narcissist because they are abusive that way. They are assholes but even worse. At this point I feel sorry for him but I have no longer contact with him well with which 'scientific' material are psychiatrists/psychologists teached ? ... by the way it's still disputed by many that psychology is a 'science', well, in my opinion IT IS. Thing is that people who have shaped the 'science' of psychology were stuck with their 'findings', those 'findings' which became a dogma. This cannot be any other way, cause dogma is in their blood. This realization alone should have made any real scientist suspicious, but going there would have made tabula-rasa with their Weltenbild. well, at least you don't have contact any longer. Narcissists don’t age gracefully. They tend to deteriorate when they gat older and lose their looks |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79780865 Canada 09/30/2022 05:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You were NEVER TRAPPED, stop this way of thinking in the first place and narcissists will no longer bother you so much. Thing is, every time a narcissist GETS to you, it's because of your own ego, really. I'm not talking about illegal shit, I'm talking every day garden variety narcissist tactics. They are stale at this point, grow up, it's SO EASY TO DESTROY THESE PEOPLE. It's so easy only your ego prevents you from doing so. |
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