Look, people are Russian dolls, until you understand and calculate with that in mind you will always be baffled by human nature.

Biological, social, intellectual . . . .

Each of these 'people' have different agendas, different game plan and a different currency - often wildy at odds with each other.

What women want as social entities is very different from what their biological self is demanding and since biology has been around a lot longer than social - it will always sneak through, around, under socials defenses - same again with her intellectual or moral self (if it is at all active).