If you’re a nice person you’re a narc target

Had a narc roommate that was abusing his dog and when I confronted him he said I was doing it! Complete mind fuckery. I split that day.

This is hilarious. I have one of these in my life right now. Nice man. Medium intelligence. Clean cut, well put together. Took waaaaaaaay too much interest in me for having just met me. Calls me all the time. Texts me all the time. Shows up at places where I already am all the time. I live a crazy life and know some crazy well connected people who dance in impressive circles. These guys accept me for some strange reason, but I imagine this is not the first time it has cause me to be investigated by glowies (I am not a criminal in anyway, like some of my other friends may be)
Get this. One day I had too many drinks and texted this guy, thinking it was my well connected friend (he has a habit of texting out of nowhere so his are at the top all of a sudden).
Anyway I texted this glowie thinking it was my friend “glowie is totally a fed isn’t he?!”
To this day he has never responded to that accidental text calling him out for what he really is. He just brushed it off and started laying on the love bombs again.

Nice guy. Terrible at his job.

I haven't looked into the geographic origin angle. My gut says it's geography independent.

I see it more as a metaphysic or cosmic force of darkness. Satan sums it up nicely. We just have to be careful when pointing the finger because Satan means literally 'the accuser'.. that's why I looked into how I could be responsible in a roundabout way. It's because I don't love my neighbors. Sorry. I don't.


If Abel would have loved Cain more maybe he would have lured him away from the agriculture scam.

absolutely correct

I attracted them starting in grade school

I have to thank Jesus CHrist for saving me from some sure death 2 times that I know of...

This is how I know Jesus Christ is real and I am a strong CHristian today

No one can spew the BS of this world any longer

Jesus CHrist is real

narcs are real and dangerous



Yes they are children of satan

Had a narc roommate that was abusing his dog and when I confronted him he said I was doing it! Complete mind fuckery. I split that day.


Typical

Your short post sums it up the narc experience nicely. And you split right away. Good ending great instincts.

Narcs have a blaming reflex and if you get sucled into the finger pointing game, you lose.

They are masters at double-bind gaslightong. It's not really mastery. It's that Satan is their master.

This

You realize, narcissists often dwell on other people's narcissism and call out other people in public forums to try to divert attention from their behavior. Subtly trying out ways to build that defense that malignant narcissists need to ply their craft.

Basically, they use statements on forums like this one to probe the psyche defenses of victim archetypes. In short, the OP may very well be a narcissist.

Epidemic of Narcissist!

Everyone !!!!

This ^^^ people should only go after YHWH’S approval. Attract people that do the same and you avoid UnGodly people.

Narc = UnGodly or Jezebel spirit.

wrong

I am a nice person and never neurotic

I grew up with narcs and had to learn what I was dealing with on my OWN as there is no one to help you and

little to NO information out there

for sure years ago NO info

Only until the internet was there any real info on this bad illness

Once I knew what I was dealing with I knew what to do to help myself

I never did seek approval from anyone

even today as I am older I do my own thing

I threw out my tv programming orb over 20 years ago

and am my own person

if you don't like me

so be it !!!!!!! I love Jesus Christ and he (GOd) is the only one I care about to follow lol

I am going to prove to you how nice I am, no matter how ugly you are to me.

I am going to jump through every hoop you place, because that is the type of person I aspire to be. I know exactly what to say to make you feel better. I will be your door mat, you just put the dirt on me and walk away feeling better.


I am here for you.

Could be but at least they opened up a discussion and

hopefully it is helped someone out there to research and find what they are dealing with

and save their sanity and other

Narc information is little and in the past before the internet

extremely to null info

If they like what you like (after you tell them what you like. Hate what you hate, vote the way you vote. Rush intimacy, great in bed, move in together, rush marriage, talk in circles, history is very vague, all ex's were aholes, or crazy, can't keep a job, RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

OP is correct

I am not as nice as I was when I was at 18 (high school) ....19, 20....

I saw one of the narcs a few years back and they never called me again as they

knew I was no longer one they could play with , control, ect

They saw I was educated ...ie knew their entire game ....

I will never see them again

Narcs target the nice, naive , friendly yes they do

look into the videos of Dr. Les Carter.

They are the most common-sense, gentle way to equip yourself to deal with the behavior of narcissists.

Any and all of his videos are useful. Here's one:

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These are the weirdo and the puzzy shilling.
People are made to be strong and only those bold in who they are have any merit. Self abasement, abnegation, denial of ego are all signs of the passive-aggressive manipulator "All sit quiet and hunker down so I am safe and in charge"
Bah! Smack you phony unworthy with muh sheleighleigh!
Puny screechy pants!

99.9% of the people on this thread are feds

Last Edited by ArchAngelAzrael on 12/06/2022 03:01 PM

perfect video for your consideration.

Abusive people suck.

End of story.

Uh oh

Rule number one for me has always been trust no one, especially if they are overly nice. You don't get ripped off that way.

Who the fuck is nice in 2022

id slap the shit out of anyone

Nice people are nice to others and it's all fine and good with loving people.


Nice people are not dysfunctional being nice, they simple met an abusive person who took advantage of the generosity.

Codependency is a not a thing.

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I say "thank you"

Because being polite is punk in 2022

My working theory is that miserable npcs (possibly narcs) dont say "thank you" they say "have a great rest of your day"

Soooo your moms a narcissist that love bombs?

day 1 on planet you get all the hugs & kisses & sweet words lol

Thank ur mother you fuck bag

I'm sorry for your loss

Then all the narcissistic people showed up on the narcissistic warning thread