If you’re a nice person you’re a narc target

Don't forget... reactive narcsissim is not permentent when the victim gets into a healthy environment and away from truly narcissistic people. All the victims look similar to their narcissistic abuser for some time, but it goes away... eventually.

Only say this, because I've spotted a girl at work that does all these things, but have determined that she is not a narc... just in the grips of her narc parents. I don't want to treat her the same as a true narc. She doesn't do this sh*t on purpose... just habits and programming from her parents, and not knowing any other way.

the problem is limited information for a lot of people

many know there is a problem but don't know how to find the details

like, for instance the fact they have no conscious morality and can do whatever to whoever as a game

very dangerous

People need to find books , info online about

Narcissistic personality disorder

read up on the do and don'ts on how to deal with these creatures

Wise advice from both of you. There very well could be an angle here with these type posts. Good thinking. It fits the NWO divide and conquer agenda.

This thread was funny because people thought it was about cops

Virtue signaling is the biggest red flag.

All the people I know who do this are the opposite of what they preach, especially shit they post on the internet.

Some of them are narcissists, the rest are just hypocritical assholes.

Alcoholics and crazy people are more trustable than them, we don't have much filter, we speak or minds more freely, that's why we constantly end up being excluded.

This trailer

Tells a perfect example

This is so true.

And all follow the exact same script.

So true. The omg me too mimic and mirroring the flattery the pandering run for your life.

They are everywhere in society. Especially now with social media.
Now, everybody has an agenda.
I was raised to give people the benefit of doubt, but now that is the worst mistake you can make.
You really cant trust anybody these days.

Oh my god.
I have been cursed by the trap of 23 years of abuse
I had no idea at first. Just thot about everything. The red flags
But by then I was already isolated and terribly confused by everything I was dealing with
But, Now I know
And it all makes perfect sense.
But they ARE dangerous -criminal and cud possibly murder someone when they rage on
the rage behavior part. Is the most dangerous time
I am trying to escape

I'm an expert on it. I grew up in a family of narcissists/sociopaths, but I'm not one.

Do you ever feel empathy for another person? Do you ever feel any remorse or guilt after doing something horrible to another person? If your answer is yes to these, you're NOT one.

Remember though, it is on a spectrum.

We can only trust The Lord

5 star thread.
Ian interested in any other people who have been trapped and abused by a complete narcissist. Thanks fir posting

It has been a very Hard time.
Traumatic
I realized that my life is being stolen

Best of luck

God bless

Actually ended up being a good thread

Thanks for pin GLP

such a 1 dimensional trait

They are also very sneaky and deceitful. They will also poison you to death through your food, while at the same time pretending to love you. This is what my narc sisters did to my parents, other family members, and tried to do to me. AND they got away with several murders, 100%. Even though I went to the police and did many others things to bring justice them, it won't happen. Police are assholes and won't care or do a thing, unless you're a billionaire or someone important. Nobody cares. My advice get away at any cost. If needed, take the law into your own hands, You won't get any help from the police, other law enforcement agencies, or the courts.

Sounds allot like social babble.

For the weak minded...

You’ll know if it’s a narc if you end up feeling vaguely used/exploited/exhausted by the interaction and not energized. Your body will start hurting a lot more & you’ll feel tired all of the time. And then once you share that you’re not feeling so well, your narc will react poorly by blaming you or otherwise shaming & lacking any empathy for your pain - whether it’s real physical pain or emotional stuff. It enrages them to see you hurting.

They value (not love) you based on conditions they’ve set in their mind and if you fail to meet one of them or delay meeting one (like doing them a favor) they go into the cycle of devaluing you & threatening to leave. The devaluation will often be way out of proportion with the favor. For example, you’ve canceled or changing a plan or rescheduling something or other, or delaying a favor because of an emergency or illness or obligation. Their version of “love” is 100% conditional and based entirely on what you can do for them (transactional.) If you don’t believe me, ASK them. “Why do you love me?” You will 100% of the time get an answer that involves the things you do for them or how you make them feel. They will almost never be able to list good qualities they love about you that stand on their own and aren’t tied to them somehow.

There is hope of you get out early enough. You must know that you are not someone’s resource to exploit & discard. You are a special person who deserves love, you deserve to be happy. If you are brave enough to release it, wonderful things are waiting to meet you on the other side of this.

Gotta say the best place online to read about narcs is on quora site
under narcissists
It’s very helpful.

they aint from around here savage

Honestly

Interesting topic

For some it became real life

Good thread

Cheers

Have a great Holiday season

ok so cool kids are likely to be narc targets.

duly noted

I agree. I watch true crime a lot and THAT is where they talk about narcissism.

My narc could become a murderer. I can see it. I know it could happen. I’d be the victim