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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 09:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80576203 Sorry for your loss. Don’t beat yourself up. Life happens, coulda shoulda woulda is all bullshit. It’s the relationship you had. You could not see him for a year and then reconnect like it was yesterday. The bond was there. Count yourself lucky to have a real friend. Remember the good times Peace out Burr Peace to you too friend. Thank you. A Best friend anyone could wish for, was my best friend. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 09:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know this loss will be a hard one to get over. You need to let go of the bad feelings you have from not being able to say goodbye. Instead, say goodbye in your head and whenever his memory enters your thoughts, think of only good things and how much you enjoyed the time you spent together. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80888970 Replace the bad feelings with good feelings of how much you appreciated his friendship. Remember the best times you had together. He would want you to have positive feelings when you think of him. Your friendship was special and he would be honored by your gratitude for the time you had together. As everyone ages, life becomes how we handle the things that we loose. I lost a family member I helped care for for over a decade. I could choose to just think about what I lost, but I will look towards the future and will find a new path and will try to make the most of it. It is what she should would have wanted for me. The memories will last forever. Fortunately too, we shared a few mutual friends / acquaintances that will come in handy during this healing process. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 84897847 United States 12/09/2022 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OBI WON ..THERE ARE PSYCHIC PEOPLE WHO DEAL IN THOSE WHO HAVE Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84897847 CROSSED OVER. THE ''BEST'' ONES CAN COMMUNICATE TO THE OTHER SIDE AND YOU CAN STILL HAVE THAT. IT WILL TAKE A SMALL AMOUNT OF RESEARCH TO FIND THE GOOD ONES. ID TRY COASTTOCOASTAM.COM ARCHIVES FOR A STARTING SPOT. DO NOT BE DOWN ON YOURSELF. IF, YOU FEEL THAT YOU MUST..OK, BUT NOT FOR LONG. I'VE TOTALLY FAILED REGARDING SAYING GOODBYE TO MY MOTHER, FATHER AND BROTHER. WILL PROB. DO THE SAME WITH MY SISTER AS WELL. YOU CAN STILL HAVE CLOSURE. YOU MUST CERTAINLY WANT AND DESERVE IT BEST WISHES, CAPMAN CAN YOU SPEND SOME TIME WITH OTHERS WHO KNEW HIM AS WELL FOR A PERIOD OF TIME? THAT CAN REALLY BE GOOD FOR YOU AND THEM.CAPS. BUMP FOR LATER IF YOU NEED IT. UH |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 10:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | AGAIN, NOT UH CRIME TO POUND THAT THIRD BEER AND PASS THE FUCK OUT! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84897847 LMAO! Thanks for that. I really need the laugh. I quit drinking totally, but absolutely had to make an exception for tonight. One for me and one for him. I could have used a 6 pack as I'll most likely not sleep at all for the next few days/weeks, but that's OK. My friend is in a better place and I'll most likely be joining him in less than a year (long cancer story). But I'll keep everyone here posted. Peace bro. UH |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 84897847 United States 12/09/2022 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | AGAIN, NOT UH CRIME TO POUND THAT THIRD BEER AND PASS THE FUCK OUT! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84897847 LMAO! Thanks for that. I really need the laugh. I quit drinking totally, but absolutely had to make an exception for tonight. One for me and one for him. I could have used a 6 pack as I'll most likely not sleep at all for the next few days/weeks, but that's OK. My friend is in a better place and I'll most likely be joining him in less than a year (long cancer story). But I'll keep everyone here posted. Peace bro. UH THANK YOU FOR THE PERSONAL DISCLOSURE. SLEEP WELL AND BUY SOME BAKING SODA. MORE ON THAT LATER. ALL PART OF THE CANCER CON-SPIRACY. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 10:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | AGAIN, NOT UH CRIME TO POUND THAT THIRD BEER AND PASS THE FUCK OUT! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84897847 LMAO! Thanks for that. I really need the laugh. I quit drinking totally, but absolutely had to make an exception for tonight. One for me and one for him. I could have used a 6 pack as I'll most likely not sleep at all for the next few days/weeks, but that's OK. My friend is in a better place and I'll most likely be joining him in less than a year (long cancer story). But I'll keep everyone here posted. Peace bro. UH THANK YOU FOR THE PERSONAL DISCLOSURE. SLEEP WELL AND BUY SOME BAKING SODA. MORE ON THAT LATER. ALL PART OF THE CANCER CON-SPIRACY. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 10:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Even though this isn't a Bigfoot, nor a UFO thread, THIS is the GLP community that I've grown to love so much over the years that's kept me coming back. And although I've never been a star thread poster nor a popular user I feel blessed knowing so many of you care about other members of this forum (ESPECIALLY ME when I REALLY needed a shoulder tonight). I'm hitting those two beers now for Jimmy and I so I may not be on much longer. Thank you GLP. Your love is genuinely a warm comfort zone it will be reciprocated x10! I love you guys. Goodnight, Obi |
The Oracle's Cookie
User ID: 84318516 United States 12/09/2022 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I pray that Jimmy finds his way to everlasting life and that his family and friends find comfort and healing from his loss. So sorry for the loss of your best friend. Quoting: DakotaRose Beautiful sentiments, DakotaRose. Prayers up for Jimmy, Obi Won...So sad for your loss The Oracle's Cookie "An evil enemy will burn his own nation to the ground to rule over the ashes." – Sun Tzu"...."DO YOUR OWN HOMEWORK!" Thread: SNAKE-in Bank of America Mural? SYMBOLISM/code NOW Revisited W/CURRENT NEWS! Thread: Greatest Secret of the United States, Causes of the Ice Age and Nova, Thread: Greatest Secret of the United States, Causes of the Ice Age and Nova, |
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User ID: 77416429 United States 12/09/2022 10:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Known the guy most of my adult life. We were like brothers; literally inseparable. I'd have taken a bullet for him. Quoting: Obi Won I hadn't seen him as much as I should have once Covid hit (as I moved 80 plus miles away) and everything got shut down. I'm not looking for any sympathy, but thanks for the thoughts. I'm punishing myself as I never got to say goodbye one last time. Not having closure sucks. I didn't get to tell him how much he meant to me over the course of nearly half our lifetimes. His name was Jimmy and if you could find it in your heart to say a prayer for him I would really, really appreciate it. Autopsy said he died of cardiomyopathy (an enlarged heart)...Go figure. :-( Seems so little to say but I'm sorry for your loss. Best friends, the ones you KNOW will be there no matter what are hard to come by in this world and I know you will miss Jimmy and all he meant to you. Just try as best you can to focus on all the good times because I'm sure you know, the last thing he would want would be to be responsible for his best friends sadness. I have one of those guys and I always tell him I love him when we talk whether on the phone or in person. Sometimes I jokingly say, "tell me you love me" before I let him go....we all need that in our lives and I'm sure your friend knew how you felt, regardless how often it was said. Ask Alice when she's 10ft tall This is a battle for the future of civilization. If free speech is lost even in America, tyranny is all that lies ahead. Elon Musk |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77882774 United States 12/09/2022 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Jimmy doesn't want you to punish yourself. I guess that's your grief work forgiving yourself, Jimmy already forgave you. Quoting: Florida Man Sorry to hear buddy. Yes, the above poster is right. Jimmy knew you loved him! No guilt, no regrets - none of us can see the future and you did the best you could by him! I lost my love November 17, my prayers are with you my friend. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 10:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I pray that Jimmy finds his way to everlasting life and that his family and friends find comfort and healing from his loss. So sorry for the loss of your best friend. Quoting: DakotaRose Beautiful sentiments, DakotaRose. Prayers up for Jimmy, Obi Won...So sad for your loss :PrayMEstandUP: The Oracle's Cookie You're truly a gift to this world (AND forum). Thank you so very much for your prayers. I'm CERTAIN someone up there will hear yours. |
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theyrcoming
User ID: 84557044 United States 12/09/2022 10:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I lost my best friend 4 years ago. Its heart wrenching, everyday I talk to him. Days I yell and scream at him for leaving me behind. Grief is a horrible heart ache, your heart seriously tugs. Stay strong, No it doesn't get better, we just learn to deal with it. ((hugs)) SoOn!! |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 78490578 United States 12/09/2022 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Jimmy doesn't want you to punish yourself. I guess that's your grief work forgiving yourself, Jimmy already forgave you. Quoting: Florida Man Sorry to hear buddy. Yes, the above poster is right. Jimmy knew you loved him! No guilt, no regrets - none of us can see the future and you did the best you could by him! I lost my love November 17, my prayers are with you my friend. With ALL my heart. It was a friendship that will never have an equal in my life. I'm so sad. I'm sorry. Thank you for your compassion and insight, but I'm getting the lump in my throat again and I can't see as clearly atm, I'm cutting out. Again. Thanks EVERYONE for your help, support, and above all, the love. |
StellaBlue
User ID: 84653360 United States 12/09/2022 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP may God sustain you through your grief, and lift you up beyond your pain. May your dear friend Jimmy be in the loving arms of our Lord. In Jesus's name I pray. It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man. -Psalm 118:8 No weapon that is formed against thee shall prosper. -Isaiah 54:17 If I disappear from this forum, aliens didn't take me- Jesus did! Give your heart to him today! |
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