6 Reasons Why Walking Away Is Attractive And When To Pack Your Bags

It's true! One star bandit prove it! lmao! sigh.....

or you find out how worthless you really are and regret walking away

Nope, I never regretted walking away and the ones who walked away from me, well hell it hurt, but it was for my higher good. Instinct rules animals and Intuition rules masters. Keep moving forward...

not "attractive" at all

not interested in a chick that only wants a zoned orbiter

all in or all out

Yet some people think like that! That is what blows my mind!

wth is a "zoned orbiter"?

did you write or edit the article, op?

"think" like what

what you posted or what I posted or both?

I will not ever pursue or put in any effort / work
for a chick that only wants a zoned orbiter

I will only be interested in pursuing and giving effort / work
to a lady that is 100% into doing all of life together

zone of the friend

you only get to orbit

and she will never marry or fck you
because you're not good enough for that

but "good" enough to abuse for financial reasons
and as an emotional dumpster
she shits all her problems on the dude
and then sends him home after another "nothing visit"

oh, ok.

women who use men for money are toxic and aren't just using those men, either. there's something wrong with them, seems psychopathic to me.

a man who uses money to try and win over a woman is just as toxic, though.

how could any of these types of people trust those around them?

there's nothing wrong with showing someone you care and think about them with a gift or give them a helping hand when needed and you can, bu you'd already be in some sor of relationship hen or just helping out a stranger you don't know and likely won't see again.

a dude spending money is part of traditional courtship
it used to be part of the "proof"
that you could support both you and her and family

now that's toxic masculinity

yet the chicks who zone dudes into orbit
sure like the benefit of him paying for shit
without ever moving forward toward a legit relationship

I see a lot of this symbolism on in online avatars and even here on GLP in some of the avatars showing the back side of women who seem to be walking away.

Perhaps there is nothing to it.... but to me it's kinda mysterious. I was trying to rationalize the reason for doing it.

I wondered if it meant something and this is the article I found that seems to best explain it if there is.

It seems to be the presentation of some type of form of intrigue, self empowerment and passive attention-seeking as the article states.

I don't necessarily agree with the article. For me, it's simply insight into manipulative tactics some people practice on other people to incite reaction for self empowerment.

The article for me, seems to helps identify the motivation for what I am seeing.

If you have a woman who genuinely loves you, then I would advise against walking away. That is very hard to find.

Nobody ever writes these articles for men.

I wonder if the same principals apply?

I think by the time a Man decides to walk under these conditions, the woman has already lost all possible respect for him even with the new action.

When should a man walk away?

Hmmm

Well, I am twice divorced, single and disabled and at this point will likely remain that way, because most women want a guy who will actively pursue them and I no longer have the energy to keep playing that game. Twice now I have had women walk out on me due to misplaced expectation. My disability places me at a disadvantage. I am atypical in the fact that my role is more suited to being a house husband rather than the bread winner and most women want a man to fill the role of the provider. I am hardly the trophy most women seek.

I would be happy having a woman take and accept me as I am, without running mind games and power trips on me or shit testing my loyalty as a form of validation.

You can have that if you enjoy obesity and stinky undercarriages.

courtship is not what i mean by "using money".

i mean a man who uses only money to show a woman sh should be with him, as if love can be purchased and women are all prostitutes. do you know what i mean? or men who expect that they shoul receive sex because they are spending money yet there's no marriage and in the case of teenagers, they aren't ready to be married. really, even in their 20s most people are not ready for marriage. yet, women and men are having sex with people they will most likely regret aving done so later, and this is predicated on how men use money to pressure women to have sex and complain if the woman does not want to have sex until married or they end up date raping the girl or woman if she isn't putting out. this happened to me, so i damn well know what TOXIC MEN act like.

get it?

My last relationship, my ex didn't want me disciplining her children and even wanted me to stop doing it for my own for that matter. Which of course, over time, resulted in them not respecting me. Her children began treating not only me, but also her, like a chained dog or piece of furniture to be kicked when they got older. He motivation was to give them anything they wanted, because she didn't have that as a kid. The narcissism I had to deal with from them all, just grew to unacceptable levels. I felt my tolerance was noble without realizing I was suffering incredible abuse. When I finally said no more to assert my rightful place as man of the home, which is supposed to be a safe place and refuge, she found me no longer useful to her motivations.

Should have walked away as soon as she said it..... Hindsight is always 20/20.

your attempts to sway men towards the assholes of phaaags is failing. you show who you are j.

I do not endorse anal sex for hetero or homo sexuals. It is repugnant and creates chakric imabalnces that are difficult to correct.

I am not J, I am Wasp.

so, you didn't write it. i didn't even read it. these types of generalized behaviour, self-help, relationship advice, etc. articles/boos/columns are just j instigated/inpired/written/produced waste of time and energy bullshit.

No thanks. I do have certain standards. I am not obese. I don't think I could tolerate being with an overtly obese woman. I have nothing really against such women. I know several obese women who are good people. I simply don't have an attraction to a woman larger than myself.

This "walking Away" philosophy is appropriate for ALL relationships, at home, at work and at play. It is an expression of self-respect to release yourself from any relationship that doesn't appreciate your unique contribution.

I have walked away from marriages, jobs and evironments, that were unhealthy - physically and mentally - and my life improved dramatically - so I highly recommend that you walk away - release the ties to the weights that are drowning you - save yourself

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"To thine own-self, be true" is not NPD - you always have a choice (be miserable or be YOU)

I agree and no, I didn't write it, but I found it insightful into how some people think, and why relationships are something more akin to living in the twilight zone, than real life now days.

lol.......

Can't help but notice you got your back to us in your Avatar.

The whole point of this thread is my attempt to rationalize if there is some kind of significance to it.

Thanks for the response.

I've heard most domestic violence occurs when one partner is trying to walk away, to leave the relationship. The other person feels threatened and gets aggressive. So there is indeed power in walking away from someone. but not everyone will respect you for it, some people may get violent.

Throws one star and hauls ass.

Most people go into relationships with certain pre defined expectations. It is usually when those expectations are not met by one or the other, that things go south.

For a relationship to work properly, people need to come to the realization that you can't forcefully change other people. Acceptance of things you can't change about another person is more loving than manipulating someone to bow to your wishes.

Some people treat other people like possessions instead of individuals that also have their own set of expectations goals and values. Instead of sharing power, many relationships go through a power struggle with one or the other person, always wanting to selfishly hold the majority of control and say on how the relationship will go over the other. In my esteem, that isn't love.

I am facing my "shadow"(soul) we are dancing in the light