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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083  United States05/28/2023 03:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: hankie He may not be the full mental person he used to be, you don't know what cause the damage to him. You don't know how long he has been this way. Loving the man she married, even though they could not be regular man and wife, so she is human, the man she married and loves also, can understand loving she loves their first husband also. She was proud her husband has a heart big enough, she wants others to understand that this is how he cares and how much of a heart he has. In those places, everyone takes their extremely disabled to, warehouse them, and most of them get no love and or care. She told their story, maybe it was because others didn't understand. His disabilities are really bad, I can see this with no problems. If she dumped her disabled husband in a warehouse-type place, I would think of her worse. I am not going to judge her because some information was not said, how long has this disability been going on, looks like it has been years. I don't think he would be as upset as you all do. It would be different if it had just happened, his body says it has been a long time, and he can't control any of his own needs. I could say he is thankful he is where he is and not in some place he would hate. Her husband was a package deal, she loved him regardless, so her husband is part of the agreement. I hear you, it just sounds like a waking nightmare that I don't think I would be interested in living. Everyone's different, but I couldn't roll like that. i agree. And he's in hell 24x7, right in the "lion's den". He needs a "welfare check", lots of them, unannounced. Something about this story gives me weird vibes similar to the ones I get when I watch Vanilla Sky. Imagine creating this insane hell when you are completely disabled and disfigured, and then you have to see the woman you love every day watching you at your weakest, knowing you will never be with her. Heartbreaking shit. Yes, and it's right in his face, 24x7. She is evil. i suspect this disabled man knows it, yet what can he do about it. He's in hell. |
BFD
(OP) User ID: 84323063 United States05/28/2023 03:37 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: BFD I can tell you for certain, as a sentimental person, I would rather die than have my ex and her new man wiping my drool and changing my diapers. That's no way to live. He may not be the full mental person he used to be, you don't know what cause the damage to him. You don't know how long he has been this way. Loving the man she married, even though they could not be regular man and wife, so she is human, the man she married and loves also, can understand loving she loves their first husband also. She was proud her husband has a heart big enough, she wants others to understand that this is how he cares and how much of a heart he has. In those places, everyone takes their extremely disabled to, warehouse them, and most of them get no love and or care. She told their story, maybe it was because others didn't understand. His disabilities are really bad, I can see this with no problems. If she dumped her disabled husband in a warehouse-type place, I would think of her worse. I am not going to judge her because some information was not said, how long has this disability been going on, looks like it has been years. I don't think he would be as upset as you all do. It would be different if it had just happened, his body says it has been a long time, and he can't control any of his own needs. I could say he is thankful he is where he is and not in some place he would hate. Her husband was a package deal, she loved him regardless, so her husband is part of the agreement. I hear you, it just sounds like a waking nightmare that I don't think I would be interested in living. Everyone's different, but I couldn't roll like that. The disabled husband has no idea what is going on around him... so you would rather your wife live a half life dedicated to wiping your ass, as opposed to having a support system to deal with the emotional weight of taking care of someone. Fucking selfish. Personally, just let me fucking die at that point. INFJ/Conservative Artist |
| Miz Dirck de Noorman
User ID: 82708525 United States05/28/2023 03:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave it to glp to take something beautiful and Sully it. The woman marries a guy she's in love with him he ends up with a debilitating to be disease that binds them to a wheelchair and puts extreme pressure on their family and their life for her to find love in a man who is taking an active part in caring for her husband who went through such a horrible thing that's a beautiful story it's a hell of a lot more beautiful than all this trans bullshit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16267099 This place is a hotbed for folks with underdeveloped and immature emotional intelligence. It just is what it is. Baby souls. Everyone, make way for the Enlightened One... ^ Case in point. Very little command of that pesky F in his INJ. ;-) Good girls go to heaven ~ Heathen women go wherever the fuck they want |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 03:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: BFD I can tell you for certain, as a sentimental person, I would rather die than have my ex and her new man wiping my drool and changing my diapers. That's no way to live. He may not be the full mental person he used to be, you don't know what cause the damage to him. You don't know how long he has been this way. Loving the man she married, even though they could not be regular man and wife, so she is human, the man she married and loves also, can understand loving she loves their first husband also. She was proud her husband has a heart big enough, she wants others to understand that this is how he cares and how much of a heart he has. In those places, everyone takes their extremely disabled to, warehouse them, and most of them get no love and or care. She told their story, maybe it was because others didn't understand. His disabilities are really bad, I can see this with no problems. If she dumped her disabled husband in a warehouse-type place, I would think of her worse. I am not going to judge her because some information was not said, how long has this disability been going on, looks like it has been years. I don't think he would be as upset as you all do. It would be different if it had just happened, his body says it has been a long time, and he can't control any of his own needs. I could say he is thankful he is where he is and not in some place he would hate. Her husband was a package deal, she loved him regardless, so her husband is part of the agreement. I hear you, it just sounds like a waking nightmare that I don't think I would be interested in living. Everyone's different, but I couldn't roll like that. The disabled husband has no idea what is going on around him... so you would rather your wife live a half life dedicated to wiping your ass, as opposed to having a support system to deal with the emotional weight of taking care of someone. Fucking selfish. Are you saying he's comatose? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 85900424  Netherlands05/28/2023 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave it to glp to take something beautiful and Sully it. The woman marries a guy she's in love with him he ends up with a debilitating to be disease that binds them to a wheelchair and puts extreme pressure on their family and their life for her to find love in a man who is taking an active part in caring for her husband who went through such a horrible thing that's a beautiful story it's a hell of a lot more beautiful than all this trans bullshit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16267099 This place is a hotbed for folks with underdeveloped and immature emotional intelligence. It just is what it is. Baby souls. Everyone, make way for the Enlightened One... I'm trying but some undeservedly arrogant jackoff with a ginormously inflated ego is in the way. |
| BFD
(OP) User ID: 84323063 United States05/28/2023 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave it to glp to take something beautiful and Sully it. The woman marries a guy she's in love with him he ends up with a debilitating to be disease that binds them to a wheelchair and puts extreme pressure on their family and their life for her to find love in a man who is taking an active part in caring for her husband who went through such a horrible thing that's a beautiful story it's a hell of a lot more beautiful than all this trans bullshit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16267099 This place is a hotbed for folks with underdeveloped and immature emotional intelligence. It just is what it is. Baby souls. Everyone, make way for the Enlightened One... ^ Case in point. Very little command of that pesky F in his INJ. ;-) Well come on, man... you were asking for that one. Lol. INFJ/Conservative Artist |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: hankie He may not be the full mental person he used to be, you don't know what cause the damage to him. You don't know how long he has been this way. Loving the man she married, even though they could not be regular man and wife, so she is human, the man she married and loves also, can understand loving she loves their first husband also. She was proud her husband has a heart big enough, she wants others to understand that this is how he cares and how much of a heart he has. In those places, everyone takes their extremely disabled to, warehouse them, and most of them get no love and or care. She told their story, maybe it was because others didn't understand. His disabilities are really bad, I can see this with no problems. If she dumped her disabled husband in a warehouse-type place, I would think of her worse. I am not going to judge her because some information was not said, how long has this disability been going on, looks like it has been years. I don't think he would be as upset as you all do. It would be different if it had just happened, his body says it has been a long time, and he can't control any of his own needs. I could say he is thankful he is where he is and not in some place he would hate. Her husband was a package deal, she loved him regardless, so her husband is part of the agreement. I hear you, it just sounds like a waking nightmare that I don't think I would be interested in living. Everyone's different, but I couldn't roll like that. The disabled husband has no idea what is going on around him... so you would rather your wife live a half life dedicated to wiping your ass, as opposed to having a support system to deal with the emotional weight of taking care of someone. Fucking selfish. Personally, just let me fucking die at that point. Same. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 03:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Miz Dirck de Noorman This place is a hotbed for folks with underdeveloped and immature emotional intelligence. It just is what it is. Baby souls. Everyone, make way for the Enlightened One... ^ Case in point. Very little command of that pesky F in his INJ. ;-) Well come on, man... you were asking for that one. Lol. You two are hilarious.  |
| 48Panhead
User ID: 76637292 United States05/28/2023 03:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Woman divorces disabled husband but now cares for him in her home with her new husband. Quoting: BFD whether it's "wrong" is subjective....and not really anyone else's business. then she shouldn't have put it on social media to garner acceptance.....simple if you want something private don't tell the world. 48Panhead |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 03:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Woman divorces disabled husband but now cares for him in her home with her new husband. Quoting: BFD whether it's "wrong" is subjective....and not really anyone else's business. then she shouldn't have put it on social media to garner acceptance.....simple if you want something private don't tell the world. BINGO. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 83899610 United States05/28/2023 04:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Woman divorces disabled husband but now cares for him in her home with her new husband. Quoting: BFD https://twitter.com/_/status/1662237085053468674 Yes, divorcing for one being disabled is sinful. Getting married again compounds the sin. |
| Miz Dirck de Noorman
User ID: 82708525 United States05/28/2023 04:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Miz Dirck de Noorman This place is a hotbed for folks with underdeveloped and immature emotional intelligence. It just is what it is. Baby souls. Everyone, make way for the Enlightened One... ^ Case in point. Very little command of that pesky F in his INJ. ;-) Well come on, man... you were asking for that one. Lol. I was too! I laughed. I hope you did as well. ;-) Good girls go to heaven ~ Heathen women go wherever the fuck they want |
| Loup Garou
User ID: 85236209 United States05/28/2023 04:07 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The woman has been the legal guardian of the disabled man for 15 years, taking care of him instead of putting him into a facility. She divorced him, but still cared for him. She is not evil for not wanting to spend the rest of her life married to someone she has to treat as a son I stead of a husband. She didn't abandon him and I am sure husband one is grateful that his ex wife can find joy and love that he cannot provide her. Quoting: Happy in Nature New husband sounds like a wonderful man. For you folks wanting this man in a facility. Have you ever visited one? The smell will knock you down when you open the front doors because the workers who make minimum wage and are sour and pissed off people do as little to care for the residents as they can get away with. These care facilities are a death sentence. Period. Lowest of the low work for them and those at the top skim off all of the money so there is little applied toward actual care. Do your research. Youtube is loaded with videos of these CARE takers.. Just because YOU don’t believe in the Rougarou; or the Loup Garou, don’t make you safe; No ! The Constitution is a blend of 'moral certitude' -- which is one of the reasons that criminals are determined to be rid of it and We the People must be even more determined to defend it. "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." - Thomas Paine The only thing the Illuminati fears is an independent person who can live, eat, sleep, stay warm and defend themselves separate from Federal help. Pray that the Lord gives us more time! The End is near and time is short! A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. ~Proverbs 18:2 For those who understand, no explanation is needed. For those who do not understand, no explanation is possible "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" - James Keller Checkd, Keked, and Rekt! #Kids2 |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 04:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 79256365 United States05/28/2023 04:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80431953 may be good and honorable or he is being neglected off camera and they are getting his money. he needs a wellness check. I would absolutely agree with this. I can tell you for certain, as a sentimental person, I would rather die than have my ex and her new man wiping my drool and changing my diapers. That's no way to live. He may not be the full mental person he used to be, you don't know what cause the damage to him. You don't know how long he has been this way. Loving the man she married, even though they could not be regular man and wife, so she is human, the man she married and loves also, can understand loving she loves their first husband also. She was proud her husband has a heart big enough, she wants others to understand that this is how he cares and how much of a heart he has. In those places, everyone takes their extremely disabled to, warehouse them, and most of them get no love and or care. She told their story, maybe it was because others didn't understand. His disabilities are really bad, I can see this with no problems. If she dumped her disabled husband in a warehouse-type place, I would think of her worse. I am not going to judge her because some information was not said, how long has this disability been going on, looks like it has been years. I don't think he would be as upset as you all do. It would be different if it had just happened, his body says it has been a long time, and he can't control any of his own needs. I could say he is thankful he is where he is and not in some place he would hate. Her husband was a package deal, she loved him regardless, so her husband is part of the agreement. Exactly, and we don't know if he was able to speak at the beginning of his illness and told her he wanted her to be happy and find love again. Personally, I couldn't do it. My husband is the one love of my life, although he is unselfish enough to want that for me. It's hard to judge this situation without knowing the full story. |
| Loup Garou
User ID: 85236209 United States05/28/2023 04:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Woman divorces disabled husband but now cares for him in her home with her new husband. Quoting: BFD whether it's "wrong" is subjective....and not really anyone else's business. then she shouldn't have put it on social media to garner acceptance.....simple if you want something private don't tell the world. BINGO. Virtue signaling? See how virtuous I am?? Double edged sword, equally as much bad as she does good. Just because YOU don’t believe in the Rougarou; or the Loup Garou, don’t make you safe; No ! The Constitution is a blend of 'moral certitude' -- which is one of the reasons that criminals are determined to be rid of it and We the People must be even more determined to defend it. "If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." - Thomas Paine The only thing the Illuminati fears is an independent person who can live, eat, sleep, stay warm and defend themselves separate from Federal help. Pray that the Lord gives us more time! The End is near and time is short! A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. ~Proverbs 18:2 For those who understand, no explanation is needed. For those who do not understand, no explanation is possible "A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" - James Keller Checkd, Keked, and Rekt! #Kids2 |
| 48Panhead
User ID: 76637292 United States05/28/2023 04:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Leave it to glp to take something beautiful and Sully it. The woman marries a guy she's in love with him he ends up with a debilitating to be disease that binds them to a wheelchair and puts extreme pressure on their family and their life for her to find love in a man who is taking an active part in caring for her husband who went through such a horrible thing that's a beautiful story it's a hell of a lot more beautiful than all this trans bullshit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 16267099 This place is a hotbed for folks with underdeveloped and immature emotional intelligence. It just is what it is. Baby souls. Everyone, make way for the Enlightened One... ^ Case in point. Very little command of that pesky F in his INJ. ;-) ya'll need to get a room... Last Edited by 48Panhead on 05/28/2023 04:14 PM 48Panhead |
| Dame
User ID: 81149966 United States05/28/2023 04:13 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dignity, even respect, has been taken from her first husband. I'm not sure anything past that point is okay. That said, only they know their marriage. What agreements were made between them before his failing health? What is known by putting this video out into the world is that they believe they have a moral high ground. Personally, I'm not sure they do. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 85513315 United States05/28/2023 04:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The woman has been the legal guardian of the disabled man for 15 years, taking care of him instead of putting him into a facility. She divorced him, but still cared for him. She is not evil for not wanting to spend the rest of her life married to someone she has to treat as a son I stead of a husband. She didn't abandon him and I am sure husband one is grateful that his ex wife can find joy and love that he cannot provide her. Quoting: Happy in Nature New husband sounds like a wonderful man. Did she divorce him before or after the new man came along? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 04:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73885267 whether it's "wrong" is subjective....and not really anyone else's business. then she shouldn't have put it on social media to garner acceptance.....simple if you want something private don't tell the world. BINGO. Virtue signaling? See how virtuous I am?? Double edged sword, equally as much bad as she does good. lol no LOUP, i'm not virtue signaling. i just wouldn't wanna be that disabled man, in such a quagmire of hell, DEPENDENT on a wife who not only divorced me, but got married and her new husband is "taking cars" of my totally helpless self...... i wouldn't want to be to object of his "bad days", "resentment", and animosity towards me on those days he spills over with it. If this disabled man dies (even of "natural causes") there needs to be a serious investigation. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 04:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The woman has been the legal guardian of the disabled man for 15 years, taking care of him instead of putting him into a facility. She divorced him, but still cared for him. She is not evil for not wanting to spend the rest of her life married to someone she has to treat as a son I stead of a husband. She didn't abandon him and I am sure husband one is grateful that his ex wife can find joy and love that he cannot provide her. Quoting: Happy in Nature New husband sounds like a wonderful man. Did she divorce him before or after the new man came along? Excellent and astute question. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 04:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dignity, even respect, has been taken from her first husband. I'm not sure anything past that point is okay. Quoting: Dame That said, only they know their marriage. What agreements were made between them before his failing health? What is known by putting this video out into the world is that they believe they have a moral high ground. Personally, I'm not sure they do.  |
| Littlebit Too
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| BFD
(OP) User ID: 84323063 United States05/28/2023 04:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This absolutely heartbreaking... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 84476262 Im not downing the OP for putting this up, but I honestly wish I had not clicked the thread. I didnt watch the video, but had seen someone give a tldr... This woman has no conscience. Sad, no doubt. So many of us are luckier than we even know. INFJ/Conservative Artist |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 78140083 United States05/28/2023 04:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Anonymous Coward 85888543 Thank you. |
