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Wife's Father suddenly living with us until his death . I'm Losing it !

 
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Wife's Father suddenly living with us until his death . I'm Losing it !
I don't really post personal stuff like this but i have no friends here and really not even another grown dude to vent with in person over this shit show .

Wife and I 28 years / 23 married /3 great kids . Sold the store and left NYS 13 years ago to escape NY . Mother in law died same year and that allowed us to LEAVE for good for Eastern NC where I had a job waiting .

I was 46 then . I am now 57 fatter and angrier like most in this nation . I work hard at a trade on the USMC base and wife is with me 24/7 . I do not drive because of a fine in NYS and frankly I could care less about driving . I still drink once or twice a week . Sometimes heavy on a Saturday while i do chores outside or have a hobby to contend with .

The wife and I don't argue and life has been quiet while our kids turned into adults here .


Thats the background .

My Father in Law squandered his Wife's Life insurance on black whores and bad financial decisions and went through
100 Grand in 10 years while living with his daughter for 6 years . The last 4 years with his son . My wife is the youngest of 4 . The other daughter , the oldest doesn't want shit to do with him . None of his grand kids call him . The Daughter he lived with is now in R-wing and has been for months in NYS . The Son had a hissy fit and threw the old man < 86> to the front steps 3 weeks ago and my wife drove up to NYS to get him and bring him here to are 2 bedroom trailer i was forced to rent after our house lease went up $1500.00 on the new lease . We had a 5 bedroom home for 5 years and the old man refused to move in with us then . had he I likely would have a house now with his help with the mortgage . because of housing insanity here in Jacksonville NC I rent 2 trailers to keep my family intact in a trailer park with 4 trailers .



He sits in my living room in a recliner all fucking day with the tv on . I got him head phones because we are not TV people .

My daughter is now displaced and is across the gravel driveway in my Sons trailer , sleeping on the couch because he now has displaced her by taking HER BEDROOM .

He is a passive aggressive man with a 6th grade education and drove a city bus for 25 years . Spent most of his extra $ on lottery tickets and supported his crack head son for 30 years and paid his rent and his own mortgage as they lived in a double up and down in Rochester NY .

The hood came into that area badly and he sold the house , the son moved out with another POS Giant crazy woman and went away . Some time around this time he meets a 30 something black hooker and she takes him for all he is worth . He buys her 2 cars in 10 years and pays the entire shot plus insurance secretly .

He gets caught eventually and plays dumb . Wifes crazy sister and him buy a home together and all is well for 6 years . Again the bl;ack girl comes back and extorts him . Old man and sister move to new house but she has a mental health breakdown and kicks him out for apparently viewing her in bathroom she says . he says he had to piss and she was in there forever . new online husband kicks the oldman out and is collecting the $ of Sister in R wing like a champ .

So now he has to go back to sons house where he was inbetween about a year prior . Son is a 30 year crack head who now drinks JD every night and heavily drinks to black outs on week ends and ignores his father 100 % . The old man now calls my wife to come and get him to live with us .


I smoke , she smokes . We now smoke outside . After 9pm he is in bed and I ventilate trailer and have maybe 2 smokes before 10 . I go to bed .

Wife went out for 1 hour to p/u daughter I had a smoke in the house and he sits literally 6 feet from me . 1` hour later wife is home and he says he's sick . I ask why , was it dinner . he says no , you smoked in the trailer . My trailer that he has taken over .

I smoke bagged pipe tobacco and roll cigs in a loader machine . These are not chemical smokes from the store and they don't stink up the joint unless you have a fuck ton .


Well I lost it on his ass and told him why did you wait 1.5 hours to bitch about it ? That I've tried to accommodate him in our place and that we are in a small trailer due to the fucking brutal economy . I'm debt free btw .

He just makes a passive aggressive face and pouts while my wife scolds me .

So I tried to lay down and call it a night but I'm so pissed off . We all went to church today had a decent day other than being stuck here all day and it rained .

Last Sunday I asked him not to play depressing little house on the prairie because it's so fucking depressing and I said it makes me want to suicide . he yells out Go ahead and Do it . We were home from church less than an hour and I was doing dishes . Wife defends him again . She goes and buys head phones that go in remote . But still he sits here all fucking day . Won't / Can't do dishes or make his own food . Constantly grabs my chair when walking by and i have a bad back .

Throws his piss absorbent underwear pads in the damn bathroom trash can and it stinks to high heaven . he won't tun the air because he is to cold so when I come home from my base jobe in 90 degree heat the trailer is like 80 instead of 70 . Which then I just go lay down in my room and am forced to watch TV and then fall asleep.

My marriage is being impacted really hard right now . i'm ready to fucking split . Get my Driver ID back up and literally go to Vermont to help with the trade work there after all the flooding .

We are attempting to move into the 3 bdroom trailer that recently came up . They want 800 a month for that shit hole .

My father in law squandered all of his outlets to live and $ and used us as his last stop because he knows my wife will not refuse him . She is denying me affection and sex because fucksake she is tired and does everything for all of us and is past menopause .

Her dad is a big dirt bag and has offered to help with the bills . he generates 3g a month . I don't know if I have the fucking patients for all of this . He has changed my life course and is not my problem . He was told and almost moved here when I was riding hi on the hog and he bailed at the last minute due to back biting and negative BS with my asshole BIL .


Any one have advice . I can park him in his bedroom in the next place so we have a living room for my daughter who will be squeezed into a closet type room . This is all laughable with clown world going on . Plus he is a democrat for life . We don't talk about grown up discussions because he has a mind of a child literally . My wife's mother was his caretaker ! He just drove a bus , played all his spare $ on Lotto his entire life . My wife's life sucked as a kid because there was never any fucking money for her and clothes . I really do not like this arrangement and Am doing it because I love my wife to pieces . But I just told her , HE IS FUCKING OUR MARRIAGE UP AND WE DON'T NEED HIM FOR BILL MONEY . I will try not to be an asshole to him tomorrow but I can guarantee i will not be talking to him.

She made him apologize last Sunday and I knew is was all an act . he's a bitter old man afraid to die and taking full advantage of my wife after she begged him for years to move here and he pulled back twice after she made all the arrangements . No one talks any more in the family . The siblings all despise each other .

I disowned my Family 10 years ago . I'm also adopted and my family are demon possessed narcissists . Leaving them was liberating to say the least !

I will read the comments in the morning . At least I got to vent . My wife is literally demanding I change MY LIFE STYLE 100 % to accommodate a depraved old man who squandered a whole bunch of good stuff on a black hooker .

I have not thrown any of this shit out at him but I did say my daughter is on a couch due to him in her room pissing in her mattress !

Fucking shoot me !
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09/17/2023 10:26 PM
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Didn't read.

Lol. Simp
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09/17/2023 10:28 PM
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Nursing home. He sounds like he is lonely and bored and needs other old people around. And you are not that old. That shit could go on for years.
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09/17/2023 10:29 PM
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Wall of words
Good luck thats what family are for
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Nursing home. He sounds like he is lonely and bored and needs other old people around. And you are not that old. That shit could go on for years.
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He is still doing puzzle books ALLDAY with the TV on ALL Day all night . He crashes at 9pm .

I have nothing in common with this man and he was a total BETA his entire life . He literally is a NPC .

Wife's Mom died of a urinary tract infection because he didn't smell the seeping urine in the house and get her to the hosp. 3 miles away . She was diagnosed with dementia .

Short term mem loss . I think he let her f\go septic . I always said that . He's a NPC always thinking .


He went through his other kids and was a dick . Now I have to take his ass ? Fuck that ! It's only been WEEK # 3 !
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Get a cheap housing unit from walmart and park him in the backyard
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09/17/2023 10:33 PM
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Who gives a fuck.

This place is not fucking playboys whinge column or womens fucking weekly mag

Take your endless fucking soy poofy fucking whining to a site that DEALS WITH USELESS CRAP.

oh...

My bad...

THATS WHAT GLP IS NOW.
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If your not here to offer some help - Piss off . I'm far from a beta douche boy !

Woman here might have some marriage advise . Your likely a basement dweller with no life . Troll !
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This is such a sad situation, put him in his own trailer, make him use his social security to pay the bills and ask your wife to check on him daily and supply 2 meals per day.

DONE.

The Bible tells us to turn away from our parents and cleave to our partner.

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He is playing up the whole my back and hip routine .

He cannot walk like he was . he is 86 . But I think he is faking half the time . The moaning and " oh lord " cries . So fucking annoying .


I have 2 blown discs and a hernia and still work 40 and then over the weekend .
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Didn't read.

Lol. Simp
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Same!
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Wow, that sucks.

Kicking your daughter out so FIL can have her room and piss her bed?

Sounds like something is going to give. Probably your marriage?

Good luck to you.
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This is such a sad situation, put him in his own trailer, make him use his social security to pay the bills and ask your wife to check on him daily and supply 2 meals per day.

DONE.

The Bible tells us to turn away from our parents and cleave to our partner.

My 2 cents
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We tried that and he refused . We would go into our 3 bedroom and he would get the 2 bedroom . He tells wife then we cant save for a house . TY bro for the scripture I am for sure using that in coffee time AM . She will want that verse . HA HA she is all in her bible !

This comment alone was worth the abusive trolls . TY friend !
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He is playing up the whole my back and hip routine .

He cannot walk like he was . he is 86 . But I think he is faking half the time . The moaning and " oh lord " cries . So fucking annoying .


I have 2 blown discs and a hernia and still work 40 and then over the weekend .
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It would be a shame if he got real addicted to fentanyl
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Why isn’t he where your daughter is? And your daughter live in the house w you and your wife? That’s my solution
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Wow, that sucks.

Kicking your daughter out so FIL can have her room and piss her bed?

Sounds like something is going to give. Probably your marriage?

Good luck to you.
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He acts like it is no big deal . I swear to God on it !

Wife is like just bare with me we will get a bigger place .

YEA RIGHT - That is why I am in a fucking trailer . I hate trailers and we have a management co. from hell . Don't get me started on those cock suckers .
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This is such a sad situation, put him in his own trailer, make him use his social security to pay the bills and ask your wife to check on him daily and supply 2 meals per day.

DONE.

The Bible tells us to turn away from our parents and cleave to our partner.

My 2 cents
 Quoting: Loup Garou

This

He will still be close enough that your wife can go help him out. And you can have your family peacefully in one trailer.
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Why not take the 3 bedroom trailer, and leave him in the old one? Bring him meals.. You said he has 3k coming in monthly.. Utilize it.
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Real like King of Queens in a trailer park


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Ok. I did come back to read. Glad I did.

Thank you for the lols.
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Why isn’t he where your daughter is? And your daughter live in the house w you and your wife? That’s my solution
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My 2 sons live across the way . Oldest sleeps with fiancé .

They don't want him and My daughter volunteered . She is 14 and has no family but us . She missed the old prick . My boys side with me . They are blown away by his subtle fucking with me .

I have not popped a fuse yet ! Last Sunday I almost did . And he said sorry immediately and defused me . I was like Kill myself - nice Christian thing to say to me as I just took you in and we are home from church less than 40 minutes and I am making your fucking lunch and washing dishes , by hand .
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Whatever happens, make sure you and your lady stay on the same side, else he'll wedge right in there like an axe blade...then he'll be gone, but the rift will remain.
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Why not take the 3 bedroom trailer, and leave him in the old one? Bring him meals.. You said he has 3k coming in monthly.. Utilize it.
 Quoting: Tangy


HE is Lonely and wants the maid service . Can't walk that good . But like I said he is working over his daughter . He is everything to her and she misses her Mom so bad .

She has forgiven him . I have also . None of his BS impacted me until now . The Son went fucking ballistic on him . Threw him to the curb 3 Mondays ago and told him to DIE a terrible death ! ROFL .
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Is he a veteran? See if he can get some housing with people his age, or find him a single small trailer near you, like a one bedroom and help pay for it if needed.

Try to be an adult and not a

baby
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Just tell him to fuck off
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I think her brother was trying to give the old man a heart attack FOR REAL . The shit dad has said is mind blowing . The rage the Son used against him is beyond crazy !

The old guy knows I'm really pissed off and scurried to bed with a quickness .

I was in bed with wife and reminded her that Last Sunday the same BS also happened . I told her I was not ever going to tolerate passive aggressive BS from him . I will leave . My own Father in NYS is about to die . I'll just go back for a few months and stay with him fuck it .

That will blow my wife's MIND let me tell you !
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This is such a sad situation, put him in his own trailer, make him use his social security to pay the bills and ask your wife to check on him daily and supply 2 meals per day.

DONE.

The Bible tells us to turn away from our parents and cleave to our partner.

My 2 cents
 Quoting: Loup Garou


We tried that and he refused . We would go into our 3 bedroom and he would get the 2 bedroom . He tells wife then we cant save for a house . TY bro for the scripture I am for sure using that in coffee time AM . She will want that verse . HA HA she is all in her bible !

This comment alone was worth the abusive trolls . TY friend !
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stand firm, you rule your home, he is playing you like a fiddle.

Gen. 2. [24] Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

Last Edited by Loup Garou on 09/17/2023 10:50 PM
Just because YOU don’t believe
in the Rougarou; or the Loup Garou, don’t make you safe; No !

The Constitution is a blend of 'moral certitude' -- which is one of the reasons that criminals are determined to be rid of it and We the People must be even more determined to defend it.

"If there must be trouble, let it be in my day, that my child may have peace." - Thomas Paine

The only thing the Illuminati fears is an independent person who can live, eat, sleep, stay warm and defend themselves separate from Federal help. Pray that the Lord gives us more time! The End is near and time is short!

A fool takes no pleasure in understanding, but only in expressing his opinion. ~Proverbs 18:2


For those who understand, no explanation is needed. For those who do not understand, no explanation is possible

"A candle loses nothing by lighting another candle" - James Keller

Checkd, Keked, and Rekt!

#Kids2
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Just tell him to fuck off
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I did ! And he went to bed . he could care less .

I'm tempted to take turn the Wi-Fi off tomorrow - but I won't.
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He should be in an RV nearby.
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Is he a veteran? See if he can get some housing with people his age, or find him a single small trailer near you, like a one bedroom and help pay for it if needed.

Try to be an adult and not a

baby
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78884217


I have not gone off on him like a baby friend . I honor my wife .

He refused to take this trailer over . We are side by side .

The wife wants his $ for a house down payment . You should see her . They sit together like old friends and she treats him like a KING . I am not jealous at all . But putting the TV and recliner in the bedroom is what is about to happen . This trailer is so small we don't have a couch or a dining room or even a table to eat at together . I set my L.R. up like an office . File cabs and 2 desk top puters .

I broke the wife's shit down and put a recliner there and she put the damn tv in here
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I( suggested getting him to buy an RV and park it in the driveway ! Shot down !





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