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Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I get that, totally. I've dated some very hot men, and some that would turn many womens heads away... I've found that I not only need to be able to talk, but they need to be able to be on a similar level and challenge me, at times, but it's also fun to challenge them. If I can't connect mentally, there isn't any connection. Quoting: Paradigmyep, thats why last week was so rough.....finally found that diamond...knowwhatimean well, we never know what the future holds eh I kwym. Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 09:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it did.. like when you were going to try to do your thing lol and I say whatever works!! So Thanks more than you know! My back is the thing now.. I am trying to get it to unlock and it is somewhat less "grabby" and sharp when I move but it is still very much swollen feeling and feels like it is "out". Quoting: CoolchickNice, I'm glad it worked. It doesn't sound like the problem has gone away, but you have less pain at least. :) To be honest I haven't focused on your back yet, is it the lower back? Pinpoint the specific location if there is one, I will see what I can do for you. :) It the muscle right across the back of my hips. Just feels like such a tight muscle that if I move it much it grabs me back.. very bad in the morning to the point where I have to roll out of bed and be very careful how i stand up.. and have to walk very slowly. basically it seizes, like a spasm but it stays constant. I need it to let go (i have tried to relax it but I can't seem to) long enough that it will ease back into normal movement. Have you tried ingesting weed oil, it cures cancer, im sure it might help with that well first I don't have any, but the thing is I have had a bad back since 14 so I am familiar with all the things to do.. except, it is being caused this time by frozen shoulder. I can only sleep in 2 postions and I think it is throwing off my back because of it. This is a new one for me so my tricks and usual things are not working because I am not familiar with this one. well depending on the deals you get its easy to make. That sux, what positions can you sleep in? if its on your side is it the shoulder that you normally sleep on? Ok I can lay on my back or my left side only. And it hurts to turn over in my lower back which is seized all night, see. I guess that i am always aware of not lying on my right side, abd maybe I my muscles are making sure I don't. But it is too long now and i need it to ease off and get back to normal. Have you ever tried acupuncture, they use it on stroke victims to unseize their muscles No i havent and you know what I would.. but i haven't the coverage. I want to be done with this, go back to work, and friggin feel like me again. This isn't acceptable to me anymore.. Iam going to get my strength back. Not sure how but I have a timeline and it is within 3 weeks.. maybe a bit less. You guys Rock Thankyou it all helps! Well dont push yourself too hard or you will definatly be out longer than 3 weeks. The back is one of the hardest places to fix. Hope it feels better soon Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 515767 United States 10/29/2008 09:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes Geo! You are onto something here! He wanted my av to have a Santa hat too LOL he has a thing for a lady in a Santa hat! Quoting: Paradigmand apparently NOTHING else *no comment* like this one? [link to www.123rf.com] im for all shapes and sizes, shes actually too skinny for me and blonde superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Hey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid |
Coolchick
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Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 09:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | and blonde Quoting: Turtles Knowsuperficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Hey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid "blonnde" can be a state of mind, not hair color Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 09:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Quoting: Turtles KnowHey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid I dont subscribe to stereotypes, i know alot of very intelligent blonde wimmin Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 515767 United States 10/29/2008 09:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes it did.. like when you were going to try to do your thing lol and I say whatever works!! So Thanks more than you know! My back is the thing now.. I am trying to get it to unlock and it is somewhat less "grabby" and sharp when I move but it is still very much swollen feeling and feels like it is "out". Quoting: ParadigmNice, I'm glad it worked. It doesn't sound like the problem has gone away, but you have less pain at least. :) To be honest I haven't focused on your back yet, is it the lower back? Pinpoint the specific location if there is one, I will see what I can do for you. :) It the muscle right across the back of my hips. Just feels like such a tight muscle that if I move it much it grabs me back.. very bad in the morning to the point where I have to roll out of bed and be very careful how i stand up.. and have to walk very slowly. basically it seizes, like a spasm but it stays constant. I need it to let go (i have tried to relax it but I can't seem to) long enough that it will ease back into normal movement. Have you tried ingesting weed oil, it cures cancer, im sure it might help with that well first I don't have any, but the thing is I have had a bad back since 14 so I am familiar with all the things to do.. except, it is being caused this time by frozen shoulder. I can only sleep in 2 postions and I think it is throwing off my back because of it. This is a new one for me so my tricks and usual things are not working because I am not familiar with this one. well depending on the deals you get its easy to make. That sux, what positions can you sleep in? if its on your side is it the shoulder that you normally sleep on? Ok I can lay on my back or my left side only. And it hurts to turn over in my lower back which is seized all night, see. I guess that i am always aware of not lying on my right side, abd maybe I my muscles are making sure I don't. But it is too long now and i need it to ease off and get back to normal. Have you ever tried acupuncture, they use it on stroke victims to unseize their muscles Acupuncture saved my life, literally. I was looking at another surgery (don't know why folks want to cut me so much) but I said screw it and went to acupuncture. Best thing I ever did, it's how I manage pain now, I go 4 to 5 times a year and OMG the relaxation afterwards if un-freakin-believable! With all my medical crap I haven't been to a western doc in almost 2 years, no prescriptions and those needles are amazing! CC it is worth checking out! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 515767 United States 10/29/2008 09:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Quoting: ParadigmHey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid I dont subscribe to stereotypes, i know alot of very intelligent blonde wimmin I know I was just ragging you guys, but the word wimmins on the other hand....JK |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 09:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Acupuncture saved my life, literally. I was looking at another surgery (don't know why folks want to cut me so much) but I said screw it and went to acupuncture. Best thing I ever did, it's how I manage pain now, I go 4 to 5 times a year and OMG the relaxation afterwards if un-freakin-believable! Quoting: Turtles KnowWith all my medical crap I haven't been to a western doc in almost 2 years, no prescriptions and those needles are amazing! CC it is worth checking out! Thats fantastic! Im glad it workes so well for you. Not to pry, but how much does it usually cost each visit? Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Coolchick
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Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 09:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Quoting: Turtles KnowHey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid I dont subscribe to stereotypes, i know alot of very intelligent blonde wimmin I know I was just ragging you guys, but the word wimmins on the other hand....JK BTW, Turtles... they are kicking the heck outa me!!! CC and Paradigm know. Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 09:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Quoting: Turtles KnowHey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid I dont subscribe to stereotypes, i know alot of very intelligent blonde wimmin I know I was just ragging you guys, but the word wimmins on the other hand....JK LOL See personally i like "wimmin", i dont understand how "woman" can be singular and plural at the same time??? Its too confusing...or is it wemen, or wemon or wimon LOL Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 09:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Quoting: GeogalHey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid I dont subscribe to stereotypes, i know alot of very intelligent blonde wimmin I know I was just ragging you guys, but the word wimmins on the other hand....JK BTW, Turtles... they are kicking the heck outa me!!! CC and Paradigm know. we need to find some simmer down music now Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Coolchick
(OP) User ID: 427959 Canada 10/29/2008 09:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | superficial stuff like that dosent matter too me. But if you are refering to the intelegence level, yes i need a woman that i can talk to, and not things like brad and jenifer Quoting: ParadigmHey man! All blondes are stupid, sometimes a little slow, but not stupid I dont subscribe to stereotypes, i know alot of very intelligent blonde wimmin I know I was just ragging you guys, but the word wimmins on the other hand....JK LOL See personally i like "wimmin", i dont understand how "woman" can be singular and plural at the same time??? Its too confusing...or is it wemen, or wemon or wimon LOL Can't be defined..... that's right..... I've dreamt so long.. I cannot dream anymore.. |
Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 10:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we need to find some simmer down music now Quoting: ParadigmNot gona happen... just finished dinner. [link to www.youtube.com] Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |
Paradigm
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Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 10:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | we need to find some simmer down music now Quoting: GeogalNot gona happen... just finished dinner. here try this [link to www.youtube.com] Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 10:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As i said I really would but no coverage eh.. Quoting: ParadigmWell depending on the cost, if it were me id say fuck it and spend the money. Better to beable to work to get more then eventually have to go on disability, they pay fuck all there in lies the problem [link to www.youtube.com] Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |
Coolchick
(OP) User ID: 427959 Canada 10/29/2008 10:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As i said I really would but no coverage eh.. Quoting: ParadigmWell depending on the cost, if it were me id say fuck it and spend the money. Better to beable to work to get more then eventually have to go on disability, they pay fuck all i don't think you understand lol I haven't got any.. havent been working for a long time.. I've dreamt so long.. I cannot dream anymore.. |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As i said I really would but no coverage eh.. Quoting: CoolchickWell depending on the cost, if it were me id say fuck it and spend the money. Better to beable to work to get more then eventually have to go on disability, they pay fuck all i don't think you understand lol I haven't got any.. havent been working for a long time.. Your not on temp disibility or EI? EI is usually good about doing whatever it takes to help get ppl back up and going Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 515767 United States 10/29/2008 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Acupuncture saved my life, literally. I was looking at another surgery (don't know why folks want to cut me so much) but I said screw it and went to acupuncture. Best thing I ever did, it's how I manage pain now, I go 4 to 5 times a year and OMG the relaxation afterwards if un-freakin-believable! Quoting: ParadigmWith all my medical crap I haven't been to a western doc in almost 2 years, no prescriptions and those needles are amazing! CC it is worth checking out! Thats fantastic! Im glad it workes so well for you. Not to pry, but how much does it usually cost each visit? There's a guy in my town that works around insurance, he understands the mess that is, so I get my front, 50 or more needles and my back, same amount, done for $35 a visit. He also does the cool stuff on my head and works on my TMJ. He figures everything is connected so when he works on one area he follows through on all areas it may affect. He's awesome. Also, I know there are clinics that will go on your income and give you individual attention. If you don't have a job or steady income it's like 5 or 10 bucks, if not free. Of course, that's here in the states but I'm sure there is something comparable in Canada. I can honestly say acupuncture was life changing for me. Not only did it lift the pain, it also lifted a depression I wasn't even aware of until it was gone. |
VictorC
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Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There's a guy in my town that works around insurance, he understands the mess that is, so I get my front, 50 or more needles and my back, same amount, done for $35 a visit. Quoting: Turtles KnowHe also does the cool stuff on my head and works on my TMJ. He figures everything is connected so when he works on one area he follows through on all areas it may affect. He's awesome. Also, I know there are clinics that will go on your income and give you individual attention. If you don't have a job or steady income it's like 5 or 10 bucks, if not free. Of course, that's here in the states but I'm sure there is something comparable in Canada. I can honestly say acupuncture was life changing for me. Not only did it lift the pain, it also lifted a depression I wasn't even aware of until it was gone. Wow, thats a great price! I was figuring maybe $50 min. Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Coolchick
(OP) User ID: 427959 Canada 10/29/2008 10:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As i said I really would but no coverage eh.. Quoting: ParadigmWell depending on the cost, if it were me id say fuck it and spend the money. Better to beable to work to get more then eventually have to go on disability, they pay fuck all i don't think you understand lol I haven't got any.. havent been working for a long time.. Your not on temp disibility or EI? EI is usually good about doing whatever it takes to help get ppl back up and going Short term ran out. had to go to ei then ei/sick benefits savings ran out, had to do what I never wanted to ever do. Don't like it, want off. You understand eh? I've dreamt so long.. I cannot dream anymore.. |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 10:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I want to be a paying member too. I don't have a credit card and am leery of Paypal after some stuff I've heard about them. Seriously. Mods, email me an address and I'll send a few bucks. I want to be able to post an avatar that encapsulates my essence too. Quoting: VictorCPaypal is cool, i was leary at first too, but its quite secure Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Paradigm
User ID: 538300 Canada 10/29/2008 10:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As i said I really would but no coverage eh.. Quoting: CoolchickWell depending on the cost, if it were me id say fuck it and spend the money. Better to beable to work to get more then eventually have to go on disability, they pay fuck all i don't think you understand lol I haven't got any.. havent been working for a long time.. Your not on temp disibility or EI? EI is usually good about doing whatever it takes to help get ppl back up and going Short term ran out. had to go to ei then ei/sick benefits savings ran out, had to do what I never wanted to ever do. Don't like it, want off. You understand eh? indeed i do, i was on welfare for a while and it was horrible, needed to get back working... Ill look up a couple places around Kitchner and see what i can find...price wise. You said you were i K-town now right? Swimming in a sea of fractals |
Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 10:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I want to be a paying member too. I don't have a credit card and am leery of Paypal after some stuff I've heard about them. Seriously. Mods, email me an address and I'll send a few bucks. I want to be able to post an avatar that encapsulates my essence too. Quoting: ParadigmPaypal is cool, i was leary at first too, but its quite secure It works... but, it's not paypal I'd be leery of, but eBay Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 515767 United States 10/29/2008 10:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There's a guy in my town that works around insurance, he understands the mess that is, so I get my front, 50 or more needles and my back, same amount, done for $35 a visit. Quoting: ParadigmHe also does the cool stuff on my head and works on my TMJ. He figures everything is connected so when he works on one area he follows through on all areas it may affect. He's awesome. Also, I know there are clinics that will go on your income and give you individual attention. If you don't have a job or steady income it's like 5 or 10 bucks, if not free. Of course, that's here in the states but I'm sure there is something comparable in Canada. I can honestly say acupuncture was life changing for me. Not only did it lift the pain, it also lifted a depression I wasn't even aware of until it was gone. Wow, thats a great price! I was figuring maybe $50 min. Yeah, I'm waiting for the "spokeswoman for acupuncture" job, but no one's called me... oh well. |
Coolchick
(OP) User ID: 427959 Canada 10/29/2008 10:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As i said I really would but no coverage eh.. Quoting: ParadigmWell depending on the cost, if it were me id say fuck it and spend the money. Better to beable to work to get more then eventually have to go on disability, they pay fuck all i don't think you understand lol I haven't got any.. havent been working for a long time.. Your not on temp disibility or EI? EI is usually good about doing whatever it takes to help get ppl back up and going Short term ran out. had to go to ei then ei/sick benefits savings ran out, had to do what I never wanted to ever do. Don't like it, want off. You understand eh? indeed i do, i was on welfare for a while and it was horrible, needed to get back working... Ill look up a couple places around Kitchner and see what i can find...price wise. You said you were i K-town now right? Look for what though> Yes kitchener. I've dreamt so long.. I cannot dream anymore.. |
Geogal
User ID: 373387 United States 10/29/2008 10:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | hrmmm mood! [link to www.youtube.com] Woman of white garment, foreign woman, earth-eating woman, taking and giving life, she is Pele "ONCE IN HIS LIFE, EVERY MAN IS ENTITLED TO FALL MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GORGEOUS REDHEAD" - LUCILLE BALL |