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| T User ID: 665856  United States04/27/2009 12:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Wraith1970
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| Mysterysoul
User ID: 664247 United States04/27/2009 12:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hardly if he has a restraining order, she wouldn't be able to communicate with him let alone use it as a means to get him to come to dr. visits. or what have you. Depending on the state if she is using it to gain custody, of their child that is typically ILLEGAL. If you know for a fact he is violating the RO, by talking to her he can technically go to jail. If he isn't responding to her at all and he can prove it he could motion to have the RO dissolved, but since she sounds like a fruitcake it would probably be in his best interest to keep it. :) or have this dissolved and place one on her. "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming--WOO HOO what a ride!" |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 550942 United States04/27/2009 12:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Aileana
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| Wraith1970
User ID: 444477 United States04/27/2009 12:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | my advise. stop responding to the emails and voice mails. record them and take them to the court to have the restraining order removed. then as another poster said, put a restraining order on her. only way the man is going to get any peace Quoting: AileanaHim getting a "piece" is what started it all. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 654233 United States04/27/2009 12:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Aileana
User ID: 561062 United States04/27/2009 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | my advise. stop responding to the emails and voice mails. record them and take them to the court to have the restraining order removed. then as another poster said, put a restraining order on her. only way the man is going to get any peace Quoting: Wraith1970Him getting a "piece" is what started it all. nothing wrong with getting a piece, as long as you know the person you are getting a piece from |
| Wraith1970
User ID: 444477 United States04/27/2009 12:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | my advise. stop responding to the emails and voice mails. record them and take them to the court to have the restraining order removed. then as another poster said, put a restraining order on her. only way the man is going to get any peace Quoting: AileanaHim getting a "piece" is what started it all. nothing wrong with getting a piece, as long as you know the person you are getting a piece from Oh...you are supposed to know them first? Ohhhhhhhhh |
| AsperGirl User ID: 658410 United States04/27/2009 12:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The woman is totally dominating and manipulating the guy. He's helpless against her and she uses the state, the police, the legal system and psychological manipulation on him, and it works! She owns him. For the rest of his life or until the kid is 18. He might as well marry her and give her everything he's got. At least he'll get laid occasionally. |
| Aileana
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| Mysterysoul
User ID: 664247 United States04/27/2009 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Since she technically put the RO on him. she isn't technically Violating it. at least in Florida it's hard pressed unless it's blatant and out right. you can try to motion for Civil contempt based on her violation of said RO. but you have got to have the proof to back it up. (i am not a lawyer, I have had a RO placed against me for the last two years, and most of this information is based on research on florida law. concerning RO) "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming--WOO HOO what a ride!" |
| t (OP) User ID: 665856 United States04/27/2009 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hardly if he has a restraining order, she wouldn't be able to communicate with him let alone use it as a means to get him to come to dr. visits. or what have you. Depending on the state if she is using it to gain custody, of their child that is typically ILLEGAL. Quoting: MysterysoulIf you know for a fact he is violating the RO, by talking to her he can technically go to jail. If he isn't responding to her at all and he can prove it he could motion to have the RO dissolved, but since she sounds like a fruitcake it would probably be in his best interest to keep it. :) or have this dissolved and place one on her. The state put the restraining order on him. Yes, it is a fact that he's been violating the RO. He's been doing whatever she tells him to do. I told him to take all the emails, text messages and crazy voice mails to the police, but he's scared. In my opinion, he's so screwed, 6 in one hand, half a dozen in the other. He's seriously being played like a puppet. |
| Aileana
User ID: 561062 United States04/27/2009 12:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| t (OP) User ID: 665856 United States04/27/2009 12:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hardly if he has a restraining order, she wouldn't be able to communicate with him let alone use it as a means to get him to come to dr. visits. or what have you. Depending on the state if she is using it to gain custody, of their child that is typically ILLEGAL. Quoting: MysterysoulIf you know for a fact he is violating the RO, by talking to her he can technically go to jail. If he isn't responding to her at all and he can prove it he could motion to have the RO dissolved, but since she sounds like a fruitcake it would probably be in his best interest to keep it. :) or have this dissolved and place one on her. The state put the restraining order on him. Yes, it is a fact that he's been violating the RO. He's been doing whatever she tells him to do. I told him to take all the emails, text messages and crazy voice mails to the police, but he's scared. In my opinion, he's so screwed, 6 in one hand, half a dozen in the other. He's seriously being played like a puppet. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 656169 United States04/27/2009 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Mysterysoul
User ID: 664247 United States04/27/2009 01:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | well if that the case and he is actually violating it. hell tell him to turn himself in at least he'll be protected from her in jail. and hey he might be able to get a court appointed lawyer to help him fight it at this point and end the madness. "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, martini in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming--WOO HOO what a ride!" |
| Wraith1970
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| Wraith1970
User ID: 444477 United States04/27/2009 01:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | At least he'll get laid occasionally. Quoting: Aileanahave you ever been married? sorry too much sam kinison  There is no such thing as too much Sam Kinison. Bite your tongue dear lass. Last Edited by Wraith1970 on 04/27/2009 01:02 PM |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 665856 United States04/27/2009 01:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it a permanent restraing order or a temporary? If temporary, then they have a court date. He needs to file a response to her restraining order and perhaps file a restraing order on his behalf. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 656169Is the child his? If so, he needs to file for custody/visitation papers now! The restraining order is for three years. The court date has come and gone. He thinks the kid is but who knows.... |
| Aileana
User ID: 561062 United States04/27/2009 01:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 656169 United States04/27/2009 01:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If the restraing order is for a period of three years then it is a permanent restraing order and he is crazy to have any contact with her whatsoever. After the child is born he can, if he chooses, file a Petition to Establish Paternity. He can petition the court for visitation/custody. If she is contacting him then he should file for a restraining order for himself. Courts generally don't take kindly to folks who violate their own restraining orders. |
| AsperGirl User ID: 658410 United States04/27/2009 01:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 593154 United States04/27/2009 01:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hardly if he has a restraining order, she wouldn't be able to communicate with him let alone use it as a means to get him to come to dr. visits. or what have you. Depending on the state if she is using it to gain custody, of their child that is typically ILLEGAL. Quoting: t 665856If you know for a fact he is violating the RO, by talking to her he can technically go to jail. If he isn't responding to her at all and he can prove it he could motion to have the RO dissolved, but since she sounds like a fruitcake it would probably be in his best interest to keep it. :) or have this dissolved and place one on her. +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ The state put the restraining order on him. Yes, it is a fact that he's been violating the RO. He's been doing whatever she tells him to do. I told him to take all the emails, text messages and crazy voice mails to the police, but he's scared. He has no reason to be scared if he has evidence to present that she's been instigating communication with him. |
| Sombra
User ID: 531811 United States04/27/2009 01:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I have a buddy that has a restraining order that was put on him by the state. In December, he called the police on his f-buddy because she was tearing up the house. As soon as the police arrive, she takes a dive on the floor in front of him and the police arrested him. He had his trial and she didn't show up nor press any charges. However, the state put a restraining order on him to stay away from her. The twist to this is she's pregnant. She using the restraining order to work him like a puppet, and she's good at it. She's threatening to have him locked up if he doesn't go to the doctor visits , come to see her, buy her all these expensive gifts, etc.. And of course, I'll leave this country with this baby and you'll never see it. He's so pathetic it's ridiculous. He has tons of these crazy types of emails, text messages and voice mails. He's obviously calling her back, taking her wherever she wants to go and doing whatever she's requesting. Which is in violation of the restraining order.What can he do??? If anyone has any advice please let me know. fyi.. he doesn't have the 10k to pay a lawyer to deal with it. Quoting: T 665856Doesn't him taking her to the dr. violate the restraining order? All he has to do is go get a restraining order against her and then call the police everytime she calls him. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 631867 United States04/27/2009 02:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And obviously it would be in his best interest to keep the texts and emails to present them in court if/when necessary. The only other thing she can do is get him for child support when the baby is due. If he is not sure the baby is his I would suggest he go to court demanding a paternity test. He's an idiot. He is not liable to drive her where she needs to go. His only liability is to the baby if in fact it is his. He's being her puppet, and he's letting her treat him as such. He needs his balls back. |
