Where have the kind and gentle women gone?

As Good As It Gets.

no they believe thier marriage will last and so on that stregnth they then start a family, big mistake cause then after divorce they cannot meet thier obligations to raise thier child. and nearly land at poverty.. every woman who wants a child must now ask herself honestly if she can raise said child on her own, and not in horrible poverty So if the answere is no. then she puts herself in future financial destruction if she proceeds with having a child... high divorce rates now make this decision imperative. .. also couples on tight budget start a family and buy a house so of course they will not have funds to pay thier bills add inflation hitting thier pay checks each year thus erodig thier buying poawere then of course they will be broke and argue alot and prolly get a divorce. .. woen still refuse to be respnabl for thier own financial future and ger clobbered after divorce if they had bills and a child. so whose fault s it.. it is her fault. she did not think ahead before she had a child.

But ask them to trim their moustache and beard.....

And leg and arm hair and oh well you know....

Just sayin.....

There are still some out there. The thing is...women have really been handed a raw deal during women's lib era. They were told they could be wives, mothers, and breadwinners. The husbands, for years, still thought they could come home from work and demand dinner while he sat in his LazyBoy for the evening and watched TV. It's no wonder women have had to get a little more backbone. Shrinking violets aren't promoted at work. Shrinking violets get stuck doing all the housework. Shrinking violets are unhappy. But you will find some who are cute, assertive, smart, don't flaunt their sexuality and have been taught to behave and be a lady. Unfortunately, you have to hunt them down because they don't hang out in the bars.

It's funny how men claim to be more clever but fail to put 2 and 2 together to make 4.

Why don't you look at how men behave?

Put your thread together with the thread:

"Handling a Problem Woman"
Thread: Handling a Problem Woman

Where the guy claims that the way to handle a woman who won't listen is to tell the woman to "get behind me woman" and if she doesn't like it she can hit the road.

When women have rights, they aren't trapped with abusive or disrespectful losers. The good ones can pick up and leave and find opportunity elsewhere.

Instead of asking where the great women are, why don't you ask what are you doing to attract and hold onto great women? How much respect, dignity, self-esteem and growth do you offer women who are with you? How long before the words "slut" and "bitch" come out of your low-class mouth, disgusting her and driving her away?

And they don't hang out with men who disrespect them.

They're all building bridges and running chain saws with their girl friends.

Proverbs chapter 31
King James Version
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1 The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him.
2 What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows?
3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
4 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink:
5 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted.
6 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts.
7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.
8 Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction.
9 Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.

Dear Robby,

Sorry you have lost your faith , please realize what you put out there you will get. Meaning if you don't plan on seeing a great sweetheart of a woman, one who wants to be your one and only, who gives from her heart, shows you respect as the man in her life, rocks your world then you won't find her.


Yes unfortunately there are many woman and men for that matter that make their own chaos, fights , addictions, and trashy all around behavior their own demise. That demise is and will be evident in their lives and yours if you choose to be part of that crap. Many men and women who are materialistic aren't stopping to smell the roses , enjoy the beauty and friendships around them. They aren't making or enjoying memories they are enjoying things. When you enjoy materialistic things you are never happy because you will want more or something new tomorrow that need is never filled and the joy never found.

In fairness there are so many wonderful , beautiful , sexy women that are hearts filled with gold. Some unfortunately give their hearts to the wrong ones. If you want that type go where they are at Churches, spiritual events, hobbies that you would mutually enjoy, charity events where they might be giving of their hearts, time or money. Other places where you will find them seek and you shall find. If you are looking for a trash monkey of either sex you will find those also but you can't make a trash monkey into a classy person they have to want to do that for themselves.

No offense but when a guy finds a trashy woman who has no class or morals , marries her because he was thinking with the wrong head, then complains I have no sympathy. Meaning we all have paths and choices as adults beautiful good hearted kind sexy women have sex too hello.... So the ones who chose that kind to date or marry then whine later she cheated on me, she doesn't love me, she sleep with my best friend ( ah hello didn't you say she did the whole football team before you married her or most of the guys at work) , she is mean to the kids, she doesn't like to cook or take care of us. NO offense but some should have seen the signs first before they went down the path. If you keep going the same path and end up in a hole in the road, someone digs you out and you go down the path again fall in the same pit well I guess you need to re examine your life and choices. I am not meaning you Robby or anyone I am saying those in general who make stupid choices will reap what they sow.

There are beautiful women out there with good hearts and souls but they are looking for the same in return. A loyal man, a kind hearted man and one that will protect them , be strong for them, guide them and take care of them. If you have those qualities then seek what you are looking for.

ON a Different Note:

For one of the posters looking for a Russian mail order bride . They have them. Now be sure to have lots of money, a good divorce lawyer in the wings, and to never see your child again if you have one together. I am sure there are some wonderful Russian women who have good goals and hearts and would make wonderful wives so not generalizing. Just giving a word of advice for those who chose the mail order route the Postal Service doesn't send them back for you . They go first class if they came over for a sucker , they go back with your money,children and self esteem or worse they stay and you pay for it all while they move on with someone else.

So good luck all may you all find what you are looking for but don't generalize , look in the right places , be loyal and respectful when you find or they will move on Hello....

Blessings,

Angel

Every generation has its relationship issues.

Family has taken a backseat to experience in some ways but the old can still be had.

Good lucks!

Every generation has its relationship issues.

Not true back then in the good old times women respected themselves!

If you go back 500 yaers ago you would probably be shocked to see how slutty the modern women have become compared to the good old days back then a woman stayed virgin until she married nowadays se can had sex with dozens of men before marrying and will probably divorce after a year or two that's the tragedy of the modern era!

Somehow if we go back to a medieval age then maybe people will learn to respect themselves.

And i say people because men act in the same fashion with most of the modern men turning gay....

I think music movies dancings influenced our era in a very negative way!

Let's burn the television it's all because of those screens!

Buurn tv screens!



Ah much better!

What world are you living in?

People have always run around and had sex.

There have always been promoiscuous women and men.

There has always been disrespect.

They have nearly all gone extinct, except for a few scattered far and wide.

There are still a few around.

Exactly hon! Blessings sweet one!

Angel ():)

That's the hole point back then the sluts were a minority now they are the standard and the good respectable are the exceptions so this proof that modernizing has turned people into morally depraved animal like beings.

Except for a few still showing self respect.

In my school all the girls were sluts they changed from boy friends like they change clothes same in universities and high schools.

And the men are gigolos or gay so same thing here....

Or jerking for that matter if they are losers!

Some of us are still kind OP

Ive seen some pretty disturbing things with women in the past few years. Im not that old but I was raised in an old fashioned way (grandma). When in the hell did it become ok for a woman to fart and burp? Thats what I want to know. I would drop any girl instantly that did this, I dont even do that crap infront of people.

As for your statements OP Ive only met one loud mouthed girl, the girl was a hardcore feminist. She cheated on any guy shed ever been with because of the almighty vag. I would suggest if you ever meet a loud mouthed girl to run for your fricken life.

On a side note you might try church. If a woman attends church and is not forced to do so theres a good possiblity shes a keeper. Its difficult for us that dont believe in god but I believe good women goto church.

BTW any of you feminists seen idiocracy? Might wanna pick that up.

Last Edited by Memysabu on 06/22/2009 12:32 PM

Romania

Except Tessa....hehehehehehe

Where do you live? The young girls around here are not ugly and fat! I have two kids (a daughter 22 and a son 18)...the daughter is a senior in a science and engineering college and the son a sophomore at the same school. The school takes a lot of flack about the girls not being as HOT as those in the lower tier schools. But, these are the most brilliant, sweet girls. Yet the guys want the sluts who drink, party, and put out rather than the ones who study and aspire to better themselves. Are you really that intimidated by women with brains? Raising my kids was a real shock, though, as I taught them to be a little old-fashioned (girls wait to be asked out and boys always pay). Well, about the time my son turned 8, the phone started ringing off the wall with little girls throwing themselves at him -- WTF? My daughter is very beautiful (both inside and out), but rarely gets asked out and a lot of the guys think she is a little cold because she refuses to run after them, so they watch her, talk about her, follow her around. They drop all of these hints and yet are too afraid to ask her out. Where are your backbones, guys? I guess they have become so used to the females being the aggressors that they will wait -- in vain -- as good girls rarely ask out the boy.

Not to be too off topic but let me just say that awareness is key. Television can be a programming device - if you allow it to be by lack of awareness. Self discipline & control are necessary for success. Burning the television would be tantamount to removing the firearm from a criminal who will find other means to fulfill what is innate. It all comes down to you - with awareness, you decide, hence you are asserting your control.

My Grandfather had a saying that had a profound influence on me in my formative years; - "You have to know how to walk in the fire & not get burned".

Last Edited by Joqui on 06/22/2009 01:26 PM

Im a gentle and respectable man but i pretend to be a bum and smell of catfood waitin for the day a wise women will sniff me out...

hasnt happend yet tho...

Maybe you should quit going to bars to look for women.

I never gave up, and i found the best woman in the whole earth.

Yep

Then, I make free to wish you Joy in your good fortune!

The more that a woman has bought into garbage feminist doctrine, the more masculine she becomes. This conflicts with nature and a more natural relationship. Ever see a picture of the founding ladies of feminism from around the turn of the century. They are the ugliest/angriest bunch of man-haters that I have ever seen in my life. These are probably the ten who were passed over during one of the California gold rushes......where there was one female for every ten men......yet they still continued unmarried.