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| Phedup User ID: 859472  Canada01/08/2010 07:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 773494  United States01/08/2010 07:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Does he have a place to stay? I think what really has had an impact on my son was having a part-time job. Once he had to stack veggies at the local grocery store for a few months he decided he was going to do a little more with his life. Has your son ever had a job? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 860427 United States01/08/2010 07:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 860085  Finland01/08/2010 07:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
XPMarksthe
 User ID: 857201 United States01/08/2010 07:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well...it had to happen...our last kid was given marching orders. He is being invited to leave our home. Quoting: Phedup 859472What started off as the most beautiful child finally ended being consumed by this sick world: He is not legal drinking age (17) He has been using fake ID's to get into strip clubs. He has been abusing alcohol. His life is now being lived out on 'Facebook'. He has 300 'Facebook' friends, where they all sound like fucking retards. He has turned his back on his whole family. He has a twisted perverted interest in dark things. I saw him giving the evil, satanic 'diablo' sign in a photo. He does not cry. His eyes look empty. He seems to lack a soul. He celebrates that sick fuck 'Eminem', or 'Slim Shady', or whatever the fuck his name is. He is obsessed with evil and horror and mutilation. He has ZERO RESPECT for his house duties and rules. His zombified friends call constantly and get ignorant with us when we politely ask them to stop. He has been watching 'hard core' porn in his room. Now...before all of you 'amazing parents' jump in here to start shredding me to pieces. My Wife and I know...WITH ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY...that we gave him love, support and a nurturing home. We never spoiled him. Our conclusion: Like so many other Parents today...we have been robbed of our child by this sick, twisted, perverted, 'facebook' of a world we now find ourselves living in. Our children are being taken from us. The 'nuclear' Family is doomed in this NWO age. Peace and love to all. No, you just really suck at being parents. Since you seem unable to set the most preliminary boundaries, since you seem to be such pathetic weenies at enforcing any kind of rules, perhaps it should have occurred to you to get professional help? Or is this just a fake little phoney setup of a post? Last Edited by XPMarksthe on 01/08/2010 07:53 PM XXP . Get to the point, then shut up.. |
| Phedup (OP) User ID: 859472 Canada01/08/2010 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | His younger brother (the one who was just asked to leave), has a full-time job that pays well enough. I actually got him the job, and all he can do is laugh in my face. I see these 'children acting like adults' everywhere today...hard to believe they are the future. I still love them from very far away, as they are both intolerable. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 723400  Ireland01/08/2010 07:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 854920  Australia01/08/2010 07:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Phallusy
User ID: 729370 United States01/08/2010 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | These kids have it way to easy these days. How they can easily watch an array of hardcore porn with a click of a button in their rooms. I wish I coulda done that at 17 :4: I think EAT is a pretty cool guy, eh predicts earthquakes and doesn't afraid of anything |
| Phedup (OP) User ID: 859472 Canada01/08/2010 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 860206  Austria01/08/2010 07:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 860085 Finland01/08/2010 07:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Does he have a place to stay? I think what really has had an impact on my son was having a part-time job. Once he had to stack veggies at the local grocery store for a few months he decided he was going to do a little more with his life. Has your son ever had a job? Quoting: FaithWell, being slave to this society and doing jobs which you dont enjoy drives many of these younglings into thug culture. I can understand why, when 1% of people (bankers) rob 99% this system seems very unfair...no wonder many of these youths have attitude fuck the system and they are partially right. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 773494 United States01/08/2010 08:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He will be moving in with his drug-addicted brother of 21 years, who himself will be entering into a rehab program. Quoting: Phedup 859472His younger brother (the one who was just asked to leave), has a full-time job that pays well enough. I actually got him the job, and all he can do is laugh in my face. I see these 'children acting like adults' everywhere today...hard to believe they are the future. I still love them from very far away, as they are both intolerable. It's not easy living with young men these days (my son is 19). Everything in our youth obsessed society tells them they are hot shit and they tend to believe it. Parents are always old morons. Trust that one day he will realize that his parents actually knew what they were talking about. Does he have enough smarts not to get involved in drugs like his brother? |
| Phedup (OP) User ID: 859472 Canada01/08/2010 08:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| evil buddha
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| XPMarksthe
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| Reality Is B.S
User ID: 860285 United States01/08/2010 08:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All I see in the OPs post are blame and judgement for his kids. Did it ever occur to you that maybe they are looking for the love and acceptance in drugs an porn that they never got from you? I'm willing to bet you hit them as kids as well. Kids aren't born this way and you and your wife are the ones who had the most influence on them. Time to look in the mirror and take responsibility like you would like your sons to do. It would be a lot easier for them if they had a father who would model that behaviour, but I guess there's no chance of that is there? Throwing more erroneous useless information into the original arguement. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 773494 United States01/08/2010 08:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Does he have a place to stay? I think what really has had an impact on my son was having a part-time job. Once he had to stack veggies at the local grocery store for a few months he decided he was going to do a little more with his life. Has your son ever had a job? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 860085Well, being slave to this society and doing jobs which you dont enjoy drives many of these younglings into thug culture. I can understand why, when 1% of people (bankers) rob 99% this system seems very unfair...no wonder many of these youths have attitude fuck the system and they are partially right. Low-paying part-time after school jobs do not drive kids into the thug culture. |
| XPMarksthe
User ID: 857201 United States01/08/2010 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | XPMarksthe... Quoting: Phedup 859472I'm even willing to bet that you're no older than 19 yourself...just based on the maturity level of your post. :) Posts like yours make me realize what loser parents are out there.... Geezzz Last Edited by XPMarksthe on 01/08/2010 08:03 PM XXP . Get to the point, then shut up.. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 769971 Canada01/08/2010 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should've beaten the little bastard. I'm not joking. It worked for me and my brother. There's a point in youth where parents have to make their points "hard" and "swift", a really turning point. Apperantly you missed it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 860206I don't like the swear word but it's true...the problem with kids no adays is that there is no discipline..They think they can do whatever they want and get away with it. Well in my family old world european mom is dutch dad is hardcore hungarian revolutionist soldier grew up during one of the most brutal wars in Hungary including the nazi war. We grew up scared of him but also there was much love, morales, ethics and family values, and hardly any tv, our entertainment was outside. That's what kids need now is no tv. What you need to do I feel is really discipline him take away all his toys, maybe get him into boot camp and sit down with him talk to him..Don't give up on him, some can still see the light..My family are no religious but I am, Jesus saved my life when I lost my brother at the age of 25 a few years ago in a tragic mva, but I never lose hope or the light with God. :) I wish you much luck and I am sorry for what has happened to your family. I can only say to other parents to take away the tv box don't raise your children on electronics raise them on the outdoors and their imagination it worked for me :) |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 839978 United States01/08/2010 08:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He will be moving in with his drug-addicted brother of 21 years, who himself will be entering into a rehab program. Quoting: Phedup 859472His younger brother (the one who was just asked to leave), has a full-time job that pays well enough. I actually got him the job, and all he can do is laugh in my face. I see these 'children acting like adults' everywhere today...hard to believe they are the future. I still love them from very far away, as they are both intolerable. (shaking head) I am so sorry to hear this. May God be with him and especially with you and your husband. (or wife, whichever one you are) This is a tragedy that's just beginning for these kids. They have to hit bottom (and who knows when THAT will be, with all the social welfare coming up) and then they have to claw their way back through the debris-field that will be their lives, when the realization comes upon them that their time as a family, really WAS the best years of their lives. I just hope they live to get to that point. God Bless you both. You've done your best. Don't beat yourself up, like they're doing to themselves. |
| deadlyprawn User ID: 860324 Canada01/08/2010 08:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should've beaten the little bastard. I'm not joking. It worked for me and my brother. There's a point in youth where parents have to make their points "hard" and "swift", a really turning point. Apperantly you missed it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 860206Yup, I'm with you on that one, it worked for me, that and military school. But to the OP, I'm not sure what to say, he's 17, 17 year olds tend to be like that. I was a piece of shit kid, fell into drug abuse, alcoholism, and stupidity, but after about 21 it really turned around. I'm 27 now, working 80 hours a week between two jobs, married, graduated from college and I'm waiting to go to grad school while my wife finishes her degree. But from what I see these kids aren't going to have a chance as I don't see them pulling themselves up and figuring it out. It's too bad. Maybe he'll come around, good luck. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 839978 United States01/08/2010 08:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All I see in the OPs post are blame and judgement for his kids. Did it ever occur to you that maybe they are looking for the love and acceptance in drugs an porn that they never got from you? I'm willing to bet you hit them as kids as well. Kids aren't born this way and you and your wife are the ones who had the most influence on them. Time to look in the mirror and take responsibility like you would like your sons to do. Quoting: Reality Is B.SIt would be a lot easier for them if they had a father who would model that behaviour, but I guess there's no chance of that is there? This same "Reality BS" loser is wrong about every single thing he (it) posts. Why don't you do us ALL a favor and blow your fucking brains out, and save the taxpayers some prison money down the road. Seriously! Think it over! Could be the smartest thing you've ever done!  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 773494 United States01/08/2010 08:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Wife and I have discussed many times over how 'sparing the rod' has probably doomed an entire generation of would-be adults. Quoting: Phedup 859472You are right there. The "I'm Ok You're Ok" crap that says we are all wonderful all the time did a real number on our society. Kids learn they don't have to work hard (they will get A's or get the Little League trophy anyway), nor do that have to take responsibility for their actions because no matter what they do, it's excused. |
| Reality Is B.S
User ID: 860285 United States01/08/2010 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You should've beaten the little bastard. I'm not joking. It worked for me and my brother. There's a point in youth where parents have to make their points "hard" and "swift", a really turning point. Apperantly you missed it. Quoting: deadlyprawn 860324Yup, I'm with you on that one, it worked for me, that and military school. But to the OP, I'm not sure what to say, he's 17, 17 year olds tend to be like that. I was a piece of shit kid, fell into drug abuse, alcoholism, and stupidity, but after about 21 it really turned around. I'm 27 now, working 80 hours a week between two jobs, married, graduated from college and I'm waiting to go to grad school while my wife finishes her degree. But from what I see these kids aren't going to have a chance as I don't see them pulling themselves up and figuring it out. It's too bad. Maybe he'll come around, good luck. Yes I'm sure we all want that life.  Eighty hours of slavery makes a lot of sense. Did it ever occur to you that you are working harder than your ancestors in a world thats been automated more than they could even dream of. Good job in turning yourself into a perfect NWO slave. Don't ever question anything either because your masters certainly wouldn't want that.Throwing more erroneous useless information into the original arguement. |
| XPMarksthe
User ID: 857201 United States01/08/2010 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well...it had to happen...our last kid was given marching orders. He is being invited to leave our home. Quoting: Phedup 859472What started off as the most beautiful child finally ended being consumed by this sick world: He is not legal drinking age (17) He has been using fake ID's to get into strip clubs. He has been abusing alcohol. His life is now being lived out on 'Facebook'. He has 300 'Facebook' friends, where they all sound like fucking retards. He has turned his back on his whole family. He has a twisted perverted interest in dark things. I saw him giving the evil, satanic 'diablo' sign in a photo. He does not cry. His eyes look empty. He seems to lack a soul. He celebrates that sick fuck 'Eminem', or 'Slim Shady', or whatever the fuck his name is. He is obsessed with evil and horror and mutilation. He has ZERO RESPECT for his house duties and rules. His zombified friends call constantly and get ignorant with us when we politely ask them to stop. He has been watching 'hard core' porn in his room. Now...before all of you 'amazing parents' jump in here to start shredding me to pieces. My Wife and I know...WITH ABSOLUTE CERTAINTY...that we gave him love, support and a nurturing home. We never spoiled him. Our conclusion: Like so many other Parents today...we have been robbed of our child by this sick, twisted, perverted, 'facebook' of a world we now find ourselves living in. Our children are being taken from us. The 'nuclear' Family is doomed in this NWO age. Peace and love to all. It's called Parenthood. This involves setting rules and limits, and actually enforcing them! About not being worried about being your kid's friend, but more concerned about doing what's right for them - being the Parent! They may not actually like you right now (Oh, the horrors!), but that's not your job. Sounds like you all need the help of a counselor - I'm sure there are many qualified in your area . Last Edited by XPMarksthe on 01/08/2010 08:13 PM XXP . Get to the point, then shut up.. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 856896 United States01/08/2010 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | They are a generation of sociopaths, lacking in both intelligence or empathy. Maybe 5% of them are worth salvaging, the rest should be rounded up and either immediately gassed or lobotomized and put to work at something of little consequence. And the parents that "raised" that 95% should be forbidden to ever have children again. |
| deadlyprawn User ID: 860324 Canada01/08/2010 08:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | XPMarksthe... Quoting: XPMarkstheI'm even willing to bet that you're no older than 19 yourself...just based on the maturity level of your post. :) Posts like yours make me realize what loser parents are out there.... Geezzz You like to generalize about someone you don't even know personally. The man was voicing a concern, hopefully a real concern, and if it is, it's heartfelt and a little desperate as it's obviously bothering him. It doesn't take loser parents to have fucked up kids. My brother and I are prime examples. We had everything, within reason, that we needed or wanted growing up. We weren't abused, we were given opportunities, love, etc., but we both fucked up hard for awhile. I had good parents, but for awhile I wasn't that good, though I feel as if I've come around. You on the other hand seem to "know" what "good" parenting is, when in reality you can be the best parent in the world and your children can still end up evil little bastards, they ARE individuals, they DO make their own decisions, and they BLEED and BREATH their own blood and breathe. A parent can only do so much and hopefully instill some decent values, the rest is up to the individual. |
| Phedup (OP) User ID: 859472 Canada01/08/2010 08:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | (shaking head) I am so sorry to hear this. May God be with him and especially with you and your husband. (or wife, whichever one you are) This is a tragedy that's just beginning for these kids. They have to hit bottom (and who knows when THAT will be, with all the social welfare coming up) and then they have to claw their way back through the debris-field that will be their lives, when the realization comes upon them that their time as a family, really WAS the best years of their lives. I just hope they live to get to that point. God Bless you both. You've done your best. Don't beat yourself up, like they're doing to themselves. Thank-you so much for this...I called my Wife at work and read it to her. It helped, as she is devastated for all of our kids today. |
| Phedup (OP) User ID: 859472 Canada01/08/2010 08:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All I see in the OPs post are blame and judgement for his kids. Did it ever occur to you that maybe they are looking for the love and acceptance in drugs an porn that they never got from you? I'm willing to bet you hit them as kids as well. Kids aren't born this way and you and your wife are the ones who had the most influence on them. Time to look in the mirror and take responsibility like you would like your sons to do. It would be a lot easier for them if they had a father who would model that behaviour, but I guess there's no chance of that is there? Not going to give too much attention to this response as, you don't really know me. By the way...how old are you? |
| XPMarksthe
User ID: 857201 United States01/08/2010 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | XPMarksthe... Quoting: deadlyprawn 860324I'm even willing to bet that you're no older than 19 yourself...just based on the maturity level of your post. :) Posts like yours make me realize what loser parents are out there.... Geezzz You like to generalize about someone you don't even know personally. The man was voicing a concern, hopefully a real concern, and if it is, it's heartfelt and a little desperate as it's obviously bothering him. It doesn't take loser parents to have fucked up kids. My brother and I are prime examples. We had everything, within reason, that we needed or wanted growing up. We weren't abused, we were given opportunities, love, etc., but we both fucked up hard for awhile. I had good parents, but for awhile I wasn't that good, though I feel as if I've come around. You on the other hand seem to "know" what "good" parenting is, when in reality you can be the best parent in the world and your children can still end up evil little bastards, they ARE individuals, they DO make their own decisions, and they BLEED and BREATH their own blood and breathe. A parent can only do so much and hopefully instill some decent values, the rest is up to the individual. So, get some good, professional help. You. Your brother. Your parents. Or, just continue airing your personal problems on some website - won't do you no good... Last Edited by XPMarksthe on 01/08/2010 08:26 PM XXP . Get to the point, then shut up.. |
