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Anyone here having problems making life changing decisions ?? | |
| Dr Doom
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| dig
User ID: 825655  United Kingdom01/31/2010 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My previous plan was to have moved on by now... and I have Quoting: Dr Doomno desire to stay where I am... but just can't settle on a final destination... the impasse is strange. ~ . Last Edited by Dig on 01/31/2010 08:41 PM |
| Dr Doom
(OP) User ID: 833993 United States01/31/2010 08:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My previous plan was to have moved on by now... and I have Quoting: digno desire to stay where I am... but just can't settle on a final destination... the impasse is strange. ~ Think you just answered your own question Sherlock. Please explain ? ~ __________ ____ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 875198 United States01/31/2010 08:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | important decisions like changing jobs, marriage, moving, etc Quoting: Dr DoomI have always been a planner... with my mind filled with many future plans... most of them now realized. Now I find myself unable to make another important decision... which is unusual for me. I have been mulling it over and over in my mind but unable to come to a final decision about moving from my current residence. My previous plan was to have moved on by now... and I have no desire to stay where I am... but just can't settle on a final destination... the impasse is strange. It's almost as if my subconscious is waiting for something to happen... something that will affect my decision. ~ YES |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 773494 United States01/31/2010 08:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | YES! My husband hates Georgia and wants to move back to the Midwest. However, he's been sick for the past few months and doesn't want to go through a move until he's feeling better. That, and the fact that we have two kids at a local college we are hesitant to leave behind. Everytime we see snow on TV we feel nostalgic. |
| dig
User ID: 825655 United Kingdom01/31/2010 08:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My previous plan was to have moved on by now... and I have Quoting: Dr Doomno desire to stay where I am... but just can't settle on a final destination... the impasse is strange. ~ Think you just answered your own question Sherlock. Please explain ? ~ settle in a strange place |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 876338  Canada01/31/2010 08:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| dig
User ID: 825655 United Kingdom01/31/2010 08:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No. When I need to make them I do. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 876338Shut up,then again.... Last Edited by Dig on 01/31/2010 08:47 PM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 876338 Canada01/31/2010 08:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| kalamity kool
User ID: 869426  Australia01/31/2010 08:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| dig
User ID: 825655 United Kingdom01/31/2010 08:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 879062 United States01/31/2010 08:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| htp,nli User ID: 686272 United States01/31/2010 08:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| dig
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| Dr Doom
(OP) User ID: 833993 United States01/31/2010 08:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My previous plan was to have moved on by now... and I have Quoting: digno desire to stay where I am... but just can't settle on a final destination... the impasse is strange. ~ Think you just answered your own question Sherlock. Please explain ? ~ settle in a strange place I have thought about moving to a new city for the past several years. I can visit those places, logically weigh the pros and cons... but still can not make a final decision. It's as if some part of the decision formula is missing... that there is something else... perhaps something that is going to happen... that I must consider and my subconscious mind knows it. ~ __________ ____ |
| Winningjob
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| gus.
User ID: 879098  Brazil01/31/2010 08:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | making decisions requires a lot of energy. that is why leaders are generally the most powerful around. I also find myself unable to set my mind to begin or continue any long term project. The amount of energy required is just too much. The Final Truth - A Theory of Practice [link to www.conspiracybase.com] |
| Dr Doom
(OP) User ID: 833993 United States01/31/2010 08:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Wow Doc, you just described me. I am having a delayed mid-life crisis. Quoting: htp,nli 686272The Swedes call 50 "the little death". Reminds me of this: You set sail across the sea Of long past thoughts and memories. Childhood's end, your fantasies Merge with harsh realities. And then as the sail is hoist, You find your eyes are growing moist. All the fears never voiced Say you have to make your final choice. ~ __________ ____ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 879198 United States01/31/2010 08:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr Doom
(OP) User ID: 833993 United States01/31/2010 09:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, usually a direction manifests for me way before now, during a time of change and indecision, but I'm still chasing short dead-ends, directions that don't move me anywhere.. Quoting: kalamity koolMe too. I don't like it. ~ __________ ____ |
| Rubylocks User ID: 879207 United States01/31/2010 09:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| anonymous User ID: 879215 United States01/31/2010 09:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | folks who are econoically stable right now are not looking to change residences .. they have dug in if possible because of the economic mess.. so making long range changes is on the back burners.for that reason.. unless they have exhausted thier finances and face homelessness. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 687755 United States01/31/2010 09:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 687755 United States01/31/2010 09:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, usually a direction manifests for me way before now, during a time of change and indecision, but I'm still chasing short dead-ends, directions that don't move me anywhere.. Quoting: kalamity koolMe too and its getting a little scary. |
| kalamity kool
User ID: 869426 Australia01/31/2010 09:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yeah, usually a direction manifests for me way before now, during a time of change and indecision, but I'm still chasing short dead-ends, directions that don't move me anywhere.. Quoting: Dr DoomMe too. I don't like it. ~ Me either or neither :{ So I escape into nature, nowhere to go to from paradise :) |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 879219 United Kingdom01/31/2010 09:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr Doom
(OP) User ID: 833993 United States01/31/2010 09:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | folks who are econoically stable right now are not looking to change residences .. they have dug in if possible because of the economic mess.. so making long range changes is on the back burners.for that reason.. unless they have exhausted thier finances and face homelessness. Quoting: anonymous 879215Although the economic crisis has not affected me... yet. One thing is for sure... my indecision makes me stay put. ~ __________ ____ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 867576 United States01/31/2010 09:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's hard because people are overwhelmed with options. Too much choice makes us miserable. [link to blog.ted.com] |
| Suddenly Samsonized User ID: 836669 United States01/31/2010 09:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
