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dating a coworker...does it sometimes work out? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29028163  United States09/06/2013 01:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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xxaahh
 User ID: 39113657 United States09/06/2013 01:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just go for it, who cares what anyone else thinks. Do what feels right.  Like you said, you both seem to be into each other, so why not give it a chance at least? Don't be worried about it failing and being awkward at work, it will only be if you let it be. Last Edited by xxaahh on 09/06/2013 01:36 AM |
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| Earth Daughter
User ID: 9007345 United States09/06/2013 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | According to the doomologists, most of us will be dead by 2014. So, enjoy these last few months while you can. "Arrows of hate have been shot at me too, but they never hit me, because somehow they belonged to another world, with which I have no connection whatsoever." - Albert Einstein |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29028163 United States09/06/2013 01:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it won't work out. If you give him an awesome blow job or do it anally, the entire work place will know about it by tuesday next week. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1216425 yes, what is this phenonenon about. I had a tooth pulled, told one person, then people I didn't know well asked me about it. Gossip spreads like wildfire at a job. Its scary |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29028163 United States09/06/2013 01:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just go for it, who cares what anyone else thinks. Do what feels right. Quoting: xxaahh Like you said, you both seem to be into each other, so why not give it a chance at least? Don't be worried about it failing and being awkward at work, it will only be if you let it be. well, what's weird is that people have always said that he will be single forever, cause he's weird. so if we get together, I will be considered weird |
| <The Don>
User ID: 9964671 United States09/06/2013 02:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok, so, I have known and intermittently worked with this guy coworker for the last 5 years. Remembering feeling a spark. Fast forward 5 years later, we run into each other. Start talking. Numbers exchanged. We hang out after work. He mentions that when he met me, sparks flew. I felt the same, but don't say it outloud. Long phone conversations about everything. He is just a year older than me. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29028163 We went out a couple of times, a restaurant and a small concert, but I'm declining all the recent invitations because I'm scared. Also, I have a reputation of being kinda shy and weird at work, and I don't want to hurt his reputation. What to do? Do these things ever work out? Would hate for their to be drama. We have not been affectionate. Yes, I'm proof it works...got a wife and three AWESOME kids out of it. Wouldn't change a thing... Good luck pal! <The Don> |
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| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 29028163 United States09/06/2013 02:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where you eat<------Seperate------>Where you shit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14093935 Never the twain should meet. This is gospel truth right here. Take it to heart. well the problem is, I had a crush on another coworker before him, and people found out about it. so if this info gets to this guy, he might not take me seriously. I don't know. With this current guy though, its reciprocal. Things were not reciprocal with the first one. |
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| D@t_Dude2
User ID: 75151949 United States10/05/2020 10:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you're in your early 30's there's an above 50% chance that 1 or both of you will switch jobs at some point within the next 2 - 4 years. If it's not against company policy, and you think he's worth dating, then go for it. Also, be sure to pay attention to the balls. A good ball handler can go pretty far in life. D@t_Dude2 |
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| My Fear
User ID: 65987792 United States10/05/2020 10:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh stop with your shyness routine BS. Get on with it kid. You are not getting any younger and your value is dropping fast as a female. That is the hard core facts of the matter. Unless you want to remain single for life, keep and up and you will have your wish. And when you finally realize your error you will end up with left over men that you end up mothering and supporting his kids from his past relationships. Oh and yes, dating co workings usually works out. Most people meet each other at work or through similar hobbies. So don't worry about it. |
| My Fear
User ID: 65987792 United States10/05/2020 10:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where you eat<------Seperate------>Where you shit Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14093935 Never the twain should meet. This is gospel truth right here. Take it to heart. well the problem is, I had a crush on another coworker before him, and people found out about it. so if this info gets to this guy, he might not take me seriously. I don't know. With this current guy though, its reciprocal. Things were not reciprocal with the first one. Don't worry about that. It is expected at some point that you would have a romantic interest in others. Unless you are sleeping around, which is sounds like you were not, no problem. |
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| Abe Froman
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