congrats, Charlie. keep it together and you will never look back. give your children someone to look up to and someone to turn to, unconditionally, and in return they will be the gift that keep on giving :)

you're definitely on the right track.

if you are so lost for a career path, consider taking some courses or going back to school! start over!

there'll be quite a few purchases to be made for your newborn but start now and go trawl the second hand shops for the first clothes.. get a range of sizes and extra comfortable extra soft stuff.. no denim or corduroy or a great deal or buttons, just pure comfort and room to grow..