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Hey GLP family, need some help. Girlfriend might be pregnant. UPDATE: confirmed!
So obviously this wasn't planned and is not coming at a great time. Have fallen in hard times and was in the process of trying to start building my life back up. This is going to be a severe bump in the road.

It's not confirmed yet, we are going to take a test tomorrow but she is pretty late and both of us have a feeling she is. How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask. Neither of us like the idea of abortion and I can't help but feel that it would destroy our relationship.

What I need help with is some ideas on where to start looking for assistance. What kinds of assistance are available. Any and all ideas are welcome.

I don't ask for a lot from my GLP family, and most who know me will know I often offer advice when I was more active. I had my computer break a few months back and have pretty much just stuck to lurking around on my phone.

For reference to assistance available we live in lake county Illinois.

I have to go somewhere pretty soon here so I might not be here right away to answer any follow ups. Will be back and bumping this later. I really need help here guys, don't even know where to start looking.

Also taking green karma so I can get a member upgrade to use the email features.

Thank you GLP!

**UPDATE** confirmed today, gotta start working out the details now!

Last Edited by CharlieMurphy on 12/31/2013 03:21 PM
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Get a job!!!!!!!
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Charlie, this may be the thing that changes your life for the better. try looking at it as a gift not a problem. I have had wildass friends that had kids and totally changed their lives
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Find your local WIC office
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Wtf ".......assistance? Dude get a job or two or three. Don't let that baby become depended on the government for life. My god help us all
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Count this as a blessing OP... This little one will change your life forever. In my experience there is never a perfect time to have a baby and when they do arrive you will find a way to provide.

The day will come when you can't ever imagine life without that child.


Hugs

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How are are you both OP?

Does your girlfriend have a job?
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Consider adopting the kid out.

There are huge waiting lists of stable prosperous families that would desperately love to provide a home for a healthy white infant.

Some people say you will magically and instantly become enthralled with the child once it is born.

Maybe, maybe not.

I have seen the hell unwanted kids go through when desperate young couples come up pregnant unexpectedly... And life just gets worse for all concerned.

Adoption truly is THE loving, wise, and doable solution.
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How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask.
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Well, I think that part's pretty clear lol.

Good luck OP. Could wind up being a good thing.
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Run!!

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Consider adopting the kid out.

There are huge waiting lists of stable prosperous families that would desperately love to provide a home for a healthy white infant.

Some people say you will magically and instantly become enthralled with the child once it is born.

Maybe, maybe not.

I have seen the hell unwanted kids go through when desperate young couples come up pregnant unexpectedly... And life just gets worse for all concerned.

Adoption truly is THE loving, wise, and doable solution.
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Count this as a blessing OP... This little one will change your life forever. In my experience there is never a perfect time to have a baby and when they do arrive you will find a way to provide.

The day will come when you can't ever imagine life without that child.


Hugs

Cyn
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And it might not. Don't go making guarantees you can't back up.

Emergency rooms, courtrooms., welfare offices are all full of people who believed that.

Former social worker here.

I have seen hell... And it usually begins with unplanned pregnancy and magical thinking

Adoption would give the kid a REAL opportunity to get an education and be something other than a welfare + public school statistc
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Count this as a blessing OP... This little one will change your life forever. In my experience there is never a perfect time to have a baby and when they do arrive you will find a way to provide.

The day will come when you can't ever imagine life without that child.


Hugs

Cyn
 Quoting: * Cyndexia *


And it might not. Don't go making guarantees you can't back up.

Emergency rooms, courtrooms., welfare offices are all full of people who believed that.

Former social worker here.

I have seen hell... And it usually begins with unplanned pregnancy and magical thinking

Adoption would give the kid a REAL opportunity to get an education and be something other than a welfare + public school statistc
 Quoting: goodmockingbird


Here here !!!!!!!!!
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When I found out my girl was pregnant after two months, I got to work. Wasn't easy in the beginning and it certainly wasn't pretty but it made us stronger. I was lucky enough to have a decent job but it meant about the same hours as working 2 jobs. If you have two feet and a heartbeat, I don't see what the problem is.


If for some reason you luck out, take it as a warning and smarten up. Wrap that thing ffs.
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Re: Hey GLP family, need some help. Girlfriend might be pregnant. UPDATE: confirmed!
So obviously this wasn't planned and is not coming at a great time. Have fallen in hard times and was in the process of trying to start building my life back up. This is going to be a severe bump in the road.

It's not confirmed yet, we are going to take a test tomorrow but she is pretty late and both of us have a feeling she is. How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask. Neither of us like the idea of abortion and I can't help but feel that it would destroy our relationship.

What I need help with is some ideas on where to start looking for assistance. What kinds of assistance are available. Any and all ideas are welcome.

I don't ask for a lot from my GLP family, and most who know me will know I often offer advice when I was more active. I had my computer break a few months back and have pretty much just stuck to lurking around on my phone.

For reference to assistance available we live in lake county Illinois.

I have to go somewhere pretty soon here so I might not be here right away to answer any follow ups. Will be back and bumping this later. I really need help here guys, don't even know where to start looking.

Also taking green karma so I can get a member upgrade to use the email features.

Thank you GLP!
 Quoting: CharlieMurphy


Firstly congratulations.

Secondly.
So whats the big deal dude.
Deal with it, we all hit an unexpected twist on the road that we call life.
Deal with it.
Get a job, get yourself on your feet, make an honest woman of her and enjoy your life and the life of your new child.

Don't even consider an abortion, the child isn't here because it chose to be, it is here because you chose it to be.

Now its your turn to man the fuck up and do something with your life.
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Consider adopting the kid out.

There are huge waiting lists of stable prosperous families that would desperately love to provide a home for a healthy white infant.

Some people say you will magically and instantly become enthralled with the child once it is born.

Maybe, maybe not.

I have seen the hell unwanted kids go through when desperate young couples come up pregnant unexpectedly... And life just gets worse for all concerned.

Adoption truly is THE loving, wise, and doable solution.
 Quoting: goodmockingbird


I agree. Adoption is starting to look like what my wife and I might have to do. We've been through it all trying to have a child. The miscarriage was the worst thing, very hard to go through. The problem is adoption is so expense that we might not even have that option. Good luck CM
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So obviously this wasn't planned and is not coming at a great time. Have fallen in hard times and was in the process of trying to start building my life back up. This is going to be a severe bump in the road.

It's not confirmed yet, we are going to take a test tomorrow but she is pretty late and both of us have a feeling she is. How it happened is a moot point so please don't ask. Neither of us like the idea of abortion and I can't help but feel that it would destroy our relationship.

What I need help with is some ideas on where to start looking for assistance. What kinds of assistance are available. Any and all ideas are welcome.

I don't ask for a lot from my GLP family, and most who know me will know I often offer advice when I was more active. I had my computer break a few months back and have pretty much just stuck to lurking around on my phone.

For reference to assistance available we live in lake county Illinois.

I have to go somewhere pretty soon here so I might not be here right away to answer any follow ups. Will be back and bumping this later. I really need help here guys, don't even know where to start looking.

Also taking green karma so I can get a member upgrade to use the email features.

Thank you GLP!
 Quoting: CharlieMurphy


Firstly congratulations.

Secondly.
So whats the big deal dude.
Deal with it, we all hit an unexpected twist on the road that we call life.
Deal with it.
Get a job, get yourself on your feet, make an honest woman of her and enjoy your life and the life of your new child.

Don't even consider an abortion, the child isn't here because it chose to be, it is here because you chose it to be.

Now its your turn to man the fuck up and do something with your life.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52020169


I basically agree here.

I'm not saying you aren't "manning up" but just to not worry so much. A million unexpected things happen in life, just roll with it and ejoy it.
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happy to give pregnancy help, i've been there :)

make it great! it's such a magical window in life.. i hope you and your girlfriend enjoy it thoroughly.

congrats on being a good guy, your lady is lucky to have you.

hf

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free member upgrade huh..
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shes not pregnant
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Baby Mommy can bring in a whole lot more Free Stuff without Baby Daddy gumming up the works with Marriage'n'Shit

She can get a place in da Projects, WIC, food stamps, Medicaid etc etc etc.

Baby Daddy can visit. So can all the Youths on da Projects.

Baby Daddy becomes obsolete.

Baby can grow up in da Projects and learn to Count to Potato in da Public Schools.


And grow up to make the same mistakes.

Or the kid could have decent shot at life by way of adoption.

Former social worker here, seen it thousands of times

Absolutely ZERO magic goes on with unplanned welfare pregnancy.

Lots of misery and wasted opportunity, that and not much else
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First: Call Maury Povich
Second : Call Judge Judy
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Get a job!!!!!!!
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In the process, final interview is Jan 4th
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Consider adopting the kid out.

There are huge waiting lists of stable prosperous families that would desperately love to provide a home for a healthy white infant.

Some people say you will magically and instantly become enthralled with the child once it is born.

Maybe, maybe not.

I have seen the hell unwanted kids go through when desperate young couples come up pregnant unexpectedly... And life just gets worse for all concerned.

Adoption truly is THE loving, wise, and doable solution.
 Quoting: goodmockingbird


I appreciate the advice and considered the idea but I love this girl and want to have kids with her, just wanted more time is all.
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When I found out my girl was pregnant after two months, I got to work. Wasn't easy in the beginning and it certainly wasn't pretty but it made us stronger. I was lucky enough to have a decent job but it meant about the same hours as working 2 jobs. If you have two feet and a heartbeat, I don't see what the problem is.


If for some reason you luck out, take it as a warning and smarten up. Wrap that thing ffs.
 Quoting: toker


Don't get me wrong, I want to work and am getting a job. What I want help with is where to start looking for research into what I should be doing. Also will take whatever assistance I can to give this kid the best life it can have.
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Tell me about it...
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If you think you will get good parenting advice from the troop of dimwitted baboons that is GLP, well, this kid is already fucked.
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When I found out my girl was pregnant after two months, I got to work. Wasn't easy in the beginning and it certainly wasn't pretty but it made us stronger. I was lucky enough to have a decent job but it meant about the same hours as working 2 jobs. If you have two feet and a heartbeat, I don't see what the problem is.


If for some reason you luck out, take it as a warning and smarten up. Wrap that thing ffs.
 Quoting: toker


Don't get me wrong, I want to work and am getting a job. What I want help with is where to start looking for research into what I should be doing. Also will take whatever assistance I can to give this kid the best life it can have.
 Quoting: CharlieMurphy


You be turning your life around n shit?





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