Hi Charlie,

Want to throw this out there for you...expect to be blown away by this whole experience. Don't worry so much about the money aspect; the kiddo will happen regardless.

Having a child is the most awesome, life changing event. Suddenly, it's not just about the two of you. It's about this new being that is completely dependent on you to teach nurture and grow. Focus changes and the change is so much better that I ever expected. (I hope the same for you!)

You will see!!

As for you GF, you will find her even more sexy and desirable during this time. You will need to, and most gladly, I suspect, cater to her. She may be moody or tired, but she will have a glow about her unlike any other.

Enjoy this time.

When you bring a child into this world, your world will change and it is wonderful! Congrats!