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I want to beat up husband of my sister real bad, even more... Fucking asshole | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53714938  Poland02/01/2014 03:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53275868  Canada02/01/2014 03:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sister is married to a guy, well, at first he seemed ok but he is asshole. He was arguing with her all the time, yelling etc. ok. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53714938 But today he hit her to the face, broke her glassess.. She called me if she can stay in my apartment with her daughter. I said ok, no problem, she is my family. We drove back to her flat for some things and this stupid asshole was drunk and he was scared that I'll do something to him. And he was right. IF HE WOULD SAY ANYTHING I WOULD FUCKING KILL HIM. Today she is staying with me, tommorow she is going to the police. I'm 27, today first time in my life I had so many anger that I would beat this asshole so hard. One word from him and it would be bad. Why I didnt do anything to him right now? My sister asked me not to, she begged me. I understand her. But if he would do something today like drive to my apartment to speak with her or something - God have mercy. Family is the most important for me. I'm so angry right now, fucking motherfucker. Go pay the fucker a visit when sis ain't around. |
Purgatory
 User ID: 53594171 Canada02/01/2014 03:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You won't do your sister any good if you go to jail, pal. But what you CAN do is make sure she never goes back to the jerk. Shove the news articles in her face about the same types who end up killing or permanently maiming their wives. If necessary, threaten to have your niece taken away by Children's Aid. ANYTHING! She will want to go back, see? You must prevent that. You may have to fake an accident to break her leg. Seriously. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1301131 Poland02/01/2014 03:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Steady
User ID: 26319950 Canada02/01/2014 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Exactly. Don't end up in jail over this. Help your sister and her child by getting her out of that toxic relationship. I was always an unusual girl. My mother told me I had a chameleon soul, no moral compass pointing due north, no fixed personality; just an inner indecisiveness that was as wide and as wavering as the ocean... And if I said I didn't plan for it to turn out this way I'd be lying... Because I was born to be the other woman. Who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone. Who had nothing, who wanted everything, with a fire for every experience and an obsession for freedom that terrified me to the point that I couldn't even talk about it,and pushed me to a nomadic point of madness that both dazzled and dizzied me. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52902034  Ireland02/01/2014 03:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she gets back with him, you will be the bad guy if you hit him. It might be hard to do but could you talk to him? If he is drinking maybe tell him for your sisters sake, you will help him If he stops drinking?  |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53714938 Poland02/01/2014 03:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You won't do your sister any good if you go to jail, pal. Quoting: Purgatory But what you CAN do is make sure she never goes back to the jerk. Shove the news articles in her face about the same types who end up killing or permanently maiming their wives. If necessary, threaten to have your niece taken away by Children's Aid. ANYTHING! She will want to go back, see? You must prevent that. You may have to fake an accident to break her leg. Seriously. Thanks, yea, she were saying things like 'maybe this is one time thing, maybe it would be better if I go back for a night'. I said to her 'hell no, don't think about it! tommorow we are going to police station!'. There is something like 'blue card', she will sign in - one call from her to police and she will be arrested. Yeah, he were drunk but this isn't an excuse. The thing is that they got 6 years daughter... She saw this action. Money isn't a thing for my sister, she is rich and she can even buy a flat right now. Tommorow police to sign in for a 'blue card'. What more? Will see. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52902034 Ireland02/01/2014 03:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You won't do your sister any good if you go to jail, pal. Quoting: Purgatory But what you CAN do is make sure she never goes back to the jerk. Shove the news articles in her face about the same types who end up killing or permanently maiming their wives. If necessary, threaten to have your niece taken away by Children's Aid. ANYTHING! She will want to go back, see? You must prevent that. You may have to fake an accident to break her leg. Seriously. Yeah cos Shes not going through enough already so she should be threatened with her kids in care? Poland actually has strong family values :-) |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52902034 Ireland02/01/2014 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You won't do your sister any good if you go to jail, pal. Quoting: Purgatory But what you CAN do is make sure she never goes back to the jerk. Shove the news articles in her face about the same types who end up killing or permanently maiming their wives. If necessary, threaten to have your niece taken away by Children's Aid. ANYTHING! She will want to go back, see? You must prevent that. You may have to fake an accident to break her leg. Seriously. Thanks, yea, she were saying things like 'maybe this is one time thing, maybe it would be better if I go back for a night'. I said to her 'hell no, don't think about it! tommorow we are going to police station!'. There is something like 'blue card', she will sign in - one call from her to police and she will be arrested Yeah, he were drunk but this isn't an excuse. he thing is that they got 6 years daughter... She saw this action. Money isn't a thing for my sister, she is rich and she can even buy a flat right now. Tommorow police to sign in for a 'blue card'. What more? Will see. Guess I was wrong |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53714938 Poland02/01/2014 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're a great brother and strong for not hitting him, but maybe a quiet word to warn him might be alright. Quoting: Vala If she gets back with him, you will be the bad guy if you hit him. It might be hard to do but could you talk to him? If he is drinking maybe tell him for your sisters sake, you will help him If he stops drinking? They are married 8 years, this is first time. I'll talk to him, he is and he always was afraid of me. He knows that I put my family in the first place. My sisters knows it too, that's why she called me. I'll say to him 'this was first and last time, I won't tell you this again buddy'. |
| just a thought User ID: 53689306  United States02/01/2014 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If she can not do it for her self she needs to see down the road a bit and what it will do to her child. The husband probably needs help but he has no right to take is unhappiness out on your sister. We also must point our finger at ourselves first to see how we can change ourselves to reflect what needs to be done for the higher good...obviously for your sister but AT LEAST because of the child! I would be glad to send her notes of support if that would help in any small way. When you go thru or live thru this it's nice to know you are not alone. But only YOU can change your life and your sister needs to understand that. Be brave be strong stay non violent...it will only feed into the negative energy. Stop the cycle. Hope this helps even at the tiniest level. |
| BronYx
User ID: 49900321 United States02/01/2014 03:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26615489 Canada02/01/2014 03:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53714938 Poland02/01/2014 03:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52902034 Ireland02/01/2014 04:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You're a great brother and strong for not hitting him, but maybe a quiet word to warn him might be alright. Quoting: Vala If she gets back with him, you will be the bad guy if you hit him. It might be hard to do but could you talk to him? If he is drinking maybe tell him for your sisters sake, you will help him If he stops drinking? They are married 8 years, this is first time. I'll talk to him, he is and he always was afraid of me. He knows that I put my family in the first place. My sisters knows it too, that's why she called me. I'll say to him 'this was first and last time, I won't tell you this again buddy'. I feel for you. I really do. Damned if you do or don't but if they're married he is family too. She could move back to the family home with her child for routine etc. and you could take him in. If he knows you will knock his block off and agrees, you'll know Hes serious about it getting help. Tell him its councilling or Hes on his own. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53714938 Poland02/01/2014 04:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Exactly. Quoting: Steady Don't end up in jail over this. Help your sister and her child by getting her out of that toxic relationship. Totally agree. Kudos to OP for having the willpower to restrain yourself in such a situation. Oh boy it was hard.. I saw his face when we were taking her things (money, keys, something for sleeping). This was first time when I saw so scarred man. I guess it is easy to yell at a woman but when brother comes it isn't. Ok friends, thanks, I'm calm now. Her daughter is sleeping, my sister is taking shower, in 5 minutes she will be ready for a little talk with me. She will be defending this fucker - but no worries, I'll say what's better for her! I'll be back in about an hour. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19423638 United States02/01/2014 04:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| SnakeAirlines
User ID: 53196060 United States02/01/2014 04:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53714938 Poland02/01/2014 06:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just as I thought, she is like 'I'll give him another chance' or 'I can live in you apartment and give him a little time to think'. She's my sister, no problem, she can stay here but is there any chance that this is good? I mean giving him another chance? I'll be afraid that he will do something bad to her again, she will be living beeing afraid.. Finally she went to sleep, I'll do the same in a moment. God, I'd like to have answers for all of the questions... And his family.. my sister called his mother and told everything, after that she also called his brother. AND FREAKING WHAT?? They said that this is HER problem. Jesus.. I understand that family always defend the close one but come on. How can she take for example their grandchild for a visit knowing that they are total ignorants? This is tough. |
| Lionman13
User ID: 44605158 United States02/01/2014 06:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've been in a similar situation, and first instinct is to hit him once at the right angle. You have to find a way to restrain though. Take a deep breath and beat the punching bag, but don't slip up, and get thrown in jail. Trust me. "The only way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it." Oscar Wilde |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 11502006 United States02/01/2014 06:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53598486 United States02/01/2014 06:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sister is married to a guy, well, at first he seemed ok but he is asshole. He was arguing with her all the time, yelling etc. ok. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53714938 But today he hit her to the face, broke her glassess.. She called me if she can stay in my apartment with her daughter. I said ok, no problem, she is my family. We drove back to her flat for some things and this stupid asshole was drunk and he was scared that I'll do something to him. And he was right. IF HE WOULD SAY ANYTHING I WOULD FUCKING KILL HIM. Today she is staying with me, tommorow she is going to the police. I'm 27, today first time in my life I had so many anger that I would beat this asshole so hard. One word from him and it would be bad. Why I didnt do anything to him right now? My sister asked me not to, she begged me. I understand her. But if he would do something today like drive to my apartment to speak with her or something - God have mercy. Family is the most important for me. I'm so angry right now, fucking motherfucker. Did you know pigs will eat anything and leave nothing but microscopic bone shards? |
| Steady
User ID: 26319950 Canada02/01/2014 06:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Exactly. Quoting: Steady Don't end up in jail over this. Help your sister and her child by getting her out of that toxic relationship. Don't listen to the polite Canadians....they will end up making you nice! Don't pay them any mind!  I was always an unusual girl. My mother told me I had a chameleon soul, no moral compass pointing due north, no fixed personality; just an inner indecisiveness that was as wide and as wavering as the ocean... And if I said I didn't plan for it to turn out this way I'd be lying... Because I was born to be the other woman. Who belonged to no one, who belonged to everyone. Who had nothing, who wanted everything, with a fire for every experience and an obsession for freedom that terrified me to the point that I couldn't even talk about it,and pushed me to a nomadic point of madness that both dazzled and dizzied me. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 53714938 Poland02/01/2014 06:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53346998 United States02/01/2014 06:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sister is married to a guy, well, at first he seemed ok but he is asshole. He was arguing with her all the time, yelling etc. ok. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 53714938 But today he hit her to the face, broke her glassess.. She called me if she can stay in my apartment with her daughter. I said ok, no problem, she is my family. We drove back to her flat for some things and this stupid asshole was drunk and he was scared that I'll do something to him. And he was right. IF HE WOULD SAY ANYTHING I WOULD FUCKING KILL HIM. Today she is staying with me, tommorow she is going to the police. I'm 27, today first time in my life I had so many anger that I would beat this asshole so hard. One word from him and it would be bad. Why I didnt do anything to him right now? My sister asked me not to, she begged me. I understand her. But if he would do something today like drive to my apartment to speak with her or something - God have mercy. Family is the most important for me. I'm so angry right now, fucking motherfucker. yadayada u ain't gonna do shit, your a pussy |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 53527763 United States02/01/2014 07:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Bluebird
User ID: 44887449 United States02/01/2014 07:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I've been in a similar situation, and first instinct is to hit him once at the right angle. You have to find a way to restrain though. Take a deep breath and beat the punching bag, but don't slip up, and get thrown in jail. Trust me. Quoting: Lionman13 Ok, but how can I help my sister? There is only so much you can do because she is an adult and it is her life. Keep in mind she is probably going to want to go back to this jerk because she has a child with him. Whatever you do, do NOT stoop to his level and start hitting people and becoming violent. Only in self defense and try to avoid that. You can only offer to help her get out of that situation and move to a safe place and so forth. Abused women are often suffering from a loss of confidence and she is likely scared to be on her own. Tell her how you will support and help her find somewhere safe for her and her daughter and to find a job or whatever she wants out of life. Have your mind made up when her husband comes around that YOU are in charge and are not going to let him drag you into an altercation and also let him know you will call the police if he tries anything at all. . One of the most important aspects of conspiracy theories is being able to discern when there isn't one. Oh yeah, like you'd understand anyway. Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?. . .J. Handy |
| anonymous coward User ID: 15383462 United States02/01/2014 07:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 51810911 United States02/01/2014 07:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go to the police over him hitting her? I'm the only one who thinks that's ridiculous, just tell her to break up with him, or pay him a "little visit" when she isn't around and beat his ass, he'll think twice before touching her again. |
| Jrock
User ID: 44288319 United States02/01/2014 07:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 49866746 United States02/01/2014 07:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't fight him for you would be in trouble. Try to not let your sister go back to him. I have been in her situation and went back. We have been together for 20 years and I am afraid to leave. I ended up in the hospital and my clothing belongs destroyed. I went back. Why? Love or being afraid I don't know but I do know I am afraid sometimes |
