Wife walked out because I didn't like her tossing my stuff on the lawn. Apparently I'm the jerk?

change the locks .

hey, you married her mate and shes prolly lil off buuut hey, till death do you part. Gotta deal with it when u love em. Shouldnt have said anything and done it to her stuff then when she got mad at you, simply point to your books you like lol. Passive aggressive works best when making a point. Also keeps things from escalating too quickly.

this is a test
If you give in the bar will be set and she will walk on over you for the rest of your time knowing her

text her to come home that you want to apologize
then take something of hers she values and throw it
out on the lawn

In the end you will both apologize as equal

She's having an affair ....

that is unacceptable

how would she like it if you threw her crafting materials onto the lawn
:heygirl:

She should have asked you where else she could move them.

Seems unlikely. The sex is still phenomenal. She mostly just doesn't give a shit about other peoples stuff.

Well it is unacceptable. I don't really get the rest of your post though.

Yes. Yes she should have.

Did you take things too personally?

They're just books.

If she did it with some attitude what else is going on?

I would have just put the pet carrier on top of the books if it were convenient.

Agreed. She desires a decent excuse to leave, just incase she doesn't succeed in driving YOU out. She may also be provoking you to anger, to the point of beating her silly. THEN she's GOTCHA!

She will be back later to fuck your stuff up.

that shows no respect OP

she could have just moved them like a calm person but instead decided to make a scene

sounds like you both had a fight

is this your first one?

I'm just saying that is how women think. She is off fuming and thinking about how she enact her vengeance for something you didn't even do. Probably getting pushed more into by her friends.

All quiet on the western front when that pile cloths get brought back in fron the front yard.

she will retort with

Well Why were they on the freezer

wtf? are you both 12? ugh, im living in a world with a bunch of people like you and her in it.

^^^^ THIS ^^^^

And i would agree .... Why are your outdated book's of lies left on the freezzer ?

If they mean that much to you why not put them away in a safe place ... Like ...I dunno? .... A bookshelf ?


In all honesty .... You said you just got back ?.... Sounds like she might just be tired form the journey ... Add to that it might be "lady's week " ... Simmer down ... Take control of the situation and don't make it bigger ... Just Call her.

Tell her your in the wrong ( Preemptive Strike To cut her off )...Tell her You just got upset over silly books ( Diminish the importance of the argument ) ... Tell her you should have moved them ( Again reemptive Strike so she cant tell you )

The above is GAME .... Sounds like you just need to brush up on yours a bit bro .... Having game = Happy Life.

Good luck.

What a cunt! And no, let's not use pms as an excuse for acting like that. And yeah, I'm a woman and I still say that. Normal reaction: She asks you to move the books to where you want them or she asks "Where do you want these books?"

Throw the books away that shit already happened and isn't going to change. Plus books are for fags!

ask her who thaught her to throw garbage on the lawn

ppl who say fags are fags

^^^
This.

Women do irrational things when they are having affairs. They look to start fights.

That's exactly what she did. She went out of her way to start a fight.

Was she drunk?

Next time she places her things somewhere that troubles you, pitch them out on the lawn.

If she complains, tell her that she set the example so you were just doing what you thought she'd do.

If she wants to further argue about it, then ask her to apologize for throwing your books out and you'll apologize for throwing her stuff out.

Problem solved. If she won't at least break on those terms, it's time to show her the door because she isn't a reasonable person.

So, she has little kids, a pet, a husband, an unorganized house, and just got back from visiting her mother? Give her a break! I definitely don't think it's okay to throw things into the yard, but I feel like doing MUCH worse sometimes! It is very frustrating to find things in the way when you are trying to do something else.

OP, are your things often in the way? Those books should not be in the laundry room. Sounds like you guys need to work together to organize the house.

I also don't think it's okay to walk out. Husbands and wives should NEVER do that. I think you should work on that first. NO MORE WALKING OUT. It does so much damage. But people also have a finite amount of energy and emotion. It sounds like she reached her limit today.

She shouldn't have thrown the books out, you shouldn't have yelled, she shouldn't have walked out. Stop the nonsense and work it out. Figure out how to make things better, and then find a way to laugh about it. Hey Babe, remember the time you threw those books into the yard? Hopefully one day this will be a funny story for your grandkids and not an anecdote in divorce court.

Astral Goat is special. LOL.

How reasonable is it to suggest breaking up a family with little kids over one stupid argument?

lol once a year?
it's over, you poor soul.