How do I convince my brother to stop smoking weed? Should I get Police involved? | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72953596 United States 11/11/2016 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He will realize I wont tolerate him smoking weed in my house and I will call the authorities on him if he does it again. Win-win for me. Ah, so you were just looking for that sense of power over another. You appear to be wanting to manipulate someone--not actually love them. Cannabis is a Class B illegal drug here, what part of that dont you understand? Your own government and society (which is completely the same in the USA), since it coerces you day and night has depleted your reasoning ability to the point you don't recognize when you are desiring to coerce another. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72031360 United States 11/11/2016 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? DONT YOU ARE EVEN THINK ABOUT CALLING THE POLICE.. dont be a piece of shit. I called the 101 Police non-emergencies number and explained the situation about my brothers criminal activities in my home. They said an officer will visit my home in the next 48-72 hours. Hopefully the presence of a Police officer and possible arrest/fine/conviction will scare him enough to stop. This is tough love! Already spoke to a Police officer on the phone. Congrats on destroying your relationship over something so insignificant!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72953596 United States 11/11/2016 02:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 48210469 United States 11/11/2016 02:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? If he doesn't do anything all day, no school or work, I say yes. Call the police he is a bum and if he wants to do drugs, do it in his own house, which he pays for. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72953596 United States 11/11/2016 02:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? If he doesn't do anything all day, no school or work, I say yes. Call the police he is a bum and if he wants to do drugs, do it in his own house, which he pays for. It's called a normal conversation. Just tell him to quit the weed or leave. If that doesn't work, then okay, sure, call the cops. At that point, the brother would be violating the rights of the sister. Calling the cops before discourse is a complete dick move which shows a desire to be in control. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72217239 United States 11/11/2016 02:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't try to control your brother. That will backfire on you. Let him make his own choices and learn from the results of those choices. I smoked weed daily for years. Still had a life, still accomplished goals. I guess I outgrew it. I didn't make a conscious choice to quit. I just did it less and less and less. I still smoke sometimes, but it just doesn't have that daily appeal that it once did. Besides, there are far worse things that he could be into. Weed is OK. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69497812 United States 11/11/2016 02:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? Mind your own business The police will likely kill him May be tour brother has higher consciousness than you slave always to find gratification in being the most busy slave... Go slave yourself leave people alone... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 48210469 United States 11/11/2016 02:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Blaming the weed is you just making an excuse for his behavior. Quoting: New World Man Does he pay rent? utilities? place in your name? He lives in my house for free. He is on benefits, gets £70-something a week and spends it all on weed. You need to intervene. Potheads are useless and need a foot in the ass. Tell him he has a week to find a job or pack his stuff. You're enabling him Exactly. ITT: A bunch of lazy, weed apologists who leech off their family. Thats what drugs do to you. On top of that, 95% of them smell like musty, stale, weed and ass. Usually coupled with booze and cigs. Fucking gross. Throw people like this out on the street, please. Dont support their dirty habits. They are unclean and must stick to their own kind. Much like the weed apologists in this thread. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72099278 United Kingdom 11/12/2016 06:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Blaming the weed is you just making an excuse for his behavior. Quoting: New World Man Does he pay rent? utilities? place in your name? He lives in my house for free. He is on benefits, gets £70-something a week and spends it all on weed. You need to intervene. Potheads are useless and need a foot in the ass. Tell him he has a week to find a job or pack his stuff. You're enabling him Exactly. ITT: A bunch of lazy, weed apologists who leech off their family. Thats what drugs do to you. On top of that, 95% of them smell like musty, stale, weed and ass. Usually coupled with booze and cigs. Fucking gross. Throw people like this out on the street, please. Dont support their dirty habits. They are unclean and must stick to their own kind. Much like the weed apologists in this thread. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 51972236 United States 11/12/2016 06:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? <durp!> mabye if i get the police involved that will HELP my brother?<durp> becasue the police our here to help me <durp> and they care about my family <durp> potato. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72099278 United Kingdom 11/12/2016 06:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? <durp!> mabye if i get the police involved that will HELP my brother?<durp> becasue the police our here to help me <durp> and they care about my family <durp> potato. Our police are different to your boneheaded gun crazy Yank cops you retard. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 51972236 United States 11/12/2016 06:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? <durp!> mabye if i get the police involved that will HELP my brother?<durp> becasue the police our here to help me <durp> and they care about my family <durp> potato. i hope after you call the police and create an arrest record ruining ypur brothers chance to improve his life, that somebody in your neighborhood fucks you up for being a pot snitch. mind your own business. your brother will learn when its time to pay his own rent and pay for his own food. hell learn to fix it himself.his lofe. his responsibilty. his choices. hes probably in his room all day becasue your an uptight prick and he doesnt want to have to talk to you. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 51972236 United States 11/12/2016 06:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? <durp!> mabye if i get the police involved that will HELP my brother?<durp> becasue the police our here to help me <durp> and they care about my family <durp> potato. Our police are different to your boneheaded gun crazy Yank cops you retard. did you hear that everybody? all the police in the uk care about you and your family. thaey have your best interest at heart! wow its a utopia in the uk! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73386897 United Kingdom 11/12/2016 06:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He just smoked weed all day, doesn't work and spends most of the time in his room. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72099278 I am thinking about calling the Police so they come and take his weed. Maybe if the Police arrested him that will shock his system and make him stop smoking weed. Thoughts? <durp!> mabye if i get the police involved that will HELP my brother?<durp> becasue the police our here to help me <durp> and they care about my family <durp> potato. Our police are different to your boneheaded gun crazy Yank cops you retard. Our police are not different to Amercian police. |
27fletcher
User ID: 58658416 United States 11/12/2016 06:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP just stahp would ya. Quoting: CrimsonBleu How about spending some time with your brother and find out what's really going on inside of his head? Apparently he wants to isolate himself and stay stoned for some reason. Calling the police and turning him in is not gonna solve this problem, but instead complicate things. That move would affect you and your family. Trust me, it could be a lot worse than smoking pot. If he was laying in there with dirty needles then you might have a real problem. Right now it sounds like he's depressed, and he's hiding from the world and trying to make things feel better. It's an escape. Maybe from you? Your parents? School? Why don't you get to know your brother and help lift them up. Think about it, it may come down to the point that one day you and he are all you have. This is the best advice so far. |
Anus the Deplorable
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 70341189 United States 11/12/2016 07:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I can't believe this thread is still going. Just proves pot smokers are d.u.m.b. He's been trolling you all from the beginning. Grow a brian morans. I must admit it is pretty fucking funny though.... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70682601 I know many many people far more intelligent than you are, that hold down good jobs, are pillars of their community and that use cannabis every day, bucko. How about you just STFU? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 61777422 United Kingdom 11/12/2016 07:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Join your brother and smoke with him, introspect together and gradually figure out your life issues and how to move forward. Suggest days off from weed, perhaps with the eventual intention of only smoking at weekends, or only use the weed as some form of incentive for achieving something in your life, even if it's as mundane as tidying up the house first. |