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I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.

 
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I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
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I'm sorry to hear that OP. There are two youtube people, the retarded guy got a rather good looking wife. So if he can, you can too. Maybe just keep a good attitude.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


Are you trying to meet girls in the gym, or are you talking to girls in your church?

One thing I've noticed is that there is a mate for everyone. sometimes you find them early, sometimes it's late in life.

Exercise, eat right, have a job, save money, make yourself a nice catch for a woman. After their 20's, women aren't as concerned about a man's looks as the rest of the package.
There are women who would date a man, sight unseen, if they thought he had money in the bank.
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I have learned that there really isn’t a mate for everyone.

It’s the truth


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lol

It’s so true.

The youtube comments make it even more brutal. Lot of men posting that they’ve never been in a relationship.

Fucking brutal

sad
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


You may have to lower your own standards as far as looks go. There is someone out there for everyone is how I feel. The problem with many people who are having trouble "finding" someone is their own standards, whether it be in looks, money, character, etc, are often too high or unreasonable.

If you are a 3 or 4, don't expect to get a 6,7 or an 8 and don't be rigid in your list of characteristics. Everyone has a past, the question that should be asked when viewing that past is would you do it again?
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


Are you trying to meet girls in the gym, or are you talking to girls in your church?

One thing I've noticed is that there is a mate for everyone. sometimes you find them early, sometimes it's late in life.

Exercise, eat right, have a job, save money, make yourself a nice catch for a woman. After their 20's, women aren't as concerned about a man's looks as the rest of the package.
There are women who would date a man, sight unseen, if they thought he had money in the bank.
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I have learned that there really isn’t a mate for everyone.

It’s the truth


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there are still more women on earth than men, statisticially you're bound to find a soul mate
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That’s great optimism, I applaud you for still thinking this way.

But we must have the actual reality. Even though there are more woman on the planet doesn’t necessarily make it true, especially in this era.

Women would rather be part of Chad’s harem then get into a relationship with an “unattractive” man these days.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


Are you trying to meet girls in the gym, or are you talking to girls in your church?

One thing I've noticed is that there is a mate for everyone. sometimes you find them early, sometimes it's late in life.

Exercise, eat right, have a job, save money, make yourself a nice catch for a woman. After their 20's, women aren't as concerned about a man's looks as the rest of the package.
There are women who would date a man, sight unseen, if they thought he had money in the bank.
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Yeah but here is the fucked up part a man has to do all that to get a mate where as a woman is ready to go the minute She hits puberty.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
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Shutup, don't put yourself down! Go and get fit and live a super healthy lifestyle, and pretty soon...the changes will become apparent...

Bitches will be bangin' your door down.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Right here. This!

Focus on health & get fit. Buy a nautilus & start pumping iron. Watch some videos or read some books & learn how to do it right though. Pro tip: start stretching & limbering up your body first ~ crucial 1st step (here again, study up - you can counteract weightlifting doing this wrong). And grind away at your job, save up money & get plastic surgery or hair transplants or whatever. Fix yourself.

I saw a dude who was a hideous toad turn himself around like this. No girlfriends all through his school years & into his 20s. We lost track of each other & then we ran into each other in our 30s. He came up & talked to me (this was after his transformation) & I was stunned - didn't even recognize him & we had been good friends in years past. You can do the same. He was married with kids & happy btw.

PS - he went to Korea & got his plastic surgery ~ best plastic surgeons in the world. They can literally work miracles & make anyone look like a movie star.
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Pumping iron is bad for your heart, and makes your banana smaller.
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Actually in part you're right (bad for the heart). Some guys lift to build muscle mass, then tone down focusing on cardio training, the switch back. But overall it's not bad for your heart unless you're using steroids or whatever. And women prefer men with an athletic to muscular build ~ their brains are hardwired for that.

As for "banana size," I'm calling total BS on that one (unless of course they're on steroids again - I've heard it shrinks manjunk).
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
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see this is your problem you tell your self your ugly!

zero confidence
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Confidence comes from actually having sex with women but it's so funny how You never even noticed that. So how is it fair that some people have confidence thrown at them while other people have to build it in other routes such as careers or talents?
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


You may have to lower your own standards as far as looks go. There is someone out there for everyone is how I feel. The problem with many people who are having trouble "finding" someone is their own standards, whether it be in looks, money, character, etc, are often too high or unreasonable.

If you are a 3 or 4, don't expect to get a 6,7 or an 8 and don't be rigid in your list of characteristics. Everyone has a past, the question that should be asked when viewing that past is would you do it again?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74112039


Lowering your standards is not going to help, men have actually been trying to do that and still, no luck. The entitlement that even women on the low scale have is through the roof. We have GLP type men getting rejected by landwhales for goodness sake.

This one guy below in the video, he used to be one of those optimistic guys about “there’s someone for everyone” bs, was even a dating coach and mentored guys in this area of their lives. I guess he figured out it was no longer working and turned into a Bible thumper ibstead.

He talks about it here:
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I was in shape once. Women didn't want me either.
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Shutup, don't put yourself down! Go and get fit and live a super healthy lifestyle, and pretty soon...the changes will become apparent...

Bitches will be bangin' your door down.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess


Right here. This!

Focus on health & get fit. Buy a nautilus & start pumping iron. Watch some videos or read some books & learn how to do it right though. Pro tip: start stretching & limbering up your body first ~ crucial 1st step (here again, study up - you can counteract weightlifting doing this wrong). And grind away at your job, save up money & get plastic surgery or hair transplants or whatever. Fix yourself.

I saw a dude who was a hideous toad turn himself around like this. No girlfriends all through his school years & into his 20s. We lost track of each other & then we ran into each other in our 30s. He came up & talked to me (this was after his transformation) & I was stunned - didn't even recognize him & we had been good friends in years past. You can do the same. He was married with kids & happy btw.

PS - he went to Korea & got his plastic surgery ~ best plastic surgeons in the world. They can literally work miracles & make anyone look like a movie star.
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Pumping iron is bad for your heart, and makes your banana smaller.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78382884


Actually in part you're right (bad for the heart). Some guys lift to build muscle mass, then tone down focusing on cardio training, the switch back. But overall it's not bad for your heart unless you're using steroids or whatever. And women prefer men with an athletic to muscular build ~ their brains are hardwired for that.

As for "banana size," I'm calling total BS on that one (unless of course they're on steroids again - I've heard it shrinks manjunk).
 Quoting: XeroGravity


Primitive females prefer primitive males. Many muscle tards are taking hormones and other shit, which affects your body chemistry. I'm 6.3 and 180. My muscles are not big, but very strong. I have fast metabolism and females are always looking at me. But I'm not interested in that shit, I had enough brain fucking during my last relationship, never again. This world is full of posers and animals. Nobody wants to have a good soul mate. They want money and "safe" future. I'm better by myself, tired from caring about opinions of people around me, I have no time for that shit.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
Incel millenials will redefine the term that is 'serial killer', just wait and see.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
Looks don't mean shit. You have no swagger or game, son.

I myself am no looker, but have been with fine ass women my entire adult life.

Tip: Act as though you could give two-fucks of interest. For some goddamn reason that drives them batshit. If I was to guess, its that their vaginas fuck with the wiring in their heads.

Good luck
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What a crock of shit.
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Definitely not.
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The people whom say this shit are 7's and above but the people that are 6's and below know that looks matter. Sure a great personality can push a 6 to a 7 but looks definitely are the most important factor.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
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see this is your problem you tell your self your ugly!

zero confidence
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Confidence comes from actually having sex with women but it's so funny how You never even noticed that. So how is it fair that some people have confidence thrown at them while other people have to build it in other routes such as careers or talents?
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I had confidence as a child and was fuckin no one so your lil theory is DOA!
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


Are you trying to meet girls in the gym, or are you talking to girls in your church?

One thing I've noticed is that there is a mate for everyone. sometimes you find them early, sometimes it's late in life.

Exercise, eat right, have a job, save money, make yourself a nice catch for a woman. After their 20's, women aren't as concerned about a man's looks as the rest of the package.
There are women who would date a man, sight unseen, if they thought he had money in the bank.
 Quoting: Pilgrim001


I have learned that there really isn’t a mate for everyone.

It’s the truth


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77206374


lol

It’s so true.

The youtube comments make it even more brutal. Lot of men posting that they’ve never been in a relationship.

Fucking brutal

sad
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74965438


When you don't have the "looks" you have to have the personality. They better look inside if they are still having trouble.

I was attracted to my mate by their engaging personality. That drew me in. There was not anything that was particularly "hot" about them, but I found attractive features once I was mentally engaged. Of course this was someone I had contact with on a daily basis, not someone I bumped into at a bar and saw regularly afterward.

That's why I think it's a damn shame how far the "me too" movement pushed things and this sexual harrassment in the workplace has basically made EVERYONE off limits in the ONE PLACE where you can really get to know someone.

I have to admit, some women really f**ked it up for the rest of the populace that were just fine with a little flirting and have now made some too damn scared to even give someone a compliment.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
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see this is your problem you tell your self your ugly!

zero confidence
 Quoting: Q33


Confidence comes from actually having sex with women but it's so funny how You never even noticed that. So how is it fair that some people have confidence thrown at them while other people have to build it in other routes such as careers or talents?
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I had confidence as a child and was fuckin no one so your lil theory is DOA!
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Are you autistic?
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see this is your problem you tell your self your ugly!

zero confidence
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Confidence comes from actually having sex with women but it's so funny how You never even noticed that. So how is it fair that some people have confidence thrown at them while other people have to build it in other routes such as careers or talents?
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I had confidence as a child and was fuckin no one so your lil theory is DOA!
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Are you autistic?
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Well i am not the one in Israel so no i am not judy!
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Confidence comes from actually having sex with women but it's so funny how You never even noticed that. So how is it fair that some people have confidence thrown at them while other people have to build it in other routes such as careers or talents?
 Quoting: jkm1864


I had confidence as a child and was fuckin no one so your lil theory is DOA!
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Are you autistic?
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Well i am not the one in Israel so no i am not judy!
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Oh ok, you just a retard. Who likes to provoke people. Grow up goomba. Im not from Israel, Im using vpn, like most of the smart people 5a
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I had confidence as a child and was fuckin no one so your lil theory is DOA!
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Are you autistic?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78382884


Well i am not the one in Israel so no i am not judy!
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Oh ok, you just a retard. Who likes to provoke people. Grow up goomba. Im not from Israel, Im using vpn, like most of the smart people 5a
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78382884


I am not any of these little jewish made up terms in a text book unlike ur mental self who feels the need to hide with a vpn eat shit pussy!
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


You may have to lower your own standards as far as looks go. There is someone out there for everyone is how I feel. The problem with many people who are having trouble "finding" someone is their own standards, whether it be in looks, money, character, etc, are often too high or unreasonable.

If you are a 3 or 4, don't expect to get a 6,7 or an 8 and don't be rigid in your list of characteristics. Everyone has a past, the question that should be asked when viewing that past is would you do it again?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74112039


Lowering your standards is not going to help, men have actually been trying to do that and still, no luck. The entitlement that even women on the low scale have is through the roof. We have GLP type men getting rejected by landwhales for goodness sake.

This one guy below in the video, he used to be one of those optimistic guys about “there’s someone for everyone” bs, was even a dating coach and mentored guys in this area of their lives. I guess he figured out it was no longer working and turned into a Bible thumper ibstead.

He talks about it here:

 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77206374


It's either his personality or he is trying to meet girls in bars. Maybe it's "city women". Get out of the hell hole that is the city. Most big cities are full of crazy lib women who don't know the value of "family".
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I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


You may have to lower your own standards as far as looks go. There is someone out there for everyone is how I feel. The problem with many people who are having trouble "finding" someone is their own standards, whether it be in looks, money, character, etc, are often too high or unreasonable.

If you are a 3 or 4, don't expect to get a 6,7 or an 8 and don't be rigid in your list of characteristics. Everyone has a past, the question that should be asked when viewing that past is would you do it again?
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lol.........numbers.... is that all people are?
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Are you autistic?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78382884


Well i am not the one in Israel so no i am not judy!
 Quoting: Q33


Oh ok, you just a retard. Who likes to provoke people. Grow up goomba. Im not from Israel, Im using vpn, like most of the smart people 5a
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I am not any of these little jewish made up terms in a text book unlike ur mental self who feels the need to hide with a vpn eat shit pussy!
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lol don't be jealous. I always use vpn for safe browsing, because I studied computer science in college. You are just a dumb provoker. Read some books goomba
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
I was in shape once. Women didn't want me either.
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Working out isn’t really going to do anything.

It’s not going to fix your frame or bones, won’t fix your height or bad symmetry in your face.

Isn’t it funny when a guy eats well, works out and is shredded, but is only 5ft 6in people never take him seriously and always mock him constantly with shit like “oh he’s just compensating for something”... and it’s usually the women being mean like that.

Be honest, muscles will not give you a square jaw, chin, facial aesthetics... won’t cure your hair loss, etc...

And in many cases guys don’t have the body chemistry to develop a sustainable muscular body, so they’ll have to resort to steroids and put their lives at risk.

Oh, and last thing, working out is NOT going to help with junk size down there either!
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I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


Shutup, don't put yourself down! Go and get fit and live a super healthy lifestyle, and pretty soon...the changes will become apparent...

Bitches will be bangin' your door down.
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He should definitely strive to be the best he can be, healthy, etc.


But bitches wont for certain be banging his door down. I know countless dudes that got way healthy, fit, good life style, that still struggle with women beecause the women are looking for a some rich ass prince charming with a suave attitude 24/7...

Its this idealized notion of a partner, and entitlement that really, really stands out in gen x, millenials, and im willing to bet zoomers too.

Also, if you have any personality quirks or baggage, forget about it.

Unless she is truly the one for you, otherwise she will insult you, disrespect you in some way, maybe even laugh in your face.

Sorry ladies. I know a lot of you are sweet and fun, but too mamy people (men included) dont even know what love is.
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Re: I'm 36 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm ugly.
Op I really feel for guys like you. Often, though, if you just got fit and healthy, it wouldn't matter if you didn't have good looks.

If you're fat, lose the weight, eat right, get off the sugar bread, learn.

Guys if you're like the OP this is the best advice I can give.
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I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72833554


Shutup, don't put yourself down! Go and get fit and live a super healthy lifestyle, and pretty soon...the changes will become apparent...

Bitches will be bangin' your door down.
 Quoting: Love_Goddess




He should definitely strive to be the best he can be, healthy, etc.


But bitches wont for certain be banging his door down. I know countless dudes that got way healthy, fit, good life style, that still struggle with women beecause the women are looking for a some rich ass prince charming with a suave attitude 24/7...

Its this idealized notion of a partner, and entitlement that really, really stands out in gen x, millenials, and im willing to bet zoomers too.

Also, if you have any personality quirks or baggage, forget about it.

Unless she is truly the one for you, otherwise she will insult you, disrespect you in some way, maybe even laugh in your face.

Sorry ladies. I know a lot of you are sweet and fun, but too mamy people (men included) dont even know what love is.
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bsflag A guy with those attributes and some basic stability can always get a woman. Its something else with the persona that is the problem in most cases. Also, these guys often want the all too pretty stuck up girls and won't settle for average.
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I tried meeting women in the past. They all felt sober. They would refuse to tell me their name and iij introduce themselves and they would not be interested in me. I tried lots of things. And if a woman did talk to me she had a boyfriend. Otherwise single women are really stuck up. I'd probably rate myself a 3 or 4. Women get creeped out by me even if I just say hi.
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You may have to lower your own standards as far as looks go. There is someone out there for everyone is how I feel. The problem with many people who are having trouble "finding" someone is their own standards, whether it be in looks, money, character, etc, are often too high or unreasonable.

If you are a 3 or 4, don't expect to get a 6,7 or an 8 and don't be rigid in your list of characteristics. Everyone has a past, the question that should be asked when viewing that past is would you do it again?
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Lowering your standards is not going to help, men have actually been trying to do that and still, no luck. The entitlement that even women on the low scale have is through the roof. We have GLP type men getting rejected by landwhales for goodness sake.

This one guy below in the video, he used to be one of those optimistic guys about “there’s someone for everyone” bs, was even a dating coach and mentored guys in this area of their lives. I guess he figured out it was no longer working and turned into a Bible thumper ibstead.

He talks about it here:

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Don't trust anything he says, it may be true or it may be not. He is an islamic jihadist, trying to culturally influence and subvert the West.
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OP, you might be "trying to be nice". When I was 20-22 I was "trying to be nice", so people would F off and leave me alone. It worked, because "nice people are boring, nice people are fake people".

When I came out of my shell alittle, and stopped trying to be "nice" and please others, the shift in how others perceived me was so great, a few didn't even recognize me.

Everyday, or so, I want you to go over your past social interactions and contemplate "the words I never said, but really meant".

It will help you develop the reflexes, to be you, in an honest manner. Also, bathe properly. Wash your face with cold water, brush and floss your teeth, wash your clothing regularly, but, still strive to be polite.

There is a big difference between being "nice" and being "polite". Being "polite", shows a certain strength that some women are naturally drawn to, as it shows self control.
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Well i am not the one in Israel so no i am not judy!
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Oh ok, you just a retard. Who likes to provoke people. Grow up goomba. Im not from Israel, Im using vpn, like most of the smart people 5a
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I am not any of these little jewish made up terms in a text book unlike ur mental self who feels the need to hide with a vpn eat shit pussy!
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lol don't be jealous. I always use vpn for safe browsing, because I studied computer science in college. You are just a dumb provoker. Read some books goomba
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I wouldn't be surprised if half the Israeli posters use VPN's to show up as a different nation.
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Oh ok, you just a retard. Who likes to provoke people. Grow up goomba. Im not from Israel, Im using vpn, like most of the smart people 5a
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I am not any of these little jewish made up terms in a text book unlike ur mental self who feels the need to hide with a vpn eat shit pussy!
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lol don't be jealous. I always use vpn for safe browsing, because I studied computer science in college. You are just a dumb provoker. Read some books goomba
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I wouldn't be surprised if half the Israeli posters use VPN's to show up as a different nation.
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I'm Russian and I don't have Jewwish blood in me. I dont have anything against Jewiish people. They are just like me and you. Only elite jeeeews are dangerous and poisonous.
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