Have You Ever met someone who brings you bad luck somehow?

Yes a cousin
Every time this guy rode with me in my car, got pulled over, something broke on the car, got stranded on a bridge once
Every time

Crested Butte is where its at.

Dealing with this now!

A good indicator is that they tend to be jealous.

Your life going well? They randomly bring up something stupid you did decades ago. They say they "don't judge" someone for something - But really they say this because they're trying to make you feel bad. Got a nice car while theirs is about to be foreclosed? Comment on Facebook that it's a "death trap" and complain it's too small.

Example argument with one of these people involves:

1) "It was meant to be a joke."

2) "If I had known it was such a big deal, I would have apologized."

3) Pointing to one thing out of a long pattern, instead of the whole - "I did not believe I would lose a x year friendship over that."

4) "Everyone already tells me what a shitty person I am." / other feeling-sorry-for-self statements

5) "I didn't do that", to when presented with proof - "Why are you bringing up my past mistakes."

I'm not very lucky or unlucky . But good stuff tends to happen to people around me, so much to the point it's noticeable to others and they have told me about it lol .. kind of strange indeed .

exactly.. the jealousy almost knocked me off my seat when I got blasted with it. so true.

Yeah, that is strange and maybe it is their love and good thoughts they have for you. That is nice.

Lovely Those mountains and Black Canyons but very cold also. You need creative ways to stay warm there. :)

I have noticed this, problem is with INTENSE PEOPLE BORN IN NOVEMBER.

They are controlling, jealous and never can you do enough for them.

In return, they are ungracious and ungrateful and continually complaining that nothing is up to their standards.

Often they will speak ill of others with no clue their actions go beyond such characteristics.

Energy vamping is another trait.

Never authentic nor genuine and always anal retentive.

Discussing anything will get you no where. They are all about pseudo superior behavior.

Be thankful you can see this. It could be worse.

They could have a communicable disease and share it willingly.

A sure sign is when their old romances vehemently hate them & refuse to speak to them.

If you stay around long enough, they will admit to all their flaws thinking they are superior signs of living.

You will be so repulsed by them, you will nearly heave a little when they are near.

If you cannot be drawn into their web to serve them, then they will attempt to destroy you.

Best to stay away, take no phone calls and not let them think they have a remote chance with being friends with you.

Don't even think about romance with someone born in November instead take jalepenos and rub them on your privates.

I notice it in Gemini and Sagittarians quite often and Leo's, but I always give the benefit of doubt and second and third chances as I think surely, this can't be so obvious to others that they can't see this ugly af human trait in themselves, but they just aren't capable of self reflection.

I do not engage them knowingly or willingly and if I am so tricked into doing so, that is their problem and not mine. True colors are so apparent to me as I see many things and do not reveal all.

jinx.. :)

Could be someone who is CURSED? And the opposite would be BLESSED.

Used to know someone who seemingly would be very combative & always bragging with nothing to actual back them up.

We were in a car, and we both saw a cop parked. Needed to make a u-turn as going in the wrong direction.

No u-turn signs everywhere, as I pointed this out. Responded they already knew that, in a know it all & curt tone.

So I shut up. And sure enough, that cop pulled us over.

Drama begins with begging & crying. Cop did not buy it and issued an expensive ticket.

All the time, small things turn into big things by their actions. Fined by HOA, small at first turns into $1800.

Many other scenarios are too numerous to detail. Their children seem to have the same curse. Combination of bad decisions with unlikeable & combative & overreach & cannot deliver.

CURSES CAN BE OVER MANY GENERATIONS according to the Bible.

Or perhaps it was a simple, inheritance of stupidity.

Yeah curses.. and stupidity.. What can be done? Many people ask of others what they simply could not ever return. I think that is a bad measure.. Easy to identify really, when you spell it out such as you did? I used to notice how my friends only friended me for what I had and they could use those things, but never would they ever offer the same to me if they had these available. I guess it is easier to use other people then acquire or just be ok with a minimal existence?

Something, dude has had a charmed life and it has fallin apart for him lately.

I hope the best for everyone. Even when they piss me off, I try not to curse them, and that is kind of difficult, as I realize I am getting to be a real grouch.

I guess,
Don't let others misfortune affect you
Its there own hell they have to experience

It is easier said then done. I don't let others effect me at all. I have steadily given up on reacting to anything others put out there. How is your day going? Mine is quiet and second coffee in and that is it. Windy today.

New job, training silliousness, strange new town Montreal. Some jackoff gov. Slug stole my fun out of my luggage at the airport

wow! sorry very. that suks and who you gonna punch? People makin me ill these latest days. so charming they are. not

Took my ic recorder I put in my stuff to hear what goes on with it.
Show the man "your watching" they hate that

if someone brings you what you percieve as 'bad luck' i have read online that if you look at that person deep down he will have some really serious hatred or jealousy towards you and anger.

That negativity attracts evil spirits or mischievous ones that will then make some kind of deal with that person like aladdins genie.

definitely anything doing with luck, perceived as good or bad luck, is dark and I am inclined to think evil. Maybe the Chinese actually do know a thing or two about bad luck emanating from others?

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so it remained in your luggage but the 'fun' was snaked? and can you find the culprit with your recording?

I'll be your huckleberry

The thorn in your side

The log in your eye!

I find this highly likely, as some people just clamber towards others in false pretense of love and kindness, are sickly sweet(which is sickening) talk about the same things repeatedly,(which is a cover for true self), and when they get called to duty, they fail. Just to note. If someone is placing themselves in your circle willingly and is all that and a stand up guy bla bla and confesses love for you bla bla and will talk to others about you bla bla, just beware the nature of the true beast. Best to be done with such things. Keep your circle closed.

Yeah.

No they took the recorder

that is what I suspected. You got choppers overhead now?

omg - so many people really just basically suck the big one. clueless they are. did you manage some fun or not?

Just the random black van driving by

im working on the fun

yea,,people can be pricks
you become more disdained towards them as you go
but
you do get the vibe of great ones as you focus more

lol the black van.. well, what you gonna do?

Yeah.....my ex-wife........