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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19732124 United States 04/09/2021 09:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She should be a lawyer. Quoting: BLACK GHOST She's very smart, witty and verbose, and on top of that she's a very quick, on her feet thinker and talker. I've always been a little slower of a speaker and don't have the best word recall. I have PTSD and had a few concussions. So basically she always leaves me at a loss for words and not able to express myself, even when I know I'm right. Which usually leads to me losing my temper, which I want to avoid. Anybody else have experience with this? Any tips? Instead of arguing with her just rub your chin with your thumb and index finger, as you are saying "Interesting!" each time she tries to debate you, then walk away. You'll never lose an argument again. [imgur] [link to i.imgur.com (secure)] |
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BLACK GHOST
(OP) User ID: 80076858 United States 04/09/2021 09:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Silence is always the right thing to say in an argument. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78912056 Whoever stops arguing first wins! Right, sure and ok are also great responses. Especially when you disagree. Try it. good advice thanks "We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80135955 04/09/2021 09:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell her "you know, your cute when your not mad too, but still damn cute when arguing". That will stun the demon in her brain. Laughing and smiling is the best thing you can do. Don't laugh AT her, but laugh at the situation. Don't let her make you mad, that's her goal, she's testing you, females are STRANGE. If you don't get mad, you win every time. |
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Anonymous Debated User ID: 69706827 United States 04/09/2021 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Read some websites on narcissist type females, and borderline personality disorder traits. If she even gave two shits about you' she might shut the fuck up, and let you express your feelings. If your feelings and 'perceived loss', in every conversation are not a factor for her, then you are an abuse victim. Lots of nice guys attract horrid females, and, our modern age means more than half of the women you meet will be hopelessly fucked in the head, and in a society that doesn't give a shit about them and wants them dead. Having said that, it's hard to resist that sweet sweet thing. |
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BLACK GHOST
(OP) User ID: 80076858 United States 04/09/2021 09:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I give you a lot of credit for recognizing the effects of the PTSD and for not resenting your wife. It takes a lot to let a grievance go and to say the other person won an argument. I hope you married a good woman. Quoting: LameDame She's right sometimes, and I acknowledge it. "We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." |
BLACK GHOST
(OP) User ID: 80076858 United States 04/09/2021 09:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell her "you know, your cute when your not mad too, but still damn cute when arguing". That will stun the demon in her brain. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80135955 Laughing and smiling is the best thing you can do. Don't laugh AT her, but laugh at the situation. Don't let her make you mad, that's her goal, she's testing you, females are STRANGE. If you don't get mad, you win every time. Why do you think they do that? "We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 44883436 United States 04/09/2021 09:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Have patience and learn to lose your arguments with them gracefully. Usually what happens is that when you do that, you either get proven right over time and if you are with a quality female, she'll "circle back" and acknowledge it, or she'll feel bad for being "such a bitch" to you and end up doing something special for you in the end. If the opposite happens and she turns into a "pants wearer" and literally tries to act the part, get out quickly....unless you enjoy being a distinct beta in a relationship. But going toe-to-toe and arguing to win with the modern female is a recipe for being a life long bachelor. |
Anonymous Founding Father User ID: 69706827 United States 04/09/2021 09:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's a blessing dude and probably why you are still married. Anyone who tries to go toe-to-toe and actually win arguments with women in today's society is going to be single and fapping a lot at best. At worst you'll be in a bitter divorce and facing years of child support payments. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 44883436 Have patience and learn to lose your arguments with them gracefully. Usually what happens is that when you do that, you either get proven right over time and if you are with a quality female, she'll "circle back" and acknowledge it, or she'll feel bad for being "such a bitch" to you and end up doing something special for you in the end. If the opposite happens and she turns into a "pants wearer" and literally tries to act the part, get out quickly....unless you enjoy being a distinct beta in a relationship. But going toe-to-toe and arguing to win with the modern female is a recipe for being a life long bachelor. "single and fapping" "distinct beta" Fuck that four chum lingo, how the fuck did we allow four chum to alter the english language although I somewhat understand your pov, his woman sounds like a total asshole, like the bitches here who started 'give me gossip' this place will give op little comfort, come on man. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69706827 United States 04/09/2021 09:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP if she gave a shit about you she'd listen to you. You describe 100% beat down, but I won't use four chum terms, the guy above is kinda right, men do stay with cunts, it's all about what you get. If she wins all the time, let's face it, America and its families are fucked. So, yes, you describe the ultimate battle line, the gender war. It roars in heaven also. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 78084269 United States 04/09/2021 09:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair. Nothing makes my respect for a "man" plummet then hearing he takes shit from a woman to avoid upsetting her. Add "I have PTSD" too. A womans mind stops developing in most areas at 12. You are supposed to guide and instruct them. Sounds like maybe you were off playing Hero for Israel in the sandbox? There are consequences, like further brain damage. You are damaged and likely cannot be a proper mate for a good woman much less your wife. |
BLACK GHOST
(OP) User ID: 80076858 United States 04/09/2021 10:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Grow a pair. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 78084269 Nothing makes my respect for a "man" plummet then hearing he takes shit from a woman to avoid upsetting her. Add "I have PTSD" too. A womans mind stops developing in most areas at 12. You are supposed to guide and instruct them. Sounds like maybe you were off playing Hero for Israel in the sandbox? There are consequences, like further brain damage. You are damaged and likely cannot be a proper mate for a good woman much less your wife. Wow I'm sure you're fun at parties "We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ." |
taternuts
User ID: 80203021 United States 04/09/2021 10:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She should be a lawyer. Quoting: BLACK GHOST She's very smart, witty and verbose, and on top of that she's a very quick, on her feet thinker and talker. I've always been a little slower of a speaker and don't have the best word recall. I have PTSD and had a few concussions. So basically she always leaves me at a loss for words and not able to express myself, even when I know I'm right. Which usually leads to me losing my temper, which I want to avoid. Anybody else have experience with this? Any tips? Instead of arguing with her just rub your chin with your thumb and index finger, as you are saying "Interesting!" each time she tries to debate you, then walk away. You'll never lose an argument again. https://imgur.com/lZGK9mM Take his Advice, It works also if u hold both chins with your hands, and look her in the eyes and say: I love you...and then walk away, with making a sound..., gets them every time. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2476229 United States 04/09/2021 10:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She should be a lawyer. Quoting: BLACK GHOST She's very smart, witty and verbose, and on top of that she's a very quick, on her feet thinker and talker. I've always been a little slower of a speaker and don't have the best word recall. I have PTSD and had a few concussions. So basically she always leaves me at a loss for words and not able to express myself, even when I know I'm right. Which usually leads to me losing my temper, which I want to avoid. Anybody else have experience with this? Any tips? Make her chain shorter so she stands closer to the sink. |
Catseye
User ID: 77242030 Dominican Republic 04/09/2021 10:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | she’s obviously not very smart if she feels the need to one up you instead of letting it go sounds she she needs some lessons in diplomacy and how to treat a man if you just need a few minutes to get your thoughts straight in the middle of the argument then just pretend you have to go to the bathroom Forgive your enemies, it messes with their heads. Thoughts create, mind them well. |
Anonymous Biddies User ID: 69706827 United States 04/09/2021 10:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We live in an globalized rape open air prison. The four chum and ate chum imageboreds, only frothed this up, due to moot and his lousy ancestors. If you don't fuckin know this, ask some internet person about it. The imagebored chums, stir with an straussian force, setting all women as the edge with which this world will be beheaded before the pike lucifer cadre puts women back into slavery, and yes, the rape world will continue. The media does nothing, thje border crisis is like some fog in the distance, it has nothing to do with the horribleness of the women who rule this land they could never create, you need founding fathers, to finally have, destroying mothers. |
continuity
User ID: 78965953 United States 04/09/2021 10:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She should be a lawyer. Quoting: BLACK GHOST She's very smart, witty and verbose, and on top of that she's a very quick, on her feet thinker and talker. I've always been a little slower of a speaker and don't have the best word recall. I have PTSD and had a few concussions. So basically she always leaves me at a loss for words and not able to express myself, even when I know I'm right. Which usually leads to me losing my temper, which I want to avoid. Anybody else have experience with this? Any tips? Just say "I hear ya" after every point she makes. Drives my wife crazy... ha ha ha. It is estimated that there are more stars than grains of sand on earth; but more atoms exist in a single grain of sand than there are stars... gravity is a harsh reality. |
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