contrary to popular belief, having a good personality is more important to men seeking a long term mate than it is to a woman doing the same

we hear the same bull$hit stereotype over and over again,

that men are shallow and only care about looks, whereas women care about a man's ability to make her laugh, his confidence, is kind soul, blah blah blah

the fact is that men dread the thought of dating or marrying a woman who is a high maintenance pain in the a$$, and men will only date such women on a short term basis before they get burned out, even if she is totally hot

and men will be perfectly satisfied long term with a woman who just is attractive enough to get his attention and brings source of pleasantry and stability into his life

for a women, however, personality in a man is just icing on the cake- and it is not a deal breaker or maker- for she has already decided if he is worthy of her based on a combination of his looks, wealth, and social status

she will put up with a guy who is a total a$$hole long term as long as he satisfies her criteria otherwise