What does it mean when partner criticizes your looks?

My breasts aren’t perfect because I breastfed three kids, but their not horrible either. They’ve still got some perk. My scars are barely visible and it’s a small scar on my cheek. I’ve had them treated several times. They aren’t big thick scars, just a tad bit of discoloration, which I can easily hide with a small amount of foundation.

He sounds like an absolute cunt.

Just saying.

Kick his ass out and let him go like bad rubbish.

Your partner doesn't know how to leave well enough alonge.

Probably means she's getting smashed by Chad on her lunch breaks at the same times she's texting you

He is a porn addict. He ain't just lookin', he tuggin', getting those dopamine hits.

It could mean you are in an abusive relationship, and should get out before he gets violent. Or it could be nothing. If he keeps putting you down, you are in an abusive relationship.

it means it's over, . .
time to move on, . .

That sounds like it hurt. Sorry your partner said those things to you. A scar gives you an interesting story and means your survived. Confidence and humble strength are attractive. Fights need to have rules and boundaries. People say things they regret in big fights. Calmly and maturely explain how serious the words hurt you. Make a reasonable effort first, but if partners cannot have respect for each other, maybe a clear break and moving on is better. Relationships are hard and they only work if both people are willing to make them work in context of mutual respect.

Last Edited by SeekerForward on 12/12/2021 04:53 AM

"It's over, Johnny!"

Unfortunate truth. You are wasting your time with this person. Leave asap. He is cruel and doesn't care. It WILL only get worse.

marry him op he's a keeper!!!!

^this^

he watches porn and you're trying to get her to stay with the loser? someone who is actively comparing her to cgi and fake women?

G T F O H

OP, sadly you know the truth....he's started banging your younger sister (aka younger woman).

no saggy tits from nursing 3 kids, no scars, no cellulite..

he's an asshole not smart enough to keep his mouth shut. You can pretty much bet when he does criticize you, he's very recently been with your sister (aka younger woman).

option 1-you could spend money to hire a detective to follow him and confirm he's found a young hottie. or

option 2- spend that money wisely on a preemptive strike and file divorce papers on his cheating ass and be done with him.

option 3- suck up all your pride and become a sister wife/momma to his new young hottie.

option 4- ignore him completely, be thankful he found someone to bang, and is not bothering you about it. it will free you up to find your own 18 year old, or if you prefer an old sugar daddy, who will not mind a few "faults" compared to a 60 year old woman.

He must have felt hurt when you criticised his small peen

if you want an upgrade, pack a bag and come see me. I like scars and celluite

Obviously, he has some issue with you, and it probably isn't your looks. You can't control him, but you can control you. Take a look at what you are saying and doing. If you find room for improvement, make some changes. If you crossed a line in your spat, apologize. After you do that, tell him that he did cross a line and you sought outside advice, and it was suggested he can sleep on the couch until he realizes how much he hurt your feelings and takes responsibility for his words and apologizes. If he can't or won't do it, therapy. For both of you together, is best...if he won't, then on your own, move out of the same bedroom and get your own therapy. Therapy is for you and what you can do. He may see you changing and ask to go, too. You can always pray, too. : ) Update us in about a month or two.

one of two choices are in front of you.

get a grip

lose control

I said the things I really loved about her like they were the worst things about her because I knew she was self conscious of them and because I actually liked them I thought it was smart somehow like because it wasn’t true. Again diet is linked to brain function and my diet was poor for many years prior. That is literally my only excuse.

I also think I loved her so much I was willing to hurt her feelings in order to make sure stay with me. She was so amazing that I knew every man would want her and I didn’t want her to know just how amazing she was. She was really amazing. And I figured a fight was just a good excuse to slip it in.

I was really young and her dad cooked really healthy and my parents gave me wheat so I had a major candida infection on my brain. I e since lost 85 lbs and guzzle vinegar and then guzzle coconut oil and then guzzle maple syrup and then water take candex and candida support and drink lots of ginger tea

I’m a different man, keyword man, and I intend to always be honest in the future.

You have a fella who's like this?

ohh sounds like some straight up narcissistic tactics being used here. if you see any of the following run, run fast

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this article is well worthy of a read too

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and this youtube channel is amazing for a more psychological look into what and why narcissists say and do what they do

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Being a mouse takes time?

means they been looking elsewhere

Next time he does this, insult his manhood. It is the one thing they never forget

Answer : It means this is likely the way he was raised. He was likely criticized in the same manner and understands how it can be used to break down and manipulate people like yourself.

OP, Never ever ever let someone define you.

You define you.

I know because I grew up this way and remember how much it hurt, until someone helped me rise above it and define myself.

Last Edited by Norske_in_Merika on 12/12/2021 07:02 AM

There is no greater liar than a woman spurned .

It means he has psychological issues that have nothing to do with you. Did his parents fight a lot?

i feel a like bearded toad sometimes but my young Brazilian girlfriend loves my looks.

He´s ashamed about his small penis.