I think the vax ended my marriage | |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 12:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'd give anyone 10 to 1 odds that as soon as OP posts to Facebook about his new 20 year old girlfriend, his wife will suddenly discover he's the love of her life and want him back... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75930751 OP just needs a red convertible and a bleach blonde hussy from California to save his marriage... You know it's true... That's awesome, thanks for the chuckle. Not one for posting shit on FB, I do have an acct but used mainly for family comms and buy/sell. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 12:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I understand your situation because it's been largely the same thing for me in many ways. Although my wife didn't get the vaccine because I was so against it and didn't get our two youngest vaccinated, our three adult children did get the vaccine and they knew I wasn't happy about that. For us it was roughest because the leaders of our Church (I'm LDS) have been pushing the vaccine and my wife excuses them for that and I don't. Things got very bitter and for at least a year and I rarely left the basement because everyone was treating me like an apostate, but I tried to be patient (with varying degrees of success) and things have gotten much better in the last few months. She still doesn't like me talking about political things and criticizing our Church leaders, but she certainly knows what I think. But overall, things are much better. So I would maybe think about reconciling and trying to gradually rebuild things. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79559666 Jesus lived in a time of Roman occupation. We live in a similar time. How did Jesus navigate that? How would you expect a world wide church to navigate this? You are not an apostate for choosing not to follow Roman occupation, you did not pay your taxes to the Roman empire! I am sorry your family could not see that. OP this is terrible. Just keep swimming. Just keep trying. Her eliminating time with you was passive aggressive and painful. The traveling put fuel on the fire because the air was not cleared, and she was breathing in constant fumes all the while constant propaganda has been piped onto the radio, billboards and TV. Ever notice the government paid for all of that. The drug companies never advertised because they legally would have to claim the side effects. I was no help OP. I am just sorry. . That's what really fucks with me... was it the vax or was the vax just the catalyst? Catalyst defined ~ a substance that increases the rate of a chemical reaction without itself undergoing any permanent chemical change Um... it seems even more fitting for the situation now. |
Krakalakin
User ID: 80170009 United States 05/18/2022 12:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, this is a little lengthy but for context it has to be. Quoting: RJay It will be my 17th wedding anniversary in a couple weeks and I won't be with my wife. Three weeks ago my wife and I agreed that I should leave because she was going through changes and could not make our marriage priority. I know, so many people have the same sad story, I get that. The peculiar thing is how this all came about. So I was working out of town, home remodel work, and my wife texts me saying that our teenage daughters were thinking about getting the vax. I don't care if people get the vax but I myself will not, and I had worded that opinion many times to my wife. Shortly after being informed for the first time that our children showed interest in getting vaccinated, maybe a couple hours, I get another text stating that they had just finished up getting fucking vaccinated, that was a terrible day. My wife has pre morbidities including diabetes, which runs in her family, and a history of severe infections so I understood why she wanted the vax and supported that decision. So her getting jabbed was not the issue, it was the fact that she made the unilateral decision to get our children injected. So that was about six months ago. Up to that point we had a happy life, owned a house, had good cars and food on the table. Everyone we knew saw us as the happy old couple that would last forever, I was under the same impression. Since that dreadful day of jabs we fought on a regular basis, not even fights, more like her defending everyone but me. I would talk shit about people on TV and she would automatically go to their defense, shit like that. The main issue I was having was that she began eliminating time with me, I was lucky to get 30 minute out of her day. I'm one of those people that does not have a lot of friends, by choice. I'm in my mid 40s and don't need, nor want a "social life." Confronting her, not for the first time, about our lack of interaction was what brought on our seperation. I had become obsolete to her and had to leave, I agreed to this because it was torture being there, alone. Now there is a lot more to this story but the timeline started the day my family got the vax. I don't want to have to behead them but did promise, before I left, that if they became zombies I would. Anyone want to buy horse property in AZ? I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess none of you go to church. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 12:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hey man, I'm sorry this happened to you. Quoting: Mouse 80797560 Just remember that 80 percent of the people on this planet have no idea how the world works, or what true motives or intentions are behind events or program's. Women are also followers and require strong leadership and set boundaries. Ultimately people are people, and they will do what _they_ think is right. They have to deal with the consequences of their actions, even if it impacts others negatively. I informed my "wife" gf and showed her all the medical studies, reports, news articles, independent research papers, patents, to the risks and true motives of these therapies. So shes on board, and i gave her boy the "how the world really works speech". However my relationship with step daughter is poor, and out of my control. All I'm saying is, you can't save everyone. And sad to say, most are not worth it. That's why its going down like this. You can try to patch things up and try and hold onto what you got, and maybe emotionally distance yourself a bit but not in obvious way. internally. I don't know. I think patching it up is kinda far fetched at this point, not without causing resentment and discomfort for both of us. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 12:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, this is a little lengthy but for context it has to be. Quoting: RJay It will be my 17th wedding anniversary in a couple weeks and I won't be with my wife. Three weeks ago my wife and I agreed that I should leave because she was going through changes and could not make our marriage priority. I know, so many people have the same sad story, I get that. The peculiar thing is how this all came about. So I was working out of town, home remodel work, and my wife texts me saying that our teenage daughters were thinking about getting the vax. I don't care if people get the vax but I myself will not, and I had worded that opinion many times to my wife. Shortly after being informed for the first time that our children showed interest in getting vaccinated, maybe a couple hours, I get another text stating that they had just finished up getting fucking vaccinated, that was a terrible day. My wife has pre morbidities including diabetes, which runs in her family, and a history of severe infections so I understood why she wanted the vax and supported that decision. So her getting jabbed was not the issue, it was the fact that she made the unilateral decision to get our children injected. So that was about six months ago. Up to that point we had a happy life, owned a house, had good cars and food on the table. Everyone we knew saw us as the happy old couple that would last forever, I was under the same impression. Since that dreadful day of jabs we fought on a regular basis, not even fights, more like her defending everyone but me. I would talk shit about people on TV and she would automatically go to their defense, shit like that. The main issue I was having was that she began eliminating time with me, I was lucky to get 30 minute out of her day. I'm one of those people that does not have a lot of friends, by choice. I'm in my mid 40s and don't need, nor want a "social life." Confronting her, not for the first time, about our lack of interaction was what brought on our seperation. I had become obsolete to her and had to leave, I agreed to this because it was torture being there, alone. Now there is a lot more to this story but the timeline started the day my family got the vax. I don't want to have to behead them but did promise, before I left, that if they became zombies I would. Anyone want to buy horse property in AZ? I'm gonna go out on a limb here and guess none of you go to church. That is an affirm. She is an atheist and I am an agnostic. Funny thing is that she attracts religious types on a regular basis and even though they know her beliefs, or lack there if, they love hanging with her. Could be the challenge presented with "saving" her but wired none the less, to me. |
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User ID: 50899477 United States 05/18/2022 12:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So basically you're essentially a f****t because you allowed your children to get the experimental clot shot???? That's the problem you have no testicles. Also it's very important for a man to have other male friends regardless of if they are single or married. It makes you more attractive to women because you are less needy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82566293 Nobody wants to move to Arizona there is a water shortage you f****** moron. Wow, big man on the keyboard folks. If you read and understood the op you would realized that I did not allow the vaccination of my children. That was done while I was out of town working. Say more mean things, that's cool. Say more mean things, that's cool?? What the fuk are you 40 something going on 15? A Snowflake? What they said was that if you were the man in the marriage and had balls, the woman would never have gone against your wish not to have the kiddos death jabbed. She would have known there would be extreme hell to pay and wouldn't have dared to do it, essentially she would have respected you. Instead, while you are out of town, she goes out to the no-tell motel and is probably fucking your EX best friend. CUCKOLD Yeah, I'm a weak ass bitch. Click clack, what a mighty sword you wield. I have never understood why some people must always try to be hurtful. You can call me flower if you want. Pull your manbun tight and look for a like minded metrosexual flowerpal to go shopping with. She most likely found an alpha male who probably talks shit about you after "serving" your wiffff. Sorry but the truth hurts, it really does...oh and btw...I'm not really sorry either. Last Edited by Unruly on 05/18/2022 12:50 PM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78051634 United States 05/18/2022 12:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So basically you're essentially a f****t because you allowed your children to get the experimental clot shot???? That's the problem you have no testicles. Also it's very important for a man to have other male friends regardless of if they are single or married. It makes you more attractive to women because you are less needy. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82566293 Nobody wants to move to Arizona there is a water shortage you f****** moron. Wow, big man on the keyboard folks. If you read and understood the op you would realized that I did not allow the vaccination of my children. That was done while I was out of town working. Say more mean things, that's cool. People who respond like that, are not good hearted people, and should be ignored. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 12:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: RJay Wow, big man on the keyboard folks. If you read and understood the op you would realized that I did not allow the vaccination of my children. That was done while I was out of town working. Say more mean things, that's cool. Say more mean things, that's cool?? What the fuk are you 40 something going on 15? A Snowflake? What they said was that if you were the man in the marriage and had balls, the woman would never have gone against your wish not to have the kiddos death jabbed. She would have known there would be extreme hell to pay and wouldn't have dared to do it, essentially she would have respected you. Instead, while you are out of town, she goes out to the no-tell motel and is probably fucking your EX best friend. CUCKOLD Yeah, I'm a weak ass bitch. Click clack, what a mighty sword you wield. I have never understood why some people must always try to be hurtful. You can call me flower if you want. Pull your manbun tight and look for a like minded metrosexual flowerpal to go shopping with. She most likely found an alpha male who probably talks shit about you after "serving" your wiffff. Sorry but the truth hurts, it really does...oh and btw...I'm not really sorry either. :bigcruise: Was just putting a reply together for guys like you. If you wanna visit I'll be driving from Chicago to new Orleans here shortly, maybe you're along my route. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 12:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Fucking man bun, that's good. I've talked shit about beta ass guys for a long time. I come from an older stock of people, I was hardened by suffering and struggle. The thing about alphas is that they are not just stone cold killers, they are soft when needed and hard as fuck when necessary. |
Slipknotz
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 01:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get a new family. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 81721114 Find a younger hotter wife who isn't vaxxed and shares your values. Simple. Oh yeah, so simple. I'll just dial up my mail order bride and life will be grand. Yeah, not simple by any means and the last thing on my to do list. Marriage is a one time thing for me, I don't believe in second marriages. My belief/opinion only. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24711231 United States 05/18/2022 01:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The bibles warns a Christian not to marry a non-christian because lets face it, your life will be terrible on earth. Same goes for left and right. I dated a women for a bit and once we found out there is a deep divide between us as she was left winged and me right we fell apart. Luckily we weren't married. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 01:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The bibles warns a Christian not to marry a non-christian because lets face it, your life will be terrible on earth. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24711231 Same goes for left and right. I dated a women for a bit and once we found out there is a deep divide between us as she was left winged and me right we fell apart. Luckily we weren't married. That has also been a factor. She definitely leans left and I'm kinda an old school traditional guy. Opposites attract but maybe we were to far apart to begin with. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80176434 United States 05/18/2022 01:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be careful about divorce and custody issues because she could get you on abandonment if you just leave. She has probably looked into all that already. other than that Quoting: KuvaszLove START GETTING SOCIABLE NEVER put all your eggs in one basket That's horrible advice. Being "sociable" is what got him to marry his wife in the first place. Keeping a very small, very select group of REAL friends is much better than being a social butterfly. My girlfriend of 6 years is exactly the same as I am. We both don't like 98% of the people we meet, and we both share the same views on politics and the jab. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 83295430 United States 05/18/2022 01:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Well shit, what works for you bud? I told you my route of travel, you anywhere along that path? Well shit, no wonder ...you can't even pick a place to meet...LOLOLOL How the fuck am I suppose to pick a spot when I have no clue where you are. If you're able to just fly in to anywhere then by all means I will pick the spot. I am currently in Carol Stream, IL. Hard to fight in a place like this without some Karen calling the police but we can figure something out I'm sure. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79780865 Canada 05/18/2022 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The summary of this thread is... NO, the vax did not end your marriage, it was already full of rot and the vax exposed it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79780865 And I will also say there are so many people out there living a fake life. They tell themselves they are happy, they put on a smile for everyone, but then all it takes is something like covid/vax to OUT YOU. Poor OP, that is what it took and it was your WIFE you were in denial about. I had a friend do much the same, covid outed her and I dumped her and haven't talked to her for 2 years. She was just a casual friend though. |