minimum requirement act of cheating

Porn

Having a partner. Gotta start there

Unprotected anal til completion… anything less is just friends catching up

bimp

You are seriously a trash person

a look is enough for me and then chop chop the head off...

(Yet, at the same time...)

lol

Having a partner with BPD...

Porn or just making associations (facebook, email, video chats) with other women without your partner's knowledge.

Doing the same as your spouse.

My last BPD chick would wake up in the middle of the night and start crying because she had dreams that I was cheating on her... as I literally was laying there beside her.

Exchange of fluids or touching intimate parts outside or inside of clothing.

Hugs, cheek kisses, holding hands etcetera its fine as long they are good friends man or woman.

The physical act there are many beautiful flowers in the garden I just don’t have the desire to pluck them

Found out my now ex was talking to someone else online. His excuse was that he needed someone to talk to about our marital problems, after refusing to go to counseling, so there's that LOL

Last Edited by CatWhisperer on 05/19/2022 09:56 AM

Fantasizing about someone else.

If you are having a secret relationship of any kind and hide or lie about it to your partner , you are pretty much cheating. If you feel the need to hide it, you know its wrong, even if you try to justify that you are only friends.

Giving a blowjob is considered the "LA handshake". Therefore you aren't cheating until a load is busted into an unprotected womb. I'm not joking there are a bunch of nasty actresses and models running around Los Angeles who think this way.

If I do something that I cannot come home and tell my partner that I did, I've cheated.

I've cheated him out of having a partner that he can fully trust. It doesn't have to be sexual or involve another person.

If I run out and do cocaine all day long and hide it, I'm cheating him out of a faithful, transparent partner, and cheating him out of the opportunity to make an informed decision to stay with me on his own.

"Cheating" can be anything.

Eatin' ain't cheatin'!

You're ok with your wife or husband giving or receiving oral sex?

With me - yes, except that I don't have a spouse.

Nailed it!

Failing to get into a relationship that is OPEN to begin with. (when you know you enjoy sex with strangers ahead of time).

Last Edited by Butch DeFeo on 05/27/2022 04:06 PM