I'm dating for 6 weeks.. Its been years.. are presents still a thing in this phase ? | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79801894 United States 12/03/2022 07:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 73 old woman of "the old school". Yes, a small token would be appropriate. Flowers? A nice night on the town to her special restaurant (if you haven't already). A nice dress up place. Wear you best suit or tuxedo so she can dress up, too. Absolutely wine or champagne. I think corsages are out of style now except for proms. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 19876247 United States 12/03/2022 08:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you want to be romantic Buy something she would not buy herself Don’t get anything to cook or clean with No gift cards - it doesn’t express your thoughtfulness My husband and I were fairly serious by six weeks He took me to his company Christmas party - a very elaborate dinner party of 300 people and dancing like they used to have 20 years ago Two weeks later he gave me Diamond earrings (when he found out I had none) It’s not how long you’ve been dating - it’s how many times you have seen each other and how deeply you have communicated. We were a second time around couple - both divorced - both not playing |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 84872650 United States 12/03/2022 08:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or old fashioned ? I am 51 and she is 46... I don't want to force things or make her think I have a crush on her Quoting: Anonymous Coward 152686 I like to gift something small to please her but not come off as pushy YEAH..IT SHOULD BE IN REFERENCE TO SOMETHING SHE MENTIONED THAT SHE LIKES..SO, IT APPEARS THAT YOU'VE BEEN MORE THAN LISTENING TO HER. BUT, NOT LIKE..TAMPONS..UH,CAPS |
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Believe-Death-Burial-Resurrection User ID: 84623375 United States 12/03/2022 08:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or old fashioned ? I am 51 and she is 46... I don't want to force things or make her think I have a crush on her Quoting: Anonymous Coward 152686 I like to gift something small to please her but not come off as pushy YEAH..IT SHOULD BE IN REFERENCE TO SOMETHING SHE MENTIONED THAT SHE LIKES..SO, IT APPEARS THAT YOU'VE BEEN MORE THAN LISTENING TO HER. BUT, NOT LIKE..TAMPONS..UH,CAPS Oh my gosh LOL Tampons come much later in the dating game Kudos to you OP Hope there are many second dates Last Edited by SoonerMagic on 12/03/2022 08:15 PM -|-Grace through Faith-|- |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 84872650 United States 12/03/2022 08:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or old fashioned ? I am 51 and she is 46... I don't want to force things or make her think I have a crush on her Quoting: Anonymous Coward 152686 I like to gift something small to please her but not come off as pushy YEAH..IT SHOULD BE IN REFERENCE TO SOMETHING SHE MENTIONED THAT SHE LIKES..SO, IT APPEARS THAT YOU'VE BEEN MORE THAN LISTENING TO HER. BUT, NOT LIKE..TAMPONS..UH,CAPS Oh my gosh LOL Tampons come much later in the dating game Kudos to you OP Hope there are many second dates R U SEEING ANYONE? HOW BOUT UH MOVIE? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71872921 United States 12/03/2022 08:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A modest bouquet of flowers is a sweet gesture. If you live near each other Trader Joe's or Wegmans or similar in your area have beautiful floral departments and very affordable. Plus a variety of styles so you can pick something modern and elegant or sweet and country style depending on what you think she'd like. Or if you know she likes a certain kind of chocolates or a beverage whether it be prosecco or white claw, maybe a small gift of those. If you're looking ahead towards Christmas, something nice but small depending on the kind of person she is. Personally at 55 I don't think you can ever go wrong with nice socks or gloves with other person is male or female. Just don't get the gripper kind if you don't want her to think you think she's old. But then again I'm not exactly a pro at this having only dated about four people in my whole life. I'm just speaking from the female perspective. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 75178015 United States 12/03/2022 08:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Or old fashioned ? I am 51 and she is 46... I don't want to force things or make her think I have a crush on her Quoting: Anonymous Coward 152686 I like to gift something small to please her but not come off as pushy You should find out what you have in common first, but a nice dinner should suffice on the first date. |