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For all you young adults, this is one secret I learned

 
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I'm in my early 40s now, and when I look back at age 18 to present, I noticed that there were several people who magically showed up to guide me at various points. I had what seemed like an impossible career/interest goal for me when I was 18, although my intention was strong. I can see now that these people showed at some of the least expected places. The first happened when I was working at a Walmart. I hated the job due to boredom, but I met someone who happened to be the father of a very successful person who I was trying to imitate. He gave me some very good advice. I later met someone near the end of my university tenure. He was already beginning to be successful at his business then, but now he's one of the most well known in his field. We still keep in touch. There was another person I met later at a restaurant. There were others I don't need to mention.

One thing I want to be clear about is, if you truly had an intention to do something, people will show up in your life. The trick is, you have to be ready for them. I wasn't ready for all the opportunities that came into my life. I couldn't recognize them all at the time. But I did for a few of them. If you hold on to your intention and just keep a lookout for these people, you never know where it could lead. People almost show up as guiding angels, but only if you're ready for them. Hard lesson I learned, I hope someone can benefit from reading this.
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I'm in my early 40s now, and when I look back at age 18 to present, I noticed that there were several people who magically showed up to guide me at various points. I had what seemed like an impossible career/interest goal for me when I was 18, although my intention was strong. I can see now that these people showed at some of the least expected places. The first happened when I was working at a Walmart. I hated the job due to boredom, but I met someone who happened to be the father of a very successful person who I was trying to imitate. He gave me some very good advice. I later met someone near the end of my university tenure. He was already beginning to be successful at his business then, but now he's one of the most well known in his field. We still keep in touch. There was another person I met later at a restaurant. There were others I don't need to mention.

One thing I want to be clear about is, if you truly had an intention to do something, people will show up in your life. The trick is, you have to be ready for them. I wasn't ready for all the opportunities that came into my life. I couldn't recognize them all at the time. But I did for a few of them. If you hold on to your intention and just keep a lookout for these people, you never know where it could lead. People almost show up as guiding angels, but only if you're ready for them. Hard lesson I learned, I hope someone can benefit from reading this.
 Quoting: StayCurious


Yeah, it’s called networking. Who you know is more important than what you know, or was brainwashed with in ”school”.
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Networking is part of it, but it goes far beyond that. It's about attracting the extremely rare people who can teach you something you don't know. A good environment is helpful, for sure, but you can meet these people everywhere in the most least expected of places.

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You are correct 100000% Opie

Not going to get into details- nobody time for that, but

Make intentions. Be patient. Let things unfold without expectation. Play the long game, things will take time… I don’t post much, but this is important.

Synchronicity is real. Be ready. Stay humble. .
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Don't forget to keep your ass out of jail!
So many times I was very close to doing the wrong thing or getting away with something that I shouldn't have done. I feel very luck that I was able to retired at age 50, 16 years ago.
I was an Air Traffic Controller for the FAA. A great job that was never boring. It was very difficult for the first 3 years while training. So many time I just wanted to quit. Thankfully I made through.
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Networking is part of it, but it goes far beyond that. It's about attracting the extremely rare people who can teach you something you don't know. A good environment is helpful, for sure, but you can meet these people everywhere in the most least expected of places.
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I'm in my early 40s now, and when I look back at age 18 to present, I noticed that there were several people who magically showed up to guide me at various points. I had what seemed like an impossible career/interest goal for me when I was 18, although my intention was strong. I can see now that these people showed at some of the least expected places. The first happened when I was working at a Walmart. I hated the job due to boredom, but I met someone who happened to be the father of a very successful person who I was trying to imitate. He gave me some very good advice. I later met someone near the end of my university tenure. He was already beginning to be successful at his business then, but now he's one of the most well known in his field. We still keep in touch. There was another person I met later at a restaurant. There were others I don't need to mention.

One thing I want to be clear about is, if you truly had an intention to do something, people will show up in your life. The trick is, you have to be ready for them. I wasn't ready for all the opportunities that came into my life. I couldn't recognize them all at the time. But I did for a few of them. If you hold on to your intention and just keep a lookout for these people, you never know where it could lead. People almost show up as guiding angels, but only if you're ready for them. Hard lesson I learned, I hope someone can benefit from reading this.
 Quoting: StayCurious

This is an amazing, valuable, sincere gem of advice -- the type of post that's worth putting up with/wading thru hundreds of Satanic sh*t/troll posts to come across -- as is sadly often the ratio here on GLP. Thank you for sharing this!

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Thanks OP.
This was timely and, in its own way, a dose of what you just spoke of.

Thank You :)
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Same story here OP. Not a rich man but broke half a million USD for the first time this year (personal net income). My experience is same as yours....people come into your life that help "steer" you down a path if you're open to it and willing to act on it.
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The book The Alchemist is along that same theme. Short, easy read.
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One of the wisest pieces of advice that I was given early in my career was "find the hardest and least desirable thing to do and get good at it and you'll always be in demand".

Works every time.
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either u inherited riches

or ur a broke stupid fuk


which one is it dikfus?
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"When the student is ready, the teacher will arrive."
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Excellent advice, OP.

I have never met any of the important people who have influenced my life at trade shows, conferences, or work. It's always at a time and place when I least expect it.
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"When the student is ready, the teacher will arrive."
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This.
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Older people will tell you things that you really disagree with. Be gracious enough to understand you lack the wisdom of their experience. Something’s may not seem logical until you have lived awhile.

Listen to the wisdom of your elders and strongly consider how your lack of experience and wisdom might taint your own thoughts.

Wisdom is often gold.
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Thank you all for your kind comments. I can see that many of you have also had this experience. I wish someone had told me this when I was young. Just trying to prepare anyone out there who might be curious.
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I posted this exact same advice about 10 yrs ago - in my case I missed all the 'angels' but can clearly see looking back that there were a bunch of people who were trying to guide me along a certain routes - I was just too dense and stupid to engage with them properly.
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I am that person in my own life
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I'm in my early 40s now, and when I look back at age 18 to present, I noticed that there were several people who magically showed up to guide me at various points. I had what seemed like an impossible career/interest goal for me when I was 18, although my intention was strong. I can see now that these people showed at some of the least expected places. The first happened when I was working at a Walmart. I hated the job due to boredom, but I met someone who happened to be the father of a very successful person who I was trying to imitate. He gave me some very good advice. I later met someone near the end of my university tenure. He was already beginning to be successful at his business then, but now he's one of the most well known in his field. We still keep in touch. There was another person I met later at a restaurant. There were others I don't need to mention.

One thing I want to be clear about is, if you truly had an intention to do something, people will show up in your life. The trick is, you have to be ready for them. I wasn't ready for all the opportunities that came into my life. I couldn't recognize them all at the time. But I did for a few of them. If you hold on to your intention and just keep a lookout for these people, you never know where it could lead. People almost show up as guiding angels, but only if you're ready for them. Hard lesson I learned, I hope someone can benefit from reading this.
 Quoting: StayCurious


Yeah the Buddhists say when the student is ready, the teacher appears. Something like that.

I tell my kids, what you believe is what you receive. You get back what you put out.
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Networking is part of it, but it goes far beyond that. It's about attracting the extremely rare people who can teach you something you don't know. A good environment is helpful, for sure, but you can meet these people everywhere in the most least expected of places.
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Yes, exactly. It's called NETWORKING. That is exactly what "life networking" is.

You mentioned you were 40? I'm 55 so I understand I'm not your target audience. Just trying to help simplify things.

I've tried to instill in my children that:

* You can always learn at least 1 thing from everybody no matter how stupid you think they are so always pay attention to everyone and everything.

* If you meet people that can possibly be an asset to you in the future, regardless of what industry they are in, be it either what they can teach you or who they know, those are the relationships you cultivate. It's your job to put the work in so make sure YOU are keeping in touch even if they are far away.

* If people are a liability to you, even if they are family, you must cut them loose.
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Networking is part of it, but it goes far beyond that. It's about attracting the extremely rare people who can teach you something you don't know. A good environment is helpful, for sure, but you can meet these people everywhere in the most least expected of places.
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Yes, exactly. It's called NETWORKING. That is exactly what "life networking" is.

You mentioned you were 40? I'm 55 so I understand I'm not your target audience. Just trying to help simplify things.

I've tried to instill in my children that:

* You can always learn at least 1 thing from everybody no matter how stupid you think they are so always pay attention to everyone and everything.

* If you meet people that can possibly be an asset to you in the future, regardless of what industry they are in, be it either what they can teach you or who they know, those are the relationships you cultivate. It's your job to put the work in so make sure YOU are keeping in touch even if they are far away.

* If people are a liability to you, even if they are family, you must cut them loose.
 Quoting: measure


That's definitely good advice.

It's never really too late, unless you're on your last limbs sort of thing. Just don't fall into the trap of believing you're old. Great things happen to people later in life.
Ideally, it's when we're young adults that we would start taking these steps. But honestly, I missed on many chances when I was young, but I fortunate to take advantage of a few of them.

That guy I met at Walmart when I was 18, I asked him why he would even want to work there. He said he was "just looking for something to do". This was in a small town too.





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