Can you ever get even with your cheating ex? If you’re still truly madly deeply in love with the person?

you need a rebound...usually they create an entirely new timeline of mistakes

Just pin her down and shit on her face.

Worked for Katipo.

Lol cucked

If this is real, f...ing move on.

OPZ CHEATING EX MY BIGGGG 10 INCHER

Thats fucked.

No escape...

Ever....

answer: no, it is not real, and has no value what so ever.

However, to answer the question:

If you are so fucking stupid, that you believe that
the hooker "loves" you, and you love the hooker, then you are a fucking moron that deserves her.

As far as getting "even". Here is how:

Stay with her. Subjecting her whore ass, with your stupidity for life, is your revenge on her.

Job well done mate.

15 years? What a waste of your life.

Go fuck some dumb bitch and pay for it.

Who cares. You are wasting so much of your life.

15 yrs. Damnnnn brooo. She had that good loving and put it on you.

There's no easy answer to this.


If my wife ever cheated on me I'd be beyond devastated. Probably would not recover much like you so I get it.

I'd of course kick her out and divorce her ass because I doubt play that shit but it'd be miserable and I'd long for her the rest of my life.

Hope you find someone that can help lessen that hurt.

Cheaters sit on your bottomless pit mind.

They’ll come back in your mind again and again when you feeling down sad and depressed.

Our brain machine is faulty and tend to make connections with bad situations events with your emotion.

You never heard this op,

"The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else"

Is there any way you can see what she looks like now?

My first love, who cheated on me, was the same. I dreamed about him (literally) for 15 years. Until I ran into him in person. He had aged, not altogether well. And I was like "THIS GUY?! I can't get over THIS guy?" And the dreams stopped. Thank goodness.

Maybe picture her with 20 extra pounds and bad hair. I hope something works for you. Heartache is no fun.

Are you a child of divorce and grew up in a one parent household?

Oh that's a good suggestion too

And/or are you able to see, maybe she is being tortured in love by someone else?

May bring some satisfaction...

especially if that someone else is a hypocritical, phony, fucking faker! :)

These thoughts might be common after 15 days..maybe even 15 weeks.

But you're still like this after 15 years?

WTF is wrong with you?

Transmute the loss and song dedication to God instead- yearn for God just like this. So-

God is calling, are you going to answer?

I know a chick who is still wasting away over a dude from 33 years ago

impossible to convince her that he ain't coming back
and that the time to move forward is waaay overdue

Yep, it is mental illness. You are experiencing revenge obsession, a known trait of clinical narcissists and untreated borderlines. Your brain is wired differently that doesn't allow conflict resolution after a "narc/borderline" injury.

You don't love her. Love and the intentional - and, in your case, obsessive - harm ("get even", revenge) of others cannot coexist in the same space. Sounds like you don't even know what love is.

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This is very good advice. Have you given it a fair shot OP?

I'm using this lol...

You still have a chance. Reach out and go for it!

That's so sad, 33 years, wow.

My gawd, did he go off to war or something

or did he move on with someone else??

My cheating ex makes my skin crawl and I've never been happier to be rid of someone

If you're concerned about getting even, then a) you aren't in love with them, and b) you likely never were.

The rest is your issue, and why in hell would you bring it up here?

Silly.

Yes crabsdotcom

You're only hurting yourself. It's poison to keep it going and you will take it to your grave. Many times the other person is enjoying their life and you're wasting yours. The best revenge is live well!

Why is that fucked?

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all....

Lol there is an ex girlfriend I obsessed over for years and years...
A family member saw her at an event recently and took a picture of her discreetly and showed it to me...
Hahaha!