Is this wrong?

Maybe he likes to watch?

Tough thing to happen but this is the best possible situation that could happen for the ex and their children together.

Nothing wrong with it. Guess if the woman is just virtue signaling videos for gold stars, that could be wrong. But if it is working out for those involved than I say yay for them.

Leave it to glp to take something beautiful and Sully it. The woman marries a guy she's in love with him he ends up with a debilitating to be disease that binds them to a wheelchair and puts extreme pressure on their family and their life for her to find love in a man who is taking an active part in caring for her husband who went through such a horrible thing that's a beautiful story it's a hell of a lot more beautiful than all this trans bullshit

They can swap fuck stories...

Love comes in may fashions. I would be a fool to think I can always care for myself.

Oh Ruby don't take your love to town.

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Yes it's wrong. That man should be in a special needs home. Instead you have a woman and a man suckling off the system getting paid to take care of him.
If you wonder where your tax money goes in taxes look no further than this couple. I'm sure that disabled man gets a check once a month they keep. Plus the wife and husband get checks for being full time caregivers. Add in food stamps and power bill and you have a pretty decent income every month. Sure you have to empty a diaper or colostomy bag but eh it's for the money.

The woman has been the legal guardian of the disabled man for 15 years, taking care of him instead of putting him into a facility. She divorced him, but still cared for him. She is not evil for not wanting to spend the rest of her life married to someone she has to treat as a son I stead of a husband. She didn't abandon him and I am sure husband one is grateful that his ex wife can find joy and love that he cannot provide her.

New husband sounds like a wonderful man.

She's making a Harem. That's a big "why not?"

You have obviously never cared for a fully disabled person using government assistance. It is so much work and the government does not pay for 24 hour care in most situations, leaving family and friends to tend to them 12 to 18 hours a day.

It is exhausting, disgusting, emotionally draining, and no amount of assistance ever covers all the bills.

It is far cheaper to offer financial assistance to family who can provide better quality and cost of care than putting someone in an institution to rot away at a cost of several million a year to the taxpayers.

That is called adulatory, burn in hell.

Very evil woman. My mom took care of my dad for 25 years after he got disabled from a car accident.

Was she still raising children and trying to make ends meet?

The ends meet but don't connect properly. She's doing it wrong

I'm friends with my exes. My ex-husband is one of my best friends, truth be told.

I've never had anyone hate me, never in my life been called a bitch by a man (except for here, but ya'll don't count), so I've never had a problem staying friends with people.

All of the qualities that were there in the beginning that created the friendship were still there after the living-together relationship was over. That doesn't just disappear.

My ex stops by and hangs out once a week or so, calls when something exciting happens in his life.

I don't think it's weird, but everyone else who needs there to be a "bad guy" after a breakup thinks it's weird.

If everyone's happy, that's all that matters really. The mental health of everyone involved is first and foremost.

We don't always have to assume the worst, but that seems to be the norm these days, assume the worst and that there can't possibly be a goodhearted explanation...and then so much negativity.

Sad world we live in, but it's not always bad. Evil doesn't exist everywhere.

She made a promise when she married her first husband through sickness, and in health till death do they part. She’s honoring that vow in my humble opinion

If its right I want to be wrong :(

Except for the fact that she divorced him...you know...the whole purpose of the vow.

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From a Biblical perspective, yes it is wrong, unless the disabled man was a cheater in the marriage. Husband #1 is aware he has been replaced, which is sad. Yes, there is money involved in caring for the disabled, therefore there is no virtue in the wife caring for her Ex. Only God knows her motives.


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I'm sure if the roles were reversed, and the woman was disabled, and the man divorced her so he could screw other women in their marital home, the GLP women would have a different opinion.

They would say the guy was being selfish and committing adultery, and that if he really loved her he would forgo being with another woman until his wife passed away.

If her ex is not against it and not "held captive" and he is not mistreated or depressed with the arrangement, then I would say it's weird, but I don't see the cruelty part?

Also it doesn't say when she divorced him or how long after she remarried, etc.

it's wrong and downright scary for the disabled former husband.

What a HORRIBLY nightmarish dilemma psychologically and emotionally for this man.

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The Bible doesn’t say if your husband becomes sick & can not perform husbandly duties, divorce him & get a new husband. It means to STAY married in sickness & in health. With State funds, she can afford to hire help. If husband disabled is cognitively aware of what she has done, his heart is broken.

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I would be concerned that he wants out of the situation but can't communicate it to anyone. There's just not enough information.

that was fucking funny

Stew Peters is right.

It's evil.

As long as he is being well taken care of. Of course she probably has a good life insurance policy on him. No judgments here. Everyone should myob.

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