Why Does It Seem That Women Are Attracted To Bad Boys - Here's Why.... | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 43887335 United States 07/26/2013 08:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You ALL generalize women, this is what society wants you to think about women. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 44010757 There are all types of women out there and they like different things, each women is a whole different world, don't generalize or you will fall on what is wrong in society today a whole wrong! Don't be fool and blind, there is good out there and always was. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 07/26/2013 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | women are attracted to those things they feel sorry, like pets, old people and losers (to their eyes). it gives them a greater sense of satisfaction. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 44096754 I've not heard that theory, why do you think it gives them a greater sense of satisfaction? Maybe they want to be the one to make the man happy/fulfilled. It gives the woman a sense of purpose since women are born nurturers or at least supposed to be. Women are so more confused now days thanks to tv and media/hollywood and print ads/magazines ect. I can believe that. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24608743 United States 07/26/2013 08:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not At All - Off Topic... "" Toxoplasmosis - or some other mind altering (not yet medically described) parasitic organism infecting its victim? Toxoplasmosis is a parasitic disease caused by the protozoan Toxoplasma gondii. The parasite infects most genera of warm-blooded animals, including humans, but the primary host is the felid (cat) family. Animals are infected by eating infected meat, by ingestion, ("Absorbtion") and by transmission from mother to fetus. Cats are the primary source of infection to human hosts, although contact with raw meat, especially pork, is a more significant source of human infections in some countries. Fecal contamination of hands is a significant risk factor. T. gondii is capable of infecting virtually all warm-blooded animals. In humans, it is one of the most common parasites; serological studies estimate that up to a third of the global population has been exposed to and may be chronically infected with T. gondii, although infection rates differ significantly from country to country. ? "" NOT off Topic... The Toxo parasite infests the Rodents Brain, causing it to lose its aversion to Cats. The Toxo parasite is KNOWN to cause Rodents to become attracted to the scent of Cat Urine. (Mind-Control) The Rodent will be attracted to the Cat, the Cat will Kill and eat the Rodent. The Toxo Parasite will then infect the Cat. The Toxo parasite can only reproduce in the So, Toxo (or some other parasite) has infested the Females Brain. The Female loses its aversion to the Malignant or the proverbial "Bad Boy". The "Bad Boy" contributes the "Part B" of a toxic mixture. Who can know what kind of behavior abnormalities may be caused or contributed to by this and other Parasites? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The parasite can cause encephalitis (inflammation of the brain) and neurologic diseases, and can affect the heart, liver, inner ears, and eyes (chorioretinitis). Recent research has also linked toxoplasmosis with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and schizophrenia. Numerous studies found a positive correlation between latent toxoplasmosis and suicidal behavior in humans. Another study placed seroprevalence in the US at 22.5%. The same study claimed a seroprevalence of 75% in El Salvador. Official assessment in Great Britain places the number of infections at about 350,000 a year. |
H0NEYBEE
(OP) User ID: 39160120 United States 07/26/2013 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: H0NEYBEE I've not heard that theory, why do you think it gives them a greater sense of satisfaction? Maybe they want to be the one to make the man happy/fulfilled. It gives the woman a sense of purpose since women are born nurturers or at least supposed to be. Women are so more confused now days thanks to tv and media/hollywood and print ads/magazines ect. I can believe that. I can believe that also. "I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." Mother Teresa America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world. We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44078530 Thailand 07/26/2013 08:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One word: testosterone Bad boys are cocky, more aggressive, sexually promiscuous and more attractive to women simply because they have higher levels of testosterone. These traits also represent a more dominate male who might win in a fight against another male. It's all biological |
H0NEYBEE
(OP) User ID: 39160120 United States 07/26/2013 08:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not At All - Off Topic... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24608743 "" Toxoplasmosis - or some other mind altering (not yet medically described) parasitic organism infecting its victim? Toxoplasmosis is a parasitic disease caused by the protozoan Toxoplasma gondii. The parasite infects most genera of warm-blooded animals, including humans, but the primary host is the felid (cat) family. Animals are infected by eating infected meat, by ingestion, ("Absorbtion") and by transmission from mother to fetus. Cats are the primary source of infection to human hosts, although contact with raw meat, especially pork, is a more significant source of human infections in some countries. Fecal contamination of hands is a significant risk factor. T. gondii is capable of infecting virtually all warm-blooded animals. In humans, it is one of the most common parasites; serological studies estimate that up to a third of the global population has been exposed to and may be chronically infected with T. gondii, although infection rates differ significantly from country to country. ? "" NOT off Topic... The Toxo parasite infests the Rodents Brain, causing it to lose its aversion to Cats. The Toxo parasite is KNOWN to cause Rodents to become attracted to the scent of Cat Urine. (Mind-Control) The Rodent will be attracted to the Cat, the Cat will Kill and eat the Rodent. The Toxo Parasite will then infect the Cat. The Toxo parasite can only reproduce in the So, Toxo (or some other parasite) has infested the Females Brain. The Female loses its aversion to the Malignant or the proverbial "Bad Boy". The "Bad Boy" contributes the "Part B" of a toxic mixture. Who can know what kind of behavior abnormalities may be caused or contributed to by this and other Parasites? ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ The parasite can cause encephalitis (inflammation of the brain) and neurologic diseases, and can affect the heart, liver, inner ears, and eyes (chorioretinitis). Recent research has also linked toxoplasmosis with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, and schizophrenia. Numerous studies found a positive correlation between latent toxoplasmosis and suicidal behavior in humans. Another study placed seroprevalence in the US at 22.5%. The same study claimed a seroprevalence of 75% in El Salvador. Official assessment in Great Britain places the number of infections at about 350,000 a year. Okay, my bad...I'm sorry, I see the point you are making. "I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." Mother Teresa America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world. We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr. |
Hardwired
User ID: 44016435 United States 07/26/2013 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh crap, the so-called "nice guys" are going on again about how they never get the girl. Meanwhile, low-key girls who don't flash their sexuality are being overlooked by these "nice guys" who only seem to chase after the same sluts as the bad boys. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43682061 Exactly. My girlfriend hates the thug types. She dates older men mostly because the thug types who get off on (c)rap music are all under 30. Now that she is 32, her attraction runs to men over 45. As a teen and twenty-something, she had a rule of no one under 30. If a 'nice guy' chases some slut for her sexiness, he will very likely lose out to some thug puppy-boy, the type who will piss on the floor, chew her shoes, and then whimper so she grabs him and "Ohhhh! Puppy! Puppy! Youse so cuuute!" Intelligent, practical women, who aren't as concerned with sexiness, gravitate towards the 'nice guys'. Bad Boyz don't fit into their scheme of things. Finally...the whole idea of "opposites attract" was created by divorce lawyers. |
H0NEYBEE
(OP) User ID: 39160120 United States 07/26/2013 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." Mother Teresa America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world. We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr. |
Chuckie
User ID: 30723337 United States 07/26/2013 08:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | hell no. There are bad boys, gays, nerds And nice guys that put on fronts. hell I am a nice guy...but an annoyance to the straits...since I let them know I care not what they think...and they HATE it...kinda fun. There are really few nice men out there...in both categories....but some like the edgy, rather useless bunch, and others the smart nerd type. Once you all figure out the problem....enlighten us |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1550123 United States 07/26/2013 08:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's the absolute pinnacle of insanity. Wanting someone who needs to be changed, instead of going after what you should in the first place. It may sound strange, but as a nice guy, I DETEST women. You are probably attracted to bad girls/girls you can't get. There are plenty of ones you could get but you are oblivious to them. It works both way. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 43887335 United States 07/26/2013 08:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One word: testosterone Quoting: Anonymous Coward 44078530 Bad boys are cocky, more aggressive, sexually promiscuous and more attractive to women simply because they have higher levels of testosterone. These traits also represent a more dominate male who might win in a fight against another male. It's all biological |
Chuckie
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Chuckie
User ID: 30723337 United States 07/26/2013 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh crap, the so-called "nice guys" are going on again about how they never get the girl. Meanwhile, low-key girls who don't flash their sexuality are being overlooked by these "nice guys" who only seem to chase after the same sluts as the bad boys. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 43682061 Exactly. My girlfriend hates the thug types. She dates older men mostly because the thug types who get off on (c)rap music are all under 30. Now that she is 32, her attraction runs to men over 45. As a teen and twenty-something, she had a rule of no one under 30. If a 'nice guy' chases some slut for her sexiness, he will very likely lose out to some thug puppy-boy, the type who will piss on the floor, chew her shoes, and then whimper so she grabs him and "Ohhhh! Puppy! Puppy! Youse so cuuute!" Intelligent, practical women, who aren't as concerned with sexiness, gravitate towards the 'nice guys'. Bad Boyz don't fit into their scheme of things. Finally...the whole idea of "opposites attract" was created by divorce lawyers. Your girlfriend dates older men. either you are an older men...or your GF is a slut... So which is it? |
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Deplorable CatRWall User ID: 6493463 United States 07/26/2013 08:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My realization was that women don't choose who they feel attracted to. It's something that just happens -- an emotional response to certain things men say and do. Quoting: H0NEYBEE In other words, women don't choose to feel the emotion called "attraction" for jerks any more than you choose to feel the emotion called attraction for beautiful women. Sure, some women do feel attraction for extremely handsome men, but it's been proven that they feel a much stronger attraction to specific personality traits and behaviors than they do for physical looks. It's not that women are attracted to the abusive, mean, negative part of the "bad boy” personality. I think that these jerks just happen to also possess several associated, attractive qualities that are so powerful they literally make women blind to the abuse. Women rationalize away and excuse the abusive behavior because they want these other qualities so badly: unpredictability, uncontrollability, challenging dominance. When presented correctly, they trigger the natural attraction mechanism inside of women. And "bad boys" have taken these natural qualities that are so attractive to women and made an art out of them. Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren't so sure. Life is about balance. Most men fall into either the bad boy or the nice guy category. The ideal man is neither, but walks that fine line between the two. Until men learn how to do this, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones. Really interesting articles...take the time to read. Why Girls Like Bad Boys & More [link to www.askmen.com] 12 Reasons Women Don't Date Nice Guys [link to www.yourtango.com] Oklahoma mom tried to sell two kids on Facebook for $4,000 so she could pay boyfriend's bail Misty VanHorn, 22, is accused of offering up for sale online her two babies, one who is 2 years old and the other who is 10 months old. Read more: [link to www.nydailynews.com] One of my male friends had this to say on facebook: "Men need to stop being so freaking sweet!!! Girls say they like that crap, but they lie!!! There can be a sweet guy and a thug standing together. The sweet guy can have 5 degrees, be funny, have charisma, good looking and money. The thug is a loser with a prison record, has beat his last 5 girl friends and is a drug dealer - THUG WINS THE GIRL nine out of 10 times. SEEN IT!!! LIVED IT!! Girls like bad guys. GIRLS SUCK!!!!!" Do songs like this and the media make this issue more of a problem? I voted yes, but what you have to realize is that it's not the BADness women are attracted to. It's the cuteness. It's CUTE boys that women are attracted to. What's the connection between bad and cute? Cute boys can get away with being bad! |
H0NEYBEE
(OP) User ID: 39160120 United States 07/26/2013 08:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seriously? This is a red karma response that I get from this thread? "Shut the fuck up. You're a fucking whore, that's all. Giving excuses for sluts and smuts. Fucking disgusting" I don't give excuses for anyone. This is just a thread, open for conversation. I'm not a whore, you have no idea about my life and you can't even leave your name. You sound like a real angry person to me. I've been accused of being old fashioned by my own siblings...they will laugh when they hear this one!! "I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." Mother Teresa America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world. We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr. |
Chuckie
User ID: 30723337 United States 07/26/2013 08:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seriously? This is a red karma response that I get from this thread? Quoting: H0NEYBEE "Shut the fuck up. You're a fucking whore, that's all. Giving excuses for sluts and smuts. Fucking disgusting" I don't give excuses for anyone. This is just a thread, open for conversation. I'm not a whore, you have no idea about my life and you can't even leave your name. You sound like a real angry person to me. I've been accused of being old fashioned by my own siblings...they will laugh when they hear this one!! you can always look into the lesbionic crowd...they are all over food network so you know they make more than fish and tuna....you make like gash... |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 44102915 Japan 07/26/2013 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A woman wants a guy who can protect her. There are more. A woman wants a man who can provide. Even if she can provide for herself. Stingy guys don't get anything in return. A woman wants a guy who isn't afraid to get dirty, but cleans himself well including his fingernails. A woman wants a guy with a big fat.. You know. A woman wants a confident guy. A guy who sticks with what he loves and doesn't lie or pretend to love something he hates. |
Chuckie
User ID: 30723337 United States 07/26/2013 08:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seriously? This is a red karma response that I get from this thread? Quoting: H0NEYBEE "Shut the fuck up. You're a fucking whore, that's all. Giving excuses for sluts and smuts. Fucking disgusting" I don't give excuses for anyone. This is just a thread, open for conversation. I'm not a whore, you have no idea about my life and you can't even leave your name. You sound like a real angry person to me. I've been accused of being old fashioned by my own siblings...they will laugh when they hear this one!! honeybee, you have to have a hard, thick skin here. These people come here because they do not have the balls to say crap to peoples faces...internet girls I call them. They threaten to beat you, call you names like they are in the third grade...BUT, you need to come here for entertainment value only.... Say something OUTRAGEOUS....these lowlifes go CRAZY!!! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 16072914 United States 07/26/2013 08:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seriously? This is a red karma response that I get from this thread? Quoting: H0NEYBEE "Shut the fuck up. You're a fucking whore, that's all. Giving excuses for sluts and smuts. Fucking disgusting" I don't give excuses for anyone. This is just a thread, open for conversation. I'm not a whore, you have no idea about my life and you can't even leave your name. You sound like a real angry person to me. I've been accused of being old fashioned by my own siblings...they will laugh when they hear this one!! honeybee, you have to have a hard, thick skin here. These people come here because they do not have the balls to say crap to peoples faces...internet girls I call them. They threaten to beat you, call you names like they are in the third grade...BUT, you need to come here for entertainment value only.... Say something OUTRAGEOUS....these lowlifes go CRAZY!!! Piss off FAG! |
H0NEYBEE
(OP) User ID: 39160120 United States 07/26/2013 08:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Seriously? This is a red karma response that I get from this thread? Quoting: H0NEYBEE "Shut the fuck up. You're a fucking whore, that's all. Giving excuses for sluts and smuts. Fucking disgusting" I don't give excuses for anyone. This is just a thread, open for conversation. I'm not a whore, you have no idea about my life and you can't even leave your name. You sound like a real angry person to me. I've been accused of being old fashioned by my own siblings...they will laugh when they hear this one!! you can always look into the lesbionic crowd...they are all over food network so you know they make more than fish and tuna....you make like gash... I haven't been a member of GLP for very long, so this kind of behavior is still out there for me... "I alone cannot change the world, but I can cast a stone across the waters to create many ripples." Mother Teresa America-We represent 5% of the world, yet we represent 25% of the incarcerated world. We are no longer the "land of the free" we are now the "largest prison nation in the world." "Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.” Martin Luther King,Jr. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 31580692 United States 07/26/2013 08:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "One of my male friends had this to say on facebook: Men need to stop being so freaking sweet!!! Girls say they like that crap, but they lie!!! There can be a sweet guy and a thug standing together. The sweet guy can have 5 degrees, be funny, have charisma, good looking and money. The thug is a loser with a prison record, has beat his last 5 girl friends and is a drug dealer - THUG WINS THE GIRL nine out of 10 times. SEEN IT!!! LIVED IT!! Girls like bad guys. GIRLS SUCK!!!!!" Seriously OP this is a pretty stupid analogy. I don't think women are attracted to bums, criminals, or ppl who will screw over their life. The "sweet guy" as long as he is charismatic and doesn't act like a bitch will ALWAYS get the ladies is he has all of the things mentioned aboved. I don't know what women your friend knows to be saying this. |